I'm looking for others who share similar thoughts and ideas and perhaps make some good lifestyle friends in the process.

I have been involved the lifestyle for quite a number of years. Ten years to be exact, but the feelings of my dominant persona have been prevalent in me for many more years than that - since childhood actually. The lifestyle is in my blood, and always will be. I am a caring, understanding, and loving Master, yet stern when I need to be. I believe that a Master should guide, train, and protect the sub/slave they own. I happen to believe also that submission to a Master or Mistress should be given out of love, trust, and desire to grow. It cannot be forced. I look to build long-term relationships with anyone I will consider as a sub/slave, so you should want that as well from a Master. For me, the bond of Master and sub/slave is a very special one.

In vanilla, I am a busy professional. I am also currently married. My spouse, however, has no interest in the lifestyle whatsoever, and is about as vanilla as one can get. For the time being, discretion is important for both professional and personal reasons. Ideally, I would like to meet someone who is in the same (or a similar) situation, or is at the least understanding of that type of situation.

When not working, I have a variety of interests and hobbies. One of things I truly enjoy is sports. It relaxes me. I enjoy golfing, tennis, racquetball just to name a few. I enjoy being outside. I am also an avid reader, someone who belives in trying to learn something everyday.

For those who have asked, I will certainly share photos once I have built some amount of trust with you. If you are interested in talking with me, or want to know anything more, send a message :-)