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Dickens1

A 55 yr. old single male living in the Madisonville, Tn area, interested in talking to like minded people, maybe establishing friendships. I am somewhat laid back, doing my own thing rather than following the mainstream. To me, there is nothing more enjoyable than being out in nature and enjoying all its beauty and offerings. There is just no substitution for either. I can be just as content out on the town for an evening or kicked back in the privacy of home. I enjoy reading, and I love to write, although my words may not mean anything to anyone else, I get a great deal of pleasure from writing them. Leather braiding is another favorite of mine...so many concepts. In the interests list, it says that I am a leatherworking, and metalworking expert. I do not claim to be either, but am very knowledgable in both. I think it would be almost impossible to be an expert in anything, because there is always something to be learned, those are just the choices the list gives. Just to clarify.

Sometimes talkative, sometimes quiet, but always listening, I don't believe there is ever reason for rudeness, although I do not consider being blunt, or to the point as being rude. It is all a matter of presentation. I refuse to argue on any level. Life is too short. Everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion, and each should be respected for that, whether agreed with or not. Your kink may not be my kink, but your kink is your business.

Thinks that everyone that uses sites such as this one is in search of something, and/or someone, and I am no different. Although that be the case scenario, I try not to put certain characteristics, or labels for who, or what I search for. I feel that by doing that, you cut your chances of finding the best suited results. I search for compatibiliy. There are just so many different types of people in this world, it would be almost impossible to find someone that is 100% molded to specific criteria. The only way to find compatibility is by communication. It is a matter of whether the compatible natures out weigh the non-compatible. Once compatibility has been found, the dynamics will work out. We all have to make adjustments to make any relationship work, and last. That is the "who" part of my search. As for the "what" part of my search, the answer is knowledge. That is always welcomed from anyone. Just my thoughts.

"When the student is ready, the Teacher will appear." ....Kahlil Gabran...very wise words no matter what our knowledge, or experience may be. We are all teachers, and we are all students. It is only a matter of what is being taught and what is being learned.

Dominance and submission work hand in hand. I don't consider either of them to hold any value without the other, yet when all involved have reached an agreement, the dynamics are priceless. Both are given with a free heart and mind. If it ain't consensual, it ain't happening. Bottom line.

If being a Dominant has to be self proclaimed, what meaning does it really have except of self-gratification. On the other hand, to be viewed as such in the eyes of others, I would think to be a great honor. Please don't misinterpret my meaning, I am not saying that one is a wannabe, or fake just because of a nic or gestures...and by no means am I trying to leave that impression. Being a Master, I feel only pertains directly to the submissive or slave involved within the dynamics of a relationship. A Master is only Master to his submissive/s, or slave/s, not all whom he is surrounded by.

I do not live my life to be a part of any lifestyle. I live it to satisfy my needs and desires to make life whole. Not saying it is not a lifestyle by no means; only that it is my choice in life to be me.

My trade is in the tool and die field of mfg, and one of my favorite pastimes is making my own tools for play. Another is having the oppurtunity of using those tools

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.

With that being said I take my leave....enjoy your day all.
LitaRose
 
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