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Good day,
I’m an experienced Dom. For me, D/s is not about sex. It’s about control. If you are My sub you will do as you’re told, without question or hesitation. If you don’t, you will be punished.
Mind you, I’m of the carrot-and-the-stick school: Do as
you’re told and you’ll be rewarded.
It’s that’s simple.
First of all, read My profile in its entirety. It’s long, but it’s informative.
I'm a reasonable person, intelligent, well-read, an accomplished professional in the Arts. And I'm a reasonable Dominant -- strict, yes, but rules and protocols are integral to D/s. I will set the parameters, however, in accordance with My sub's needs, interests and limits. D/s is about you finding ways to fulfill your needs through your service, not about me beating you into obedience: When I hurt you, the pain will serve a function and be part of your learning experience and your growth.
I'm also caring and supportive: I understand that, in order that You serve Me well, you need to feel that you (and the things that interest you, vanilla as well as D/s) are important to Me. And you will be. You will never be just a piece of meat. I'll always tell you the truth, and I'll expect you to do the same.
I'm seeking a submissive female who I hope will ultimately become My slave, for a relationship that will consist of periodic encounters that could lead a long-term relationship.
I'm flexible. My ideal, however, is someone who is willing to host, who is interested in something more than one-time encounters. My sub needs to be open and willing to talk about herself, her interests (vanilla and D/s), her D/s experience and her limits, and be able to hold an intelligent conversation on a variety of subjects. I will treat you with respect and affection, punish you when it's deserved, but never harm you. (That doesn't mean I won't hurt you. I will. Pain, however, is one thing. Injury is something else altogether.) I will expect you to learn and abide by my protocols.
Local is much preferred, but I can and do travel. If you're not local, I will dominate you online (mainly via e-mail) to the extent it's practical to do so, if W/we agree that's useful in building the relationship (and only to that extent). I do not use Skype, kik or YM. I will come to you as often as is reasonably possible with, as i said, the goal of a permanent relationship.
Age, race and body type are open. your attitude matters much more than anything else.
Neither of U/us will use any recreational drugs nor smoke anything. I am disease-free; you will be too, and able to prove it if asked.
I will answer any questions you may have and, in fact, I expect you to ask them. I will ask you a great many. A good D/s relationship -- like most any other good relationship -- only succeeds if the parties are open and develop trust and understanding.
FYI: I am married. We are close, but she has no interest in sex nor in D/s. i am willing to leave her for the right sub.
Last point: I will answer all messages (except as noted below) politely, and if I'm interested I will attach My photo. Please note I do expect you to tell Me what it is about My profile that interests you, and what you're looking for in a D/s relationship. Messages without that will be discarded without a reply.
Please begin your message with "Respectfully" so I know you've read My profile in its entirety.
DD1
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