This might get a little ranty or maybe a little bit complicated, so reader beware...
I, as I've grown, have come to identify as two major roles. The first being my Genderfluid status. The second being my status as a switch. Both move in between gender and sexual roles fairly fluidly and will generally be based on mood, triggers, or particular relationships.
I'm a complex cookie this way.
The problem with all this is that sometimes people, for whatever ignorance, can't seem to understand how someone can't be strictly grounded in one set mode. Neither male nor female, neither sub nor dom, neither straight nor gay.
Usually it's just a case of naive world outlook, generally quickly solved with a few conversations and many, many questions. All of which I'm happy to answer and to explain.
Other times...and I find this mostly with older, dom, Males...there's a bit of an intelligence gap.
The following is a conversation there of. (I've removed the name of the particular person because, well, I'm not that petty)
(Egocentric Dom)
hello Faust ..you did say you were 24 ..Right ? looking at your pictures make you look more like your 14 . Where in Ohio do you bounce back and forth from ? Id love to fist train you ..I love splitting open and raping tight , little pussys like yours and forcing them to cum again and again for hours on end as I totally control their minds and bodys with my hand buried deep inside their gushing wet pussy as they spray cum , piss and other fuck juices all over themselves . thats what Id do with and to you !
when youre ready to submit hit me up . Ok ? Cya cum slave !
[removed name] ( Sir 2 U please ) Ty
(My Reply)
Ha. Sorry. You're coming on a bit strong.
And I bounce between Ohio and California.
Currently I'm in Cali.
(Egocentric Dom)
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just shit up and do as youre told ..you little bitch !
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(My Reply)
Did you miss the part where I'm a switch. I agree to submit once a relationship is established. Not right away.
You're the kind of Dom that turn people off this lifestyle. Congrats.
(Egocentric Dom)
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youre the kind of sissy bitch thats tells nothing but lies ..now get away from me
..ya little whore !
(My Reply, clearly angered now yet still polite)
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Please, enlighten me as to where I've lied.
Go on.
I'm excited to see this.
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(Egocentric Dom, clearly confused as to how life works)
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why are you answering my email ? Ok ..let me enlighten you . No one " Bounces " back and forth from Cali to Ohio ...so ..we both know thats total bullshit ..sounds nice , but bullshit !
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(This is logically where I should have ended the conversation. But at this point I'm fairly angry, honestly. So...on it goes)
(My Reply)
I bounce back and forth.
Why?
School. Yep.
Go to school in Cali. Have family at home.
It's not a lie if you're the one that's ignorant.
(Egocentric Dom)
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Youre not very smart . are you ?
your entire profile is fake ..as are you ? Why are you dressed like a woman ...make up your mind already ..You dont have the first clue about switching ..you cant even be a good sub .
Id say youre the only ignorant one here ..by FAR ! now read these words ..No Need To Reply ! you have nothing more I want you hear and youre boring me to death with your total BULLSHIT !
die ...err Bye ! numbnuts
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Now I haven't replied. I have no plans to. I'm tired of this kind of human being. Apparently he's 50 years old, which is also way too old for me...but I tend to at least talk and be nice with anyone who messages me. I like friends. However, this man is completely out of line, constantly rude, terrible with grammar, spelling, and life. I always thought we were suppose to be better than this. A more understanding community because, well, we're all oddballs. But oddballs together.
Don't keep destroying my faith in this, CollarMe.
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