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I am a Dominant, 26 and married living in a poly household In Austin, TX. I am currently seeking a submissive for real life interaction.
Recent experiences have assisted me in rethinking my desires and my goals as a Dominant. Mainly, I have realized I wish to find a more mature submissive. One who has had both the life experiences and enough BDSM experience to know what she needs. I desire a woman for whom being submissive is not what she does; its what she is. A woman who has a desire to serve, has a need to be controlled, and wishes to be humiliated and used like a wanton slut. Someone who is able to be submissive towards males, as well as females (such as my wife and her lover), is preferred. Essentially, I am seeking someone who will not conflict with the more Alpha personalities of my Domme wife and her switch lover.
So ideally, I am looking for an “older” woman. Someone in their late 30s or 40s (or a wise and clear-headed mid 20 something), who can appreciate the sadistic ingenuity of a younger Dom. My definition of beauty is varied, but I appreciate the charms of the mature woman. While I find value in all body types, I prefer those with meat on their bones. I find that life's small imperfections reflected in the skin make a woman all the more interesting and alluring.
I have also realized that I have a penchant for a higher level of protocol than some. I find reassurance in simple ritual and displays of respect. For me it is not just what a submissive does for her Dom, but rather the manner in which a task is accomplished. I seek a woman who knows the meaning of serving with grace.
As for me:
I have been involved in the lifestyle for the past 5 years; which is also where I met my lovely wife. While she does occasionally enjoy bottoming, my predilections require a more submissive mindset. So at her request, I created this profile to locate someone with a deep desire to be dominated. I do have a long distance relationship with a submissive, so if all you are interested in is online fantasy, I wish you luck but that position is already filled.
I will say that I believe myself to be rather unusual compared to most of the “Dominants and Dommes” you would likely find in the scene or on this website. Reason being that my demeanor rarely reflects my desires. While I have engaged in and found both pleasure and skill at performing more “standard” BDSM activities like spanking, flogging, and bondage; my desires run much deeper.
I have a burning longing to objectify, humiliate, degrade and demean a submissive for our mutual arousal. I get off on the mind fuck. I am talented at getting inside others heads and turning them on with thoughts they had never had before. I want to make you embarrassed by how hot it feels to be treated so sordidly.
While that may not be unusual and indeed may be common place here, what is atypical is my flip-side. I am a natural born doter. By that I mean I also enjoy caring for, comforting and protecting others. I relish having a submissive feel dependent towards me emotionally within the bounds of erotic play. I have often been described as a “Daddy Dom” due to that part of my nature and the fact that I am soft and cuddly.
As I stated I am looking for real life interaction. I am rather patient and I enjoy getting to know what makes a person tick. I would expect some time to know each other online before meeting in person. However, you MUST live in Austin or surrounding areas. At the moment, I am looking for a toy and a pet. Yet, I am not opposed to something that progresses into a more defined relationship as I am poly. I love my wife deeply, even if we are not completely compatible kink-wise, so you should not expect anything on that level (in other words, I have already found my soul-mate). But if you desire to one day, in the future, be kept as a household pet by a Dominant couple, I might be right up your alley. Only time will tell (i.e. don't bring a u-haul on our first date).
My conflicting desires do lead to interests in many different fetishes and I have found that my response to any given person will vary greatly. If you name a fetish, chances are I have thought about it if not actually engaged in it . I find that I am a bit more experienced, and have probably attended more BDSM courses and functions than the average Dominant my age. As for a more sexual interactions, I enjoy using any of the tools at my disposal to make you cum till you beg me to stop. However, for myself, I am orally fixated. If you do not enjoy providing fellatio on demand for your Dominant, I doubt you should bother contacting me. Not being chauvinistic, I just know what I like. Also, safe sex is MANDITORY! Before ANY fluid bonding occurs, both parties will submit to full STD panel testing for the health and safety of our poly household.
Well, that is about as honest as I can be on a public profile. If you have any interest, send me a message and I will be happy to answer any questions in more detail. If not, good luck in finding someone right for you.
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