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Hetero Male Dominant, 35,  Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
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Updated 05/08/2017 Read my profile completely before messaging me. It will save us both a lot of time. If your messages show you did not read this, I will not be receptive to them. My alpha and I recently celebrated O/our two year anniversary. W/we have a stable home and progress has been lovely, so W/we have been seeking another female to join U/us for O/our mutual enjoyment. W/we are both strongly polyamorous and seek new compatible relationships. O/our couple profile is "ViolenceFetish" if one is interested. Message Me on that profile as I am far more active on it. This profile is only for reference at this point. Women are at their best when they are kept under constant training and control and immersed in their own humiliation. I most enjoy dehumanizing, ifying, and humiliating them through any available method. They should be regularly tortured and reminded of their places as slaves to the desires of Dominant men. What I seek most is a woman to keep as a pet as the animal it is and should be. Treated as an animal in every humiliating way. It deserves nothing more. If you know your place and think you're worthy enough to stay beneath me me on all fours where you belong, then message me. Otherwise, don't waste our time. Dehumanizing, ifying, and mentally breaking slaves down to their base instincts through psychology, torture, humiliation, and sensory deprivation are among my favorite things. I much enjoy reverting a woman to its base instincts and its true purpose in life, whether that be an animal, bimbo, or pain craving masochist. I turn them into dogs and pigs to be optimally trained and used. My training is not role play. I will create real and lasting changes in my slaves, down to very basic things they take for granted until they're gone. I am also an extreme sadist and a dacryphiliac. I enjoy making a pain slut cry. I can push a slave's limits when it comes to their ability to take pain. I can and will put a slave through its share of humiliation, degradation, and torture. If any would-be slaves aren't scared yet, they should message. it probably means I'm exactly what they're looking for. I am polyamorous. I do not restrict my emotions to one person. If you think you're going to convince me you're "the one" you are wasting your time and mine. I can form lifetime relationships. I can commit. But I cannot be monogamous. I am not an online Dominant. I have had real life, full time M/s relationships of varying degrees my entire adult life. I'm looking to take my Dominance a step further into the most extreme areas of my psyche. I am seeking a fulfillment I have yet to find in most wannabe slaves. I am real and serious about what I want. I can relocate the proper, serious, real slave, should I find it. I am here to form real relationships. They can start online, but with the intention of becoming a real life, full time relationship. Other things I'm not interested in include the tired "what would you do to me?" questions. Anything about my "ideal" or "perfect" situation or about speculation on hypothetical situations. Do not message me to tell me how much you like my pictures. Do not message me to argue your feminism versus my misogyny. One word messages will receive one word responses. I reply to all messages. Whether I am kind about it depends on what you choose to say to Me. Due to the massive number of fakes on this site, if you are unable or unwilling to prove your reality after a brief period of getting to know each other, don't waste your time or mine by messaging me. I will not start any sort of relationship with someone who won't even show their face. It doesn't have to be immediately. It does have to be soon. I am typically on mobile and unable to accept chat requests. I have yahoo, kik, and Skype upon request. Do not send me a friend request if I don't know you at all. I have photos of myself available upon request. I can cam verify. I am drug and disease free. Despite the overbearing nature of my profile, I am an honorable person who takes my commitments very seriously.












 Dominant Male

 Myrtle Beach 

 South Carolina

 5' 11"

 170 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining


 Breast Play

 Cane / Crop Discipline




 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Speech Restrictions

 Comedy Shows

 Role Playing Games

 Intellectual Discourse



 Lifestyle BDSM


 Heavy Metal Music


 Anal Play


 Body Worship



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Being Massaged


 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service


 Maid / Butler Service

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation





 Arcade Games

 Card Games

 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games

 True Crime



 Writing (Expert)

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Industrial Music

 Rock Music


 Amusement Parks

 Coffee Shops





 Corner Time


 Electrical Play


 Domestic Service

 Fire Play


 Foot Worship


 Masks on Partner

 Needle Play

 Sensation Play

 Clothing Selection

 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish



 Board Games




 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs


 Web Surfing












 Cuck Options

 Old Guard


 Electronica / EDM

 Hip Hop Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Kick Boxing


 Wax Play


 Curious About:

 Suspension Bondage



 Musical Theater


 Erotic Hypnosis

 Knife Play


 Horror Movies


 1950s Lifestyle

 Victorian Lifestyle





 Genital Punishment

 Medical Play


 Romance Novels

 TV News

 TV Sports




 Conservative Politics

 Libertarian Politics


 Female Supremacy




 Pop Music

 Auto Racing





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Journal Entries:
6/14/2016 10:28:30 AM
Finally got My couple profile "ViolenceFetish" written. It's hard enough trying to sum up one person into the profile box, much less a person and a pet in the same box. I'm still not pleased with it and I will surely update it soon.

3/12/2015 6:16:38 PM
People assume much, but know so little.

12/24/2014 7:39:33 PM
People come to me asking me to humiliate and degrade them, but they don't understand what that means to me. I'm not here to tell you what a whore you are so you can get yourself off. My brand of humiliation goes far beyond simple name calling. My intent is to break a slave's shame. To dig inside of its head and pull everything out of it. To push the buttons that hurt. To make one aware of exactly what it is. To push it to the point where it is truly ashamed and keep pushing until it reaches true acceptance. Until it no longer feels shame and denial, but rather knows itself for exactly what it is. Forcing it to accept itself and accept that I want the filthy thing it is because it is filthy, not despite it. This is not something I can do for a random stranger. And this is not for everyone. If you just want some name calling play, there are plenty of others for that. What I do is much deeper and, quite frankly, can't be handled by most. I can typically tell who can handle it and who can't. Even when they don't actually know, themselves. I have had instances in the past where my training was rejected only for one to later realize exactly how much it truly did need what I knew all along about it.

