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DesiredTop

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ME: First, I shall do thee no harm. I cherish your gift of all that you are and shall take full advantage of it. I strive to be kind and wise, win your trust and heart, show you humour and warmth: my guidance and tutoring will be knowledgeable and deserving of your attention. I am romantic, protective and chivalrous: discipline is always followed by forgiveness. I guide you to the edges of your envelope, and show you inner courage to reach new heights. I am patient, respectful of limits and know that compliance comes from the gift of servitude, not the fear of punishment. Above all, I know that love is the only binding that truly holds. .. Ah well, try quoting that after a day in a straitjacket with a sensory deprivation hood laced tightly on and some large plugs buzzing away. I'm Top rather than Dom.
Single, sane, safe, solvent, sophisticated, serially monogamous so far and not just looking for an edgy play-partner, but more: someone special who can be a friend and/or partner outside of "the scene" as well as within it.
An educated an experienced Top, who respects limits. I have my own (very extensive) dungeon, exceptionally well-equipped and fitted-out for most (if not all) forms of play, including:
  • a satin-sheeted guest bedroom in purple and black;
  • a white-tiled wet/medical room;
  • the "school room";
  • the cage and cell place;
  • the main chamber... "lasciate ogni speranza, voi ch'entrate"
If you are not into heavy bondage and sensory control, we won't work, as I am particularly fond of straitjackets, body-bags, hoods, corsets, cages and the like. If you are looking for a non-smoker, be warned that I am terrible at giving-up (although I am prepared to try for the right girl). Please take note that I was a great fan of "INSEX" - interesting equipment, prolonged dark, deep play and intense stimulation. ---- WHAT I AM NOT:
  • someone who is interested in micromanaging your life (I am looking for a bottom not a sub);
  • someone who cannot see the boundaries and distinctions between "life" and "play";
  • despite the above, Vanilla
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YOU:
Somehow, I have never been able to find the slim, self-sufficient, smart and stylish Ms Right who could explore sub-space (and many other places) together with me.
You are intelligent, eloquent, want to explore and be explored. You also have the right shoes. That being said, I can be quite extreme, and you will need to be, at times, a bit of a "pain slut".
  • so you will consent to having your ass used, for plugs and more;
  • you can endure hours in a hood and straitjacket;
  • a serious figging, flogging or fucking turns you on...
You may have been around on "the scene" for a while, thats OK, nothing lost by a bit of experience - is it not a truth universally acknowledged, that a sub woman in possession of a wardrobe filled with latex and leather, must be in want of a Dom? ----
US:
Beneath the straitjacket your body runs with sweat. The confining hood controls every sense. Those plugs and the electrodes drive you to the point of madness. 24hrs of latex love-doll servitude, breaking you down through another set of limits...
After all that, I'm a brilliant cook, have a good cellar and I will kiss each sore spot better through the night, paint you, write you poetry and be both the font of all your desires and the gateway to dreams and even nightmares. Perhaps I'm just an old romantic, which is why I need to find the right you. And, perhaps more importantly, you need to find the right me.
11/14/2010 2:30:34 PM

ah well, bed, dreams.. someone wanting the kiss of the lash would be nice, a girl seeking sleep in a straitjacket would be better, with a hood and gag and a liking for some prospect, perhaps, of nocturnal stimulation.

9/22/2010 11:50:15 AM
Not much happening here. Not quite that young, but still free and single me wonders of there is life elsewhere.
8/14/2010 7:57:28 AM
Aha.. so you memo someone with a longish and thoughtful note, get a "sorry but not interested" one-liner response, send a polite acknowledgement thanking them  and wishing them well in their search/journey/whatever, and it gets "deleted unread"...

..how the scene has changed.
8/11/2010 11:19:57 AM
Interesting day to say the least. A slight hint about material possessions in the chat room lead to a flurry of eager partners from foreign parts. Er, no, I'm not prepared to send you cash to relocate from Faroffistan, buy you out of your marriage etc. I'm beginning to think that I should stipulate that any would-be bottom should make their own way to my door and kneel in pliant supplication. But of course, the sort of girl I'm looking for would be prepared to do that anyway, once it was agreed. 
8/9/2010 10:57:10 AM
Mmmm..been around on these sites since "Bianca's Basement" (and that was a long time ago, back in the mid 90's). Can I say I have seen so many obviously false ads? - no probably not. I do like the "hide user" feature, been using it quite a lot... Eventually, I'll pare this down through the chancers, sock-puppets, one hand on keyboard merchants and scams to the scene as it should be (I hope) ... refills his glass. 
8/8/2010 3:24:30 AM
Oh - another mail! - oh no, more spam, my answer was as follows:

"Dear Mr X------, while I can sympathise with the plight of your country after being hit by, as you say, "periodic earthquakes", I am not going to send you any money. However, I believe I can be of immense service by pointing out that "periodic" implies that the quakes come at regular intervals. I would therefore suggest day trips to the next country on the days in question."
8/7/2010 6:39:16 AM
Ok, decided to try Collarme.com in my somewhat desultory search for "romance" with a heavy dash of kink. So far I've had an email offering me someone's "extreme porn" collection at a cheap rate (don't need it), several enquiries from potential TS maids (I already have a perfectly adequate cleaning lady Thank You) and a few "who's viewing me hits". Is this going to be like buying a lottery ticket or is my number finally up?
milfsian
 
 Age: 23
 Schenectady, New York