Just remember:

Blackmail is thieving

Tribute is thieving

Financial domination is thieving

Agreeing with and supporting the above is also agreeing with and supporting thieving

If this is YOU, then you are a beggar Domme.  A pathetic creature that slimes her way over the internet, trying to take childrens grocery money.  YOU have no morals or concience, and are a slave to a man's wallet.  YOU don't dominate anything.  You just steal from the weak and lonely.  I am sure you are making your mother and father very proud.

It is WRONG to extort money from others....period

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From day one, The buzz words for any BDSM experience was always, .....SAFE.....SANE......and CONSENTUAL.

Since reading the profiles of these "Dommes" on Collar Me, I note only a very small handful practice this.

It takes more than a computer purchase, an internet connection, and a SHIFT key to make a Domme.

I have been in this BDSM game long before computers entered into it, been a member of three seperate groups, and also experienced BDSM in England and Germany.  I have been a dominant as well as a submissive.  I can tell you, as a subissive you women that call yourself Dommes really honestly DO need training and to be show how to be a proper Domme.  Most of you have no clue.  I give the following FREE advice.

HOW TO BE A GOOD DOMME 101

1. DO NOT TAKE ANY MONEY FOR ANYTHING YOU DO. Deep personal fantasies should not have to be paid to come true. If you DO charge, you are now in a sexually oriented business, and you now have just become a whore that does not fuck. Nothing is more useless than a whore that does not fuck. You can be replaced by a crackwhore with a whip and $40. Think about it.

2. DO NOT HATE MEN. We weren't born yesterday. Anyone with a pulse can see a hate spewn profile a mile away. One day you will meet the wrong guy and he will turn on you like a pet tiger. All that pent up rage will come pouring out on little ole YOU, and you will either be very damaged or killed. Good luck trying to prosecute. All of your hatred writings will be brought out in court and the men and women in the jury and the judge/media/bystanders will ALL see the evil hatred inside you. Do you really want your hateful and nasty profile displayed and read into the public record? It could happen. HATE does not belong here. Leave it behind and out of your heart.

3. THIS IS ABOUT SEX. SEX seeps out of every nook and cranny of this site and the BDSM world in general. You can bullshit yourself into thinking it is not, but don't believe your own bullshit. What message are you giving when you tell your submissives they cannot have sex with you, and your profile and photos display your ass/tits/ and hoohah(I like that word) all over the place. What message are you sending? You are saying " I am a cock teaser, and have been since junior high". You are not a Domme, you are a cockteaser. If your submissives are UNFULLFILLED, they will go somewhere else. Human nature. If you are going to show them your beautiful breasts, then give them a nibble. No harm done. Let them kiss and lick that sweet ass. Let them place a gentle hand on your soft hoohah (that word again). You have technically not had sex, but you have given them a bone. We all know you are NOT a slut (damnit), but you can still hold your head high by giving them someting to enjoy. You need to understand your mouth/tits/ass/and hoohah are NOT unique to you. EVERY WOMAN HAS THEM. They are all just shaped differently, and I will bet some are more thinner and shapelier than yours. Think about it.

4. KEEP THE $40 CRACKWHORE IN MIND. You have to keep in mind " What am I doing better than a $40 crackwhore?"

It is no suprise to any of you that men tend to think with their dicks in sexual matters. This IS sexual. Thanks to SATAN being alive and well on planet Earth, crack cocaine and crackwhores abound everywhere and in every town. For a pack of cigarettes, a man can get a blowjob, and for $40 they can have regular sex, anal sex(my personal favorite) or anything else on the menu. It is YOUR job as a responsible Domme to keep your submissives away from them. What do you offer them in exchange? Only you can answer that question. Just know your sweet subbies might get involved with something that might ruin their lives. All because they were unfullfilled. Do you want to be the reason for that unfullfillment? In real life, some of those crackwhores look pretty nice and attractive. If your sweet subbie sissy boy wants to feel like a man one evening, and has two $20 bills in his pocket, he may just partake of them. Are you going to be the responsible Domme to your collared sub and keep him away, or are you going to be an ice queen that he can never touch. YOUR CALL! Think about it.

