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The yearning to explore the alternative lifestyle has been a part of me for as long as I can remember. And fortunately for me, I've been lucky enough to be able to explore it for much of my adult life.
As a Dom, I can be both very physical and very sensual. To me, the session is all about exploring sensations, whether they be harsh or soft.
This not only extends a session to our mutual benefit, but also allows me to better explore your limits - alternating between the harsh sting of a cane, and the soft touch of my hand on other areas for instance.
That to me creates the perfect balance between pleasure and pain, allowing me to play your body like a musical instrument, hitting the highs and the lows and creating a symphony of submission that's freely given.
But of course, there's more to a session than the physical aspects. Mental stimulation is at least as important as the physical, as without that, it's purely going through the motions.
That's why I'm looking for a long term relationship, where we can explore intimacy and push limits - both benefitting from that deeper connection, and exploring our innermost desires both consensually and safely.
Ultimately, I'm looking to explore and push your limits, always respecting limits but building upon them with each session. That helps both us and the D/s dynamic grow, otherwise it could stagnate without the extra impetus.
To me, it's as much a meeting of minds as it is of bodies. Without the mental satisfaction in a scenario or session, the physical side will merely be going through the motions.
It isn't a meeting of glamour models.While most BDSM adverts seem to portray male hunks and stunning women, the reality is that most of us are average normal people. The looks don't bother me as much as a willingness to explore.
There are many aspects of the scene I enjoy, as you can probably tell by looking at my fetish checklist. However, I'm a very visual person, and if I'm honest, I enjoy the site of a woman in latex or other fetish wear.
Nothing too extreme, but I find such attire only serves to enhance the contours of a subs body - and where possible, I enjoy integrating that into a session as well.
As regards a session, I'll always be the Dominant partner. That's just who I am, and how I interract within the scene.
However, those that know me, or have read my blog know I do have an occasional masochistic side as well. I occasionally enjoy a session from the other side of the whip  , but I don't submit within that session - it's purely for my benefit.
However, I never rule anything out, and am willing to explore a relationship with a switch. But of course, I believe it best to be honest and admit that submission in the usual sense is unlikely for me.
So a little more about me
I can sometimes be deadly serious, at other times full of humour - like most people in life. My writing can occasionally look fairly despondent lol, but generally I'm fairly upbeat in real life.
But one thing I definitely am is 100% committed to the scene in general. I've seen too many 'wannabes' in real life, who think they know it all - and end up causing all sorts of problems.
I don't profess to know everything about the scene, as the scene encompasses too many areas to be be proficient in them all.
But I will only play safely and consensually. If it take 6 months to a year to build someones trust up, then so be it. BDSM isn't a race, and I need to know you're comfortable before we progress to anything other than talking.
Due to a family commitment, I'm unable to accommodate for play at this time. No, I'm not married or in a relationship at the moment - but if we clicked, accommodation would only be possible without play. If you're still curious, contact me and I'll explain more.
I do have a sense of humour, although it may not come across very well in this profile. Again, whether it matches yours will be something only contact will tell.
I'm also 100% loyal once trust is established. If it looks like we might take the relationship to a more serious level, I'd rather be monogamous and treat our relationship as the only one.
I'm not a wealthy Dom lol, so that's something to also bear in mind for play sessions - if hotels are initially the venue of choice.
And about you.........
You'll be female and single.
Between the ages of 25 & 45 preferably.
Your level of experience doesn't matter. You can be entirely new to the scene, or a veteran of several decades of BDSM play. All I ask is that you're genuine and honest - both pre-requisites to forming the trust on which to build a relationship.
It can be as satisfying, or more satisfying, to introduce someone to the delights of the D/s world, as it is to have sessions with an uber-submissive.
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