My Bucket List: fistful of hair and a long passionate kiss, a growl from out of the darkness, , a life of passion, a hard smack on the butt and the word BEHAVE, Thown back against the wall with a hand to the throat and a hot breathe in my ear!being asked a question, turning my head away and dropping my eyes, then master grabbing my chin, and forcing my eyes to meet his..., being dominated by someone who has a mental strength that doesn't cower to my intelligence, but conquers it, being his, being more complex than an anonymous list of fetishes could show, causing people to have to actually converse with me, finding out if they like *me* and not just what gets me off. , being pushed up against a wall in a passionate kiss , being ravished by his gaze from across the room , being spoken to in different languages , being taught a lesson , being wanted, needed, and cared for , getting turned on by rigorous intellectual debate , getting wet from just the sound of his voice ,hairbrush spanking , him standing there with his arms folded staring at me, honest, drama-free people with integrity , intelligent conversation, laced with wit, subtlety, humour and mutual satisfaction , intelligent, classy, well-educated people , kissing so hot and intense that it makes sex seem like an afterthought neck-held-assertively-while-receiving-strappin-bare handed-play spanks , oral sex (giving), over his knee as he blisters my bottom , pain, people who have their shit together , respect, manners, etiquette , scent , scolded, spanked, and sent to bed , sensory deprivation , sensual domination , snuggling , that 'scary" feeling before a spankin(, the way his voice changes from soft to stern , toys vibrators, wearing a big shirt with no panties or bra , well versed, articulate, intelligent men , whispering softly in a low, menacing voice this close to your ear and making you so hot you can't stand it any longer , wrists held by man's hands , writhing in his arms and struggling as he whispers everything he's going to do in my ear, you must be smarter than me to dominate me , your subtle dominance rocks me to my core.
First be my friend, then with trust I will ask you for guidance, then perhaps more but I make no promises! After a length of getting to know me and me knowing you, maybe my bucket list can start getting checked off:) Most have been checked off but they now need to be checked again, they've expired! .

I have whittled my profile down, believe it or not. No need to go on and on. If any of this sounds like a good fit, let me know.
Sapiosexual Hedonist Masochist Submissive Empathic Biochemist Nurturer Independent Self Sufficient Classy Not a Slut or Doormat Gourmet Cook Interior Designer Furniture Restorer Eclectic
Unitarian Bottom Vanilla in Public Writer of Erotica Wicked Wit If I push will you push back? LOL American and damned proud of it! Liberal Strong Alpha in Professional Career Lover of Bocelli. Not know who this is? Look it up! Educating oneself is marvelous! Adore Medieval Festivals and Chivalry That's it! Probably too much info! You're probably saying "Damn but she does go on and on! On paper I am a social butterfly but on meeting I am a shy soul!