5. FOR GOD'S SAKE KNOW HOW TO DRESS! In Europe and most of the rest of the world, a true dominant woman dresses conservative and classy, because she knows she is dominant and does not have to prove a thing ot anyone, including herself. It is the sex industry that gave us the slutty leather look. You are NOT a slut (damnit), but a very secure lady. Dress that way. This is NOT some cheap porno movie with a bunch of bored 20 something actresses following a script flailing away at a middle-aged guy with a cheap $5 flogger. That is the sex industry's version of BDSM. Be better than that. You can be sexual and sensual without having sex and "showing the goods". COVER UP! If a subbie one day loses control and you get raped, you have NO DEFENSE. Your profile shows your ass/hoohah/tits hanging out all over the web. Not too many prosecutors are going to take this one on, and his defense will rip you apart. Remember, even things you delete are able to be brought back by law enforcement, and subsequently be made available to the defense.

OK, I am sure this advice may fall on deaf ears, but it is true, and what I have learned through many years of experience with my Domme friends, male and female submissives, and as a dominant male myself. If you want to be successful, happy and have many years of blissful experiences, please let me summarize;

1. Don't charge a penny for bringing deep personal fantasies to fruition. It is a gift you bestow. You will be loved for it.

2. Leave HATE out of this. It has no place here. Men are NOT losers, worms, and pond scum, and we do not like being called that.

3. This IS sexual. Loins will be stirred, passions will be fired. Handle it appropriately and in your own way. Do it or don't do it. Your call.

4. Know your competition is the $40 crackwhore just down the street. Be better than her. Remember she will do ANYTHING for that rock. $40 will get her TWO of them. She also has a mouth, tits, an ass, and a hoohah, and they are probably a bit thinner than yours. Win by the alure and by showing class. They will be putty in your hands.

5. Know how to dress like the classy dominate self-assured woman you are. That form hugging evening dress or pencil skirt will beat the sex industry leather "all hanging out" garb any day of the week. Remember it is all about the chase and the alure. That is what us men love to persue. A 1965 Playboy beats a new Hustler everytime

After you read this I hope you are one of three things.  MAD SAD or GLAD.

David L. of Broken Bow, NE

Retired pirate, plonderer and pillager, poet, and overall nice guy.

 

OK, in just four hours I found 34 women beggars claiming to be dominant women, but all begging for a man's money in their profiles.  I think I have found a trend here, guys.

MOST, but not all, women on this site that say they are dominant, are actually broke, need our money to survive, and have no life skills of their own. They are submissive to our wallets, and our bank accounts.

They actually HATE men, and have no respect for us even as human beings.  Just read all the derogatory terms they call men in their profiles.  These women view us a subhuman pond scum, yet they want us to give them all our money, and worship them as a goddess/queen, but they do not feel it necessary to give men even the most basic of human personal courteousy and dignity.

So much for the myth of female domination, the "devine feminine", and the morally superior female.  They are not dominant or devine at all, they are just in it for the money, they HATE men to the core, and only want to take, take, and take some more.  I HAVE PROOF!  Just look up and read the profiles listed below.  IT IS ALL ABOUT THE MONEY. It has nothing to do with BDSM or dominantion.  CASH and HATE is the only thing that drives them.

I have more respect for a street-walking crackwhore.  With her, you give her money, she gives you sex, and you are on your way, and she calls her dealer for another rock.  With these women on here they just want to take your money, and give you NOTHING AT ALL, except a lot of verbal abuse.  No sex, no BDSM, no domination, no touching.  Hell, dude, you don't even get a smile or a "thank you".  Remember , they HATE MEN.  Even the lowliest crackwhore is a better person than these "Dommes" on here that only want your money.

Don't take my word for it.  Search each individual profile out and read it for yourself.  I speak the pure truth.

The old saying is still true:  MEN want sex, and WOMEN want our MONEY.  Just read these profiles if you don't think so.

If you are one of those BEGGAR DOMMES that are totally submissive to my wallet, please move on.  A strong Dominant woman does not need my money, and is NOT submissive to it.  I would prefer to give my money to a legitimate whore. At least I KNOW I will get SEX then.  BEGGAR DOMMES give you nothing but a nasty attitude and waste your time. 

So many so called "Dommes" are begging right off in their profiles.  It is very hard to submit to a beggar.  I also notice they are usually pretty young, and don't know anything about BDSM anyway.  They think if they are mean, nasty, and beg for my money, that is going to make me want to submit to them.  GO FIGURE?