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Demeter30

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All people have an inner nature, not to get all pseudo-philosophical. It's through the understanding and acceptance of your own inner nature that you find peace and stillness. I like to think I'm not a typical man, but then nobody believes they are typical. People often confuse being Dominant with being callous,uncaring, and abusive. That's not me. I just prefer to be in the drivers seat of my life, that doesn't make me any less or more human than a person that seeks guidance or for someone else to "take the wheel" in their life. I am looking for this kind of relationship, something both fun, nurturing and intense. Although I am a younger Dom, I think that it's important to note that life is experiential only if you seek out certain kinds of experiences. I believe in being a guiding force. Firm, yes. Strong, yes. Indomitable, yes. But guiding and caring. A Dom can only channel what power they are given, at least that's my take. I'm looking for all those people out there that love the firm but fair hand of a BHM as their master. I'm looking for someone to let me take full control of them and push them to the limits that they never knew they had. I am not your master yet, that is a relationship that is earned not randomly thrown about for strangers. I'm a lot of things, but probably not what you expect. Most people don't understand how interwoven we all really are and how appearance is only half the story. I guess that's why I'm here. We all live in a world drenched in the false and the forced, and I want to live in the world below that. The gritty real world were things aren't black and white. I'm a philosopher by craft, and ever since I was young the way we interact has always been interesting to me. We all come here to try to figure out who we are, sex is just another expression of our persona. Ha not to get all meta, don't get me wrong I enjoy a good fuck for a fucks sake too. But there are meanings in actions too. That's what being a DOM is to me, bringing out something in another that they didn't know was there, something they couldn't reach alone. If you want to know the boring stuff like films or tv shows that I like, then hit me up and if you want to get to know something deeper thats fine too.
Friday13th
 
 Age: 30
 Mesa, Arizona