denverswin		Denverdom4		DenverSiss

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Disclaimer: I'm not seeking money or anything financial (to pay, or be paid, by anyone). This profile is specific to finding a good fit for an ongoing situation as a male maid for someone appreciative, kinky and open minded. I'm primarily interested in serving a woman, possibly a male/female couple, or a polyamorous household, depending on the dynamics. What I Am Hoping To Provide Prepare, and serve, coffee, tea or drinks Foot massages Bathroom: Clean toilet, mirror, sinks Mop floors Vacuuming Kitchen: dishes, counters Computer troubleshooting (I am highly experienced in this regard) Secretary duties: typing, filing, organizing Services for you and your guests as you deem appropriate I would like to learn how to give a good pedicure This list is by nature incomplete as I don't know yet what your priorities & interests are from a male maid: What other tasks do you want done? What else would please you? Who I Am Authentic and thoughtful. Sense of humor is important Detail oriented, and willing to train and learn the specifics of how you want things done Exercises common sense and appreciates that in others Makes positive contributions to the world and appreciates that in others Independently motivated: I am not the kind of person who needs to be hovered over every 2 seconds to make sure I'm staying on track -- I provide real work and take pride in it Punctual Well groomed (showered, clean clothes, no facial hair) College Educated Served in the military, so not too worried about "proving" anything when it comes to masculinity Strong communicator (written & verbal) Employed (my availability is evenings and weekends since I work days) Single (not sneaking off from a lover or spouse to serve you) Mentally & physically healthy & active. No drugs. Willing to receive punishment / discipline at your discretion (distinct from "funishment", see what I'd classify as rewards below) What Am I Looking For in Return? I want us to enjoy each other as people first and foremost I have a strong desire to serve, so I'd be able to express this by being a male maid / domestic servant. Being useful and appreciated makes me feel good. I get satisfaction out of organizing, cleaning and making things visually pleasing. I like receiving praise for actual work. I enjoy wearing a [[maid]] outfit. Being allowed to do so lets me "show off" while still doing something useful. I enjoy power exchange, and giving over power to others, or creating "magic free time" for someone by doing tasks they would rather not, or would greatly appreciate from someone serving them Things I would consider rewards: Spanking, CBT, chastity, bondage, foot worship, receiving makeup & fashion tips & tricks, shopping together ... and I am of course open to your ideas If we have chemistry and want to explore it, I am open to that! Thoughts that Don't Fit Elsewhere Although I enjoy expressing myself via crossdressing, I am not transsexual or transgendered. I identify as male, and 95% of the time I dress male. I've seen people make the assumption that crossdressing is simply the first stop on an inevitable road towards sex reassignment surgery and identifying as trans (which, I should be clear, I have absolutely no issues with for others), but that is not me. I am male; I'm comfy in my maleness, and I simply enjoy crossdressing for whatever reason. I have no time for those who express intolerance of any sort: bigotry, hatred, misandry, misogyny, sexism, racism, homophobia or heterophobia. I am interested in expressions of men being sexualized in ways that are non-typical or non-average. My interest in this is not about negativity towards men, feminism or anti-feminism, misogyny or misandry, rather an interest in "balancing things out" -- this is a psychologically and personally interesting topic that I cannot begin to explain completely in a few sentences. I am completely for equal treatment of men, women, transgendered (or any other gender label people might choose for themselves) in every way (especially in important areas like social justice, wages, marriage rights, etc.) -- I just feel it's fun to tilt the camera a bit, and see how the pictures turn out (figuratively or literally). I often find labels to be a starting point, rather than a destination. What labels can only begin to describe you? Asking questions is not the same thing as questioning oneself, though those with an agenda often try to frame the first as the latter. I read this description of submission on a forum the other day, and I thought it was excellent, going to recreate it here with some minor alterations: "Submission means being pliable, obedient and delivering. The dominant gives you expectations, and you are required to meet them. You are there to make the dominant's life more easy, comfortable and enjoyable, whether that is through doing their laundry or letting them spank you. However, submission is not about losing your humanity to the dominant. A dominant must respect and care for their submissive, and never treat them as if they are not human in any genuine sense." A note on sexual orientation: I've chosen "Bisexual" as I don't classify myself as completely straight, but the term Heteroflexible would be a much better description for my sexual orientation. On the Kinsey scale I'd probably be a 2, "Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual" Feel free to say hello if some of the below seems to fit: You don't smoke cigarettes -- smoking is a dealbreaker for me. You want a male maid / sissy maid You are [[kinky]] (or think you might be), are interested in [[BDSM]] / power exchange You want to go hiking, for a walk, a bike ride, play a board game, geek out on [[photography]], wax philosophical You want to teach me how to do kick-ass makeup You are looking for quality interactions with interesting people who enhance your life You don't have to be experienced in this kind of dynamic. I would envision us messaging here and getting a feel for one another. If we are getting along well, I am always up for a walk in the park, coffee, or whatever else allows for conversation in person (where I'd be wearing everyday men's clothes). I recognize that the concept of having someone in your home requires trust, and I'm perfectly happy to spend the time together building that trust. What interests you? What drives you? What are your dealbreakers? What is important to you?