12/24/2014 7:12:47 PM
My interest in heavy humiliation and degradation does not stem from a lack of confidence in myself, as I am so often accused of. It is merely a sexual kink. Something I enjoy. I do not need to belittle others to make myself feel better in any way. Outside of my M/s relationships, I am quite a different person and I don't carry these insults into vanilla life. In fact, I tend to be very opposite of my sadism in other company. I am confident in who I am. I know my flaws and I work to make those things about myself better. I cannot fully explain why I am a sadist. Why I enjoy seeing a woman in pain. Why I enjoy making them cry or making them feel low. It is just part of who I am. I accept it, embrace it, and seek out those who fit well with it. I find it to be a valuable training tool to place a slave in a lower place, psychologically, and helping them focus on their service more than their pride and self image.

12/21/2014 5:44:00 PM
Too many people accept failure without making any real effort towards what they want. If you're so sure you'll fail, then what is the real harm in trying? I don't understand the mentality of fear of rejection. Sounds more like fear of potential success to me. You're already rejected. Rejecting yourself. When you choose not to try because you think you only deserve rejection.

10/22/2014 4:23:30 PM

Fear is the most controlling factor in a person's life. Most of any person's actions and reactions are based on some form of fear. Their behaviors are rooted in fear. Fear of being alone, being poor, being homeless, being hurt, of judgement, etc. Bravery is not an absence of fear. It is the acknowledgement and conquering of fear. It is taking an action even though one is afraid of the possibilities of that action. 

Many people here live in fear. They hide behind their fantasies in anonymity, afraid of the possibilities that come with following their needs and desires. They choose security, unable to step outside of what is comfortable. Unable to face and overcome things in their personal lives that prevent them from living their dreams. 

People will react out of fear and behave irrationally, forsaking everything else in a sudden leap for safety. It is a shame to see fear rule so many people, Dominant and submissive alike. Face your fears and live your dreams. Or forever be unfulfilled in the cage you create for yourself. Always looking out at what you wish you could have and wish you could be...

9/16/2014 6:11:16 PM
One of my biggest pet peeves is people who misuse the verb dominate and the adjective dominant. A person is not dominate, they are dominant. You are not seeking a dominate man, you are seeking a dominant man to dominate you.

9/6/2014 2:12:57 AM
This is going to be a long entry. I feel like explaining a bit about training, my version of it in particular. I'm sure what I seek is off putting to a lot of people and that's very understandable. The reason I seek what I do is twofold: I'll start with the shorter of the two answers first. My personal involvement and love of humiliation and degradation. It's actually a pretty simple answer. It's not how I normally am. In the same way a powerful person in life is submissive at home or a rich person may go slumming, I love it because it is not normally who I am and it is liberating to freely explore the other side. I'm actually a very nice, respectful, and intelligent person most of the time. I'm helpful towards people. My coworkers and bosses love me because I'm amicable and I get things done. And no matter how degrading I get in my personal relationships, make no mistake that my commitment is for life. I have an ultra strong sense of honor, sometimes to a fault. You give me your best and I'll be with you through your worst. Now for the longer of the two: why I incorporate this into my dominance from a training perspective. I grew up in a military family. Negative reinforcement was quite normal in my household. I understand the ins and outs of that sort of training and why it is used as it is. When you degrade and humiliate someone, you take away from their ego and pride and those are two major things their sense of self is built upon. In a M/S relationship, it is not about the individual, it is about the unit. Trust is a key aspect. If you don't trust someone, you will find it difficult to respond to them without thinking of yourself. Think of a military exercise. Let's say a soldier needs to do something dangerous. That soldier is not on the battlefield for himself. He is there for his unit, his military, his country, his beliefs. If he was left to decide on his own, he would still be safe at home with his family. Now when he is given the order to do something dangerous, potentially lethal to himself, he will hesitate. He will think of all that can go wrong. And in that time, other lives are at stake. The entire purpose of military training is to take away that sense of self and instill a trust for the unit as a whole. All the pain, suffering, challenge, work, degradation, and humiliation he has suffered through training were designed to make him think about the unit first and himself second. And it works. It is very effective. Ultimately, a lot of BDSM relationships take similar forms. Some use positive reinforcement over negative. Some focus more on pain as the tool of pushing that trust. Some rely more on endurance of difficult tasks, or set and scheduled protocol, but in the end they all share these same basic guidelines to meet their end. Removal of pride. Sense of trust through collectively overcoming challenges with and for the unit. Sacrificing the self through pain and torment for the good of others. Now this isn't the military, so of course I would never make a slave do anything as dangerous, but I hope you see the point I am trying to make. That it is a tried and true method of achieving results. The details change from relationship to relationship, but the basic form remains the same. In the end, you create a being that trusts your leadership and does not hesitate to question the costs to itself because it believes its leadership is always doing what is best for the unit. I hope this will shed a little light on training for some of you. And I can probably expect a lot of criticism from others. And that's fine as long as it's intelligent and respectful criticism.

4/7/2014 11:32:23 AM
Why do all the fakes use words like "real" "serious" and "honest" in their names and profiles? It seems that these key words are dead giveaways to people that are none of those things at all.

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