Just starting out in this lifestyle, have realised that my tastes as they have grown over the past few years have been directing me towards the BDSM scene. Previous partners who have been reasonably willing have failed to move with me as my interest has grown. So I have decided to place myself on this site. I still regard most of what i do as vanillia but with a few extra's. Im up for trying anything and to see how it goes. my personality has been pushing me towards the dominant side and especially bondage. However I also consider myself a slight switch as on rare occasions I do like to be taken control of.

Im initially looking for a trainee slave, someone who is also new to the scene, whos tastes are just developeing. Maybe we can develope together and try different things.

I need someone to connect more on the mental level than anything else. I dont have a female type as such, but I am attracted to the more buxom and shapely wenches that are out there.

Defiaus.