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Desi78

Hi everyone! I'm new to site and right now looking for people to chat with to see where things go. I know the difference between a submissive and a slave and I am a slave. Well I'm not currently a slave because I'm not owned but you know what I mean lol. Anyway, I'm open to chatting it up with people in order to begin my journey. I have friends on this site and have heard that there are extremely weird people that will say very weird things. I prefer not to talk to weird people. I would like to speak with people who view the lifestyle in a realistic way. I'm here to learn and want to learn the right way. Thanks for reading.
2/15/2013 6:52:50 PM
Having a little wine and popcorn. Weird mix but it's actually pretty good. Not going to sit here and complain. Done that and it doesn't do any good. People will be who people will be. Expectations will be just that. All one can do is weed out the freak shows and if they want freak shows then it's pay day for them. I've resigned myself to the fact that the majority have no idea what a Master is. It's all bedroom and role play. What I'm doing now is just having conversations and kind of secretly educating. Yes I'm a slave but who else knows what a Master is than a slave? She knows who to serve. The convos may fall on deaf ears but this also gives me an idea on what's out there. There is however a lot of potential. They are just very misguided.
2/2/2013 4:58:20 PM
Ew the pics I see on here are revolting. Especially the "slaves" that are made by their "Masters" to put nasty pics on here for their own enjoyment. I'm no Master but if I encounter some fool that requires me to do that I will have to question it. If a slave is required to put nasty pics on here for him then it probably means he needs constant validation. And that's not very "masterly" is it.
12/25/2012 2:50:30 PM
Everyone have a wonderful holiday! I'm so stuffed that it's not even funny. Cooked since yesterday. I don't have family here but had friends over for food and drinks. What a wonderful day! And I'm actually having coherent conversations with who I think are true Masters. I'm not gonna be owned or anything but it's nice to speak with people who actually get it and relate.
12/21/2012 5:07:16 PM
Why is slavery considered bdsm? I understand the role play and the bedroom sex thing (for those who can't get sex any other way). But I don't think Master and slave is about sex. This is more of a mental thing. It's a beautiful thing to know you belong to someone. To know that your life is in His command. To wake up and know you wake up only for Him. I am sick of the messages asking what my freaking kinks and my desires are. Do they not read that I'm a slave (when owned) and this is not a damn kink?
12/15/2012 5:01:41 PM
Holy crap I've been away for so long! I'm back now and I see things haven't changed. I had a dude say I'm a good girl like thats supposed to mean anything. I know what I am. I don't need anyone to tell me. I get that it's a thing in what the mere doms call "play" to say good girl. Understand this. That is play. It's fantasy and not reality. Maybe the desperate chicks think being called a good girl is so freaking wonderful but I'm looking for reality. Not validation.
superwetwet
 
 Age: 28
 Desert hot spring, California