Have you ever gone back to look at an old diary or journal and read it only to realize how much you've changed as a person? That's what happened to me when I pulled up my old profile on this site...as a result I've given it a complete overhaul and a new name to reflect who I really am.

I am still the sassy, sensual, intelligent, fun loving, woman that you may have spoken to previously...only I've stopped trying to be what I thought I had to be...stopped trying to fit into the preconceived mold that was put before me...succinctly put-I'm being myself.

I'm a dominant woman NOT a submissive one...go figure. I guess all the Doms I pissed off over the years, who swore I didn't have a submissive bone in my body were right....but I sure as hell am not gonna tell them that...LOL..That's not to say I didn't learn alot during those years.

While mutual kinks/fetish/interests are important,I prefer to get to know someone on the man-woman level first because let's face it...if two people don't mesh well in every-day-life matters then they have no business delving into a Ds relationship. That's just my personal opinion so don't send me email whining about how you disagree because I frankly don't care.

Also, I'm not going to list a bunch of likes/interests on here because I think that's what conversation is for, but I will say that orgasm control/chastity is on the list.

Feel free to email if you are an unattached submissive male who understands that this is not just about kinky sex, and comprehends the importance of a mental connection as well as a physical one.