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I have decided to give this site one last try. There is so many fakes on here, please be genuine.
I'm have been at this almost my entire life starting in my early teen, I am only interested in those who understand the need to serve another. I might consider training or mentoring another though primary interests in have complete say over another. Obedience training, collars, leashes, dressing up, ball gags, forced orgasm, forced lesbianism, power exchange, protocols, objectification, shibari, cages, style of dress, eye/ speech restriction, leather cuffs and padlocks, ownership, kneeling, simply Dominance over another.
Your thoughts and concerns are important through time I will earn your trust and that is when the fun really starts. My personality is all Alpha which means I am extremely confident no matter where I am. I am not an abusive kind of person, I am very level headed. I am completely comfortable reinforcing the rules that have been laid out and that you would agree upon.
In closing let me say that unlike many on here I do not live this life, it is apart of me meaning it does not consume my every thought and breath of air, so I am not here daily checking in. I look forward to hearing from those who have a polite view point to share, new friendships are welcome
I found this yesterday which I am posting as it answers many of the questions I get. I have trained both (sub and Dom, so they could be better at there skill, someone educated me back in the day and I am only passing it along).
TRAINER-
What does a Trainer do?
A Trainer trains a sub (or on occasion a Dom/me) in a particular area or set of skills agreed upon. A Master or Protector may feel that a sub requires training in an area of expertise of a specific Trainer. The Master then makes the appropriate arrangements.
A masterless sub may seek a Trainer if that sub feels a need for aid and direction beyond what can be learned from reading and study.
There are those who hold that a sub should never be Trained by anyone other than that sub's Master or Mistress. If we were speaking only of skills in intimate D/s relationships I would agree, but subs need to learn other things to thrive in the VP D/s society. Kind words from former trainees assure me that the role of Trainer can be a valuable one.
What are the duties and rights of Trainer and sub?
This is something the parties should discuss in advance. They may even wish to have a contract. In the case of an unattached sub, matters that should be agreed upon include:
- Subject areas in which the sub is to be Trained.
- The expected duration of the relationship -- when and how it is to be terminated.
- Authority: Does the Trainer have the authority to command the sub, and to penalize or punish?
- What responsibilities does the Trainer undertake, beyond those of Training and Teaching? A Trainer of a new sub might take on many of the duties of a Protector.
The last two items give the Trainer considerable authority, so it is important that the parties have a clear understanding, and that the sub's consent be free and informed. This may be a new sub's first D/s experience.
what do you do as a Trainer?
I Train new subs in three main areas:
- Basic sub rights and self-defense;
- Customs, manners, and ways of the VP D/s world;
- What subs, Masters, and Protectors are, and relations between them.
Most of my trainees are new to D/s, and have neither Masters nor Protectors, so I also take on functions of a Protector during their first weeks. This commonly includes temporary rules and limitations for the sub's safety.
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I've noticed, that there is a vast amount of women in pictures giving the finger, if you want to be grabbed by the throat, give me the finger I a sure you it will be the last time you do it to me. You might feel it is a cool statement, but in truth those of us who are NOT a hood rat or crack head find it offensive.
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I stole this entry from Pain Master One who reminds meofmy first Mentor in how he expresses him self. This is a VERY true comment that I could not say any better in my own words....Maybe it's time to clarify the word "rape". According to the dictionary, it is "the unlawful carnal knowledge of a woman without her consent". To put this in the proper context, when Webster compiled his dictionary, sex outside marriage was considered unlawful, and carnal knowledge means "the sexual act itself". So that leaves us with having sex with a woman without her consent. If a female on this site claims to be a slave, and her understanding of that state of being means she gives up all rights to her Master, that she belongs to him body and soul, even stating that in here intro, that renders rape impossible, since it is done with her consent. I've read more profiles of females who claim they were raped by a Dom, but that's a contradiction, so if you claim to be a slave in the true sense of the word, then don't go crying "rape". Not only have you given your Master the right to use you any way he sees fit, but you've also given him permission to do so without any complaints from you. if you're just a sub who enjoys "play rape", then that's a whole different ball game, since you are in the realm of Safe, Sane and Consensual, and can say NO at any time. Make up your minds, ladies, you can't have it both ways. |
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I stole this one too....
I am a Dominant Man
-- Author Unknown
I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be, dominant with all women. Yet to you, I am your Master.
I am your Master only after earning your trust and embracing your submission. I have looked into your heart and mind and have seen your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You have told me of the needs of your heart, mind and body and given me access to your soul -- I accept that honor and responsibility.
We are not equal. You are a woman, and you are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. I am a man, and have strength of body, mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you. Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are halves of a whole. We compliment each other, and together, are complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive and not to degrade you, nor is it degrading to you because you are as secure in your femininity as I am secure in my masculinity. We each recognize and accept our roles, worth and needs, as well as our desire to trust the other to fulfill those needs.
You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in his strength, control and masculinity -- and in return, you present control of your heart, mind, body, and soul with unconditional trust, honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. I have listened to your words with both my ears and my heart, and by opening myself and my soul to you, I have earned your submission and trust. You have given me a treasure... you have given me dominance over you.
What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest of gifts a woman can give to a man. You have given me complete and unwavering assurance of your commitment to me, and to us. Your submission is both a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility, one that I accept from you with both humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift -- that it is your body and soul, and your heart and mind. When you kneel before me, know that in my heart and in my eyes, you are raised above all woman and all treasures. What you give to me freely can not be bought, and that which circles and adorns your neck as a symbol of your ownership and commitment, so too circles and surrounds my heart. |
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I have deleted my journal after some didn't like me talking about my last slave and how I adored using her in extreme ways that we both found great pleasure in. Amazing how females get away with more then male profiles
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| Age: 30 |
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