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I hold any and every right to use my own discretion and the advice of others.
Below are some things that have bigger insight about who I am, and my beliefs. I put them seperately, because I don't want to clutter.
I am one of those weird people who do not equate playing with sex. I am perfectly capable of surviving my case of blueballs in the event that it may happen. Usually when I say "play" I mean enjoying myself by doing what I love, the company I am in, and my sense of learning. I prefer to experience in conjunction with learning, as it helps me to understand things better.
Sex is usually the last thing on my mind.
When I play, I expect zero sexual contact on my person, as I will not reciprocate and will not tolerate it unless otherwise planned.
--Important:
I DO NOT use safewords!
I respect the safeword, and I consider it sacred, but it is not for me.
My understanding of a safeword is that it is used too late, to the point where discomfort is already caused. I will communicate as effectively as I can, and be to the point. I do not allow gags unless I trust someone with my being. In this case, I will use hand signals.
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I am a sensual sadist. I do NOT get off of someone being in pain. Rather, how they react to a given thing. Watching someone squirm under me is the greatest compliment. I am cruel in that I enjoy using opposites in lieu of the act. Example: Wax play with ice interlaced. I was told I was very cruel for that, and it made me very happy.
The act of giving pain without a reaction is, alas, boring. For heavy masochists, they can block out pain, turn it into pleasure. But what can they do when they get teased with a feather, a vibrator, soft flesh against the body?
I am finding that I LOVE wax. Love love love it. Am I a wax slut? Sure. It's my favorite sensualist activity because I can get my sadist on, while also making pretty little designs.
Currently, I am fascinated by the whip and may do some dabbling in that, too.
Aside from that, I think I may become an avid flogger maker/impact toy maker. I do not intend to sell, just make them for friends and give me something to do in the mean time.
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