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I am creative, intellectual, practical, and affectionate. I'm a cat person, can't drink and don't smoke. I love caring for my partner and being cared for, and if I find the right person, I'm ready to be tied down and start a family in a few years.
When I was young, I loved the scene in The Little Mermaid when Ariel was restrained by Ursula's eels and would fall asleep imagining that I was restrained in some way as a form of meditation. When I got older, this desire matured into what it is today. A previous boyfriend helped me explore this lifestyle a bit, but my most recent relationship was vanilla and I realized it just wasn't enough for me; I'm naturally sexually submissive, rarely initiating, and prefer to be controlled and dominated.
I'm looking for a well-rounded guy between the ages of 25-35 who can be dominant in the bedroom but my equal partner at every other time (though I'm interested in exploring some aspects of Master/slave or pet relationships). Ideally, I'd like him extremely intelligent as well as engaging, creative, with a good sense of humor, and social skills (because these are apparently hard to come by). Basically, the relationship can't just be about the sex- I need someone I can have an intelligent conversation with who I can take home to meet my parents.
Personal health is important to me and I want it to be important for my partner, too. I'd love to cook for him on occasion, but I prefer it to be a social activity. While I like being physically active, it is not my default setting, so someone who can help me get out of the house would be welcomed.
If you think you meet the majority of these criterion and live in my state, please feel free to message me.
As a heads up, I am redirecting messages from couples, inactive profiles, and people outside of the above age range to my bulk messages, where I will try to respond as I have time. Sorry! :(
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Commonly asked questions (CAQ):
Do you switch?
I may be coaxed into it by my Dom, but it wouldn't come naturally to me by any means. The most likely scenario is I would agree, then immediately be like 'oh, shit- now what?'
Would you be interested in a Dominant female?
I'm honestly still trying to figure out my preferences, so perhaps? I'd want to start out as friends first to get to know each other, but you'd still have to be within my age range and in my state.
Are you open to joining a pre-existing couple?
Most likely not, but I'm not completely against the idea. First and foremost, the couple would both have to fall within my age range and be close by. From there, it would be a case of 'friends first' with no guarantee of going further.
What about a poly relationship?
If I am there during the original formation of the group dynamic, then I'd be much more willing to participate in one. I'm more skeptical about this after said group dynamic has been established, hence the previous question.
Is X too old/young for you?
The prefrontal cortex doesn't stop developing until around 25 years old, so that age is a pretty strict minimum for me. I'm a bit flexible on the maximum age, but this flexibility is more intended for birthday confusion such as "I'm a year past your max age, but my birthday was in the last x months" |
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| Age: 24 |
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