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| No lies, no BS, just open honest communications to find someone real to share my interests with. Upfront and honest, Married for 20+ years to a wife who is not into or have any interest in the lifestyle of BDSM. Looking to find someone to share this side of me. I am caring, intuitive and focus on my slaves encounter more than my own physical gratification. I derive most of my pleasure from the gratification of my partner. I am firm and expect obedience. I handle each slave/sub as an individual and tailor the encounters to the individual.
I am not looking for a girl friend, I am looking for a companion to share a part of my life that needs to be filled. If you want to experience real submission with someone that pays attention to your state of mind and cares about your development and gratification, then give me a call. If you are want to find a friend as well as a Master, let's talk.
I am creative, flirty, fun loving and innovative. I hope to hear from you soon.
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Interesting to find people who stand out in the crowd. I am seldom surprised by the people I meet in this community. I have found a couple who stand out and present as unique in this world of rigid design and structure. It is refreshing to meet those unique individuals that break from all the standard routines and want to walk their own path.
It is intriguing to find some that actually know themselves and what they want but more so when they want you to be able to figure it out too. It is interesting in that, they resent themselves with great poise and grace, the soccer mom with a high level of education. The professional with the high stress job and even the long term bored married with the spouse that cares little about keeping the partner content.
All of these are wonderful spirits to encounter and make the connection that opens hearts and minds. The challenge to find the sexual triggers and emotional area of stimulation to trigger the bonding and eventually the surrender.
Someone asked me how it is possible to have an intimate relationship if you are married. It is as simple as connecting with someone, building a high level of trust and filling the needs of your partner. When trust level is high, friends become more causing a bond to form between the partners. Once the bond it formed based on friendship and trust, if you are filling the needs of your close friend in a mental, emotional and sensual manner, the intimacy grows naturally without effort. From bonding to surrender the void between them is trust and security. If the security is there to allow the partner to be free to open up and the trust is there to ensure safety, then the relationship begins the intimate phase. |
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Wow, how time flies. I does not seem like I have been offline for nearly two months. I need a life, hopefully there is someone out there that needs a Master to focus on them. I need a slave to focus my attention on, so my life does not pass me by. Are you the one to grab my focus and attention? |
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I am amazed that I have met some interesting people thus far. Guys, when I marked myself as straight, I did mean it. This is not a no means yes situation, but I am honored by your interest, just not my type unless you come with a submissive female and want to be a tool to use on her. Just kidding, I do not share your interest in men, but I respect you and your desires.
To the ladies that have viewed my profile and contacted me, I am honored by your communications. It has been a pleasant return to the site and I look forward to making new friends to sharing the joy and excitement of our life choice. |
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I want to thank those who have contacted me and shared a piece of themselves. My eyes are open to the beautiful spirits and personalities with out the jaded glasses on age, looks or size. The package is just a wrapping which holds the sub/slave heart safe from harm. |
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It is funny, I have previous been on this site and returned to see if the culture and climate have changed. Time will tell if the reality is here now or just the same as it was before.
There is wonderful life waiting for those who take the risk and reach for the brass ring. Most of the people here are reaching for it and deserve our respect. I would like to apologize to the submissive faction of this lifestyle for all those that happen to connect and interact with the ones that do not have the heart to learn and grow into loving respectful Dominates/Masters. Unfortunately for those of us that understand what it takes for a sub/slave to submit for more than one encounter, we get to suffer for a lack of available subs/slaves that been hurt by those who think this is a lifestyle full of weak minded people that just love to be the emotional door mats for those who have to build themselves up by tearing others down. But what is knew, even as kids we had bullies that did the same time.
Look, a true sub/slave is a precious item that is rubbed the right way can be polished to shine in a way you never thought possible. Even in ways they never thought possible. But bang them around emotionally and all you are doing is stepping on your toes and the toes of everyone else that could be interested in them. They are just another human that should have your respect and admiration for offering a life of service to those worthy of earning.
Yes, they may give themselves to you once to test you, but if you do not earn a measure of trust and respect with your actions, they should not offer themselves to you again. This does not mean be soft, it mean understand them and treat them according to their desires and needs without going overboard unless they want to jump with you.
Just respect the offer and the service, it is a gift, not a right of ownership. That is also earned. |
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| Age: 25 |
| Lexington,
Kentucky |
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