I am a writer, novice member of this community and aspiring dom. Logic and common sense suggest a sub would not be interested in offering her dom instructions on his method of operation. It would seem to defeat the purpose. At best, it would be an exercise in futility.

So, like the rugged individualist I am, I'm going to enroll in the online course: "Superior Dom'smanship Made Simple". I found it on Google. It only costs $3,000 but if I get one date it'll be worth it.

Actually that's all bullshit, of course. But there is a seed of truth in it. The BDSM lifestyle and subculture are, after all, somewhat veiled and certainly mysterious to mainstream members of our sexual world.  If I AM successful at obtaining my degree or certification or mastery of being a master, whatever this entails, I'm going to market it.

At the very least I'll go on the Dr. Phil show as a regular sidekick, promoting sexual exploration in America. I will be the GURU of what YOU DO. Catchy don't you think?