You can tell a lot about a man by the way he treats you... 1. after your first meeting, 2. after you've had sex/played for the first time and 3. the morning after spending the night. If he is in anyway different than his behavior leading up to you meeting in person... then he's not interested. If he's says he's super busy with work, kids, etc... then he's not interested. If he is thinking of you, no matter how busy he may be, he will contact you... then he is interested in you. The reason for this posting follows my previous rant regarding playing when first meeting. I've been able to weed out the bad ones by following just 1 rule. (I don't follow many rules in life but this is my number 1 hard limit)

It was Sub drop, nothing more. Thanks for providing such shitty aftercare to someone so new. And here I thought I was going crazy :)

LET ME GET ONE THING STRAIGHT! YOU WILL NOT BE FUCKING ME THE FIRST TIME I MEET YOU. DON'T FUCKING BEG FOR A BLOW JOB OR HAND JOB AND NO YOU WILL NOT TOUCH MY TITS.

Seeking advice on Suspension. types of rope, minimal marking, etc. Needing a little sadistic pain. To other subs/slaves...personal experience being no limit/no safe word?