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DiamondDiva

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Ebony Diva, highly disciplined and Fair Mistress. I am not into a lot of things but what I am into ...I am into. I am not opposed to having males, females or both. Women & Men of color I am here for you, the community is growing and we are vastly being embraced.

I beleive that the way to have good relations in a community such as ours {BDSM} is through education and learning. This is why I love to meet and talk to people and I am always willing to train. It is good to have an environment where one can be free to ask questions and embrace who they are and what they do.

I am looking for long term in real time. I don't have time for games so if you are not truly ready don't bother.

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5/5/2006 7:26:56 AM

I have a new theory.  After months of clearly stating that I do NOT entertain the thought of associating in the lifestyle with those NON-BLACK or African Americans, after constantly ignoring the very many emails that I receive daily from Caucasion Males and Females and after constant reiteration of my position I have decided upon a new theory.

1.  People do NOT read!
2.  People tend to feel that maybe "they" can change my mind.
3.  People like being denied!
4.  The mere fact that they go against the request for no contact is exhilarating to them.

Either way, please know that my position still stands!!!


3/8/2006 3:15:04 PM
Finally, people of color are reaching out. However, not a day goes by that I do not receive email from those that I have clearly stated that I DON'T do.  Maybe they think that I will change my mind once I get a look or feel for them.  The answer?  No, I will not.  I like what I like.

3/7/2006 9:30:53 PM

I normally don't get excited about my emails but finally I received an email from someone that was worth the read.  She is beautiful and I am thoroughly interested in getting to know her. 

If you are reading this, you know who you are, I am excited about the possibilities.

Enough said!!


9/25/2005 1:08:26 PM
I have tried everything! People just do not get it. I do not do "white" anything. Regardless of what my profile says there is always that one that just has to ttry anyway. Well guess what, for every ONE that decides to try it turns about for me to be 40-50. Stated plainly: I ONLY ENTERTAIN PROPOSALS OF SORTS FROM PEOPLE OF COLOR {PERIOD}

9/22/2005 3:12:08 PM
Ahhh today today today.  You know, there is nothing better to me than being a part of a solution. Yes, being part of a plan.  Today I started {early at that} on my fundraising project for the National Breast Cancer Awareness Month.  The reason that I am gratified is because today is day one and the response that I received was wonderful.  So, since I received a good response and this is day one I think I am going to be a sweet heart of a Mistress and allow a sub to impress me.  Any takers?

9/21/2005 1:32:22 PM
Wow for the first time since I have been in this community I have been truly insulted.  Yes, I was insulted by the actions of another.  It is one thing to recieve emails from subs and slaves that just refuse to adhere to my preferences but for another Dom to insult me and try to impend their torrid belief of superiority upon another DOMME is insane.

Sometimes I wonder if the people in this community are truly who they say they are or are they playing games.  I know that most are truly who they say they are but it is those bad bad apples that stand out the most.

RESPECT is the key.  Keep that in mind.

9/20/2005 9:45:15 PM
Ok so today I received several emails as ususal but there was a difference. Yes, there was the usual "Oh I just want you to give me a chance even though I don't fit your requirements" but then there were two men of color, one Domme who I must say has the most beautiful smile that I have ever seen on a man and a sub who answered my question thoroughly. This is going to be interesting!

9/19/2005 6:18:51 PM

So, it's been forever since I have posted but today I am feeling very giving.  Yes, I do still receive emails from white males gay, bi and straight wanting to experience what it is like with a woman of color.  Well, my question is why?  Why is it such a fantasy to a white male to be "Dominated" by a woman of color?  The one thing that I can say is this, no matter how much I say no, they still come and they still ask.

What is a Diamond Diva to do?


2/20/2005 5:15:10 PM
Wow!  No matter how hard I try it just seems that people in general don't "READ" and COMPREHEND, they just read.  If that was not the case I would not still be receiving emails from those that are NON-Black asking me to consider being their Mistress. 

Life would be so much easier if people would just read and comprehend.

2/13/2005 10:37:15 AM
I just don't understand what it is about my profile that white males do not seem to understand.  Everyday I receive emails from some white male seeking a DOMME and they say that they have read my profile.  Well, if they have read my profile they will know that I don't do WHITE I am Chocolate ONLY.

So, maybe now they will leave me alone, since they are reading it in my journal.

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HarleyRose
 
 Age: 30
 Augusta, Maine