Just wondering what people think about this. It seems to me that the main criteria used by women on sites like this, to identify the man of their dreams, is the ability to write an initial email. That seems to be the thing which is first and foremost a priority... and I suspect something which the girls are not even aware that they are doing.
I spend a great deal of time composing my emails, and even more time finding someone worth writing to, I send perhaps one every two to three days. I only pick people I think are compatible with me, and me with them, yet, none seem to bother to check even check my profile, let alone respond with questions to clarify anything that appeared ambiguous or they were curious about.
I appreciate that if a 'not interested' is sent, that quite often results in abuse for the woman (which the block button is useful for, once the first bit of abuse is received). And I appreciate that they receive a high volume of email (mostly shit and easy to skip to the decent ones!), but I don't see why that would stop them from simply making sure that there isnt anything there, and taking their time. First impressions are the most misleading of all! To base a decision on one point of evidence is just poor science :P
Rant over
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