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Switch/Dom Couple, 28/32,  Teotitlán, Mexico
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I am a freelance writer and travelling house-sitter; student of the sacred sexual arts, of science and liberal arts as well, with a passion for gender issues. I aspire to be: priestess, holistic health maven, sustainable homesteader and foul-mouthed sailor. I am a bit of a switch, enjoying both the exhilaration of being under the control of a dominant partner or the thrill of playing Spoiled Princess or sexy sadist. Almost all of my experience with BDSM has been in one-on-one heterosexual Male-top/fem-bottom play, so I am very eager to explore all kinds of other configurations! I'm a bit shy and a bit cynical sometimes, but I have a big tender heart. I am pansexual, enjoying partners of all genders (or non-genders - I like to fuck with the norm). Ultimately, I just love LOVE in all its forms and believe in its power to heal, transform, build community, achieve ecstasy and make magic. I am interested in meeting new and unique individuals of all walks of life to explore new interests and relationships. I am a devotee of Babalon and the Goddesses of Sex & Love, finding my spiritual place in the presence of Aphrodite & Persephone, Inanna & Ninshubar, Erzulie Fréda & La Sirene, Xochiquetzal & Xtabay. My husband and I are particularly interested in forming life-long bonds with others to create a tribe with similar goals of learning and teaching, sacred sexuality, living sustainably and traveling the world (or keeping home base). To develop this kind of longevity, we are interested especially in inclusive group play. As part of my path (in life, spirituality, sexuality) I have found my calling in the healing, empowering, revitalizing and soul-searching side of sex. Thus far I have made my practice within my existing community and hope this community continues to grow. For the astrology buffs, this is me: Sun in Cancer in 9th House
Moon in Leo in 10th House
Mars Libra in 1st house (Ascendant)
Mercury in Gemini in 9th House
Venus in Taurus in 8th House
In-depth analysis here:http://.com/groups/5681/group_posts/1378681 Some favourite quotes: "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love."
— Mother Teresa "Who's to say that love needs to be soft and gentle? You are the child of God's hoIy gift of life. You come from me, but you are not me. Your soul and your body are your own, and yours to do with as you wish."
— Secretary, 2002 "When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace."
— Jimi Hendrix Your result for The Kink Spectrum Analysis Test... Blue (450 nm)
You scored 60% self-confidence and 57% bandwidth!
Wow! You have quite a big repertoire when it comes to kinky sex. And you're probably also willing to play on either side of the fence. You should look for another Blue, or an Ultraviolet if you want to broaden your horizon. Greens may be okay as well but will probably bore you after a while. Reds are too vanilla for you. But I promised you a more detailed analysis, so here it is. Note that most scales are twofold: There are separate values for giving (active) and receiving (passive). If you scored high on one of them, you should look for a partner who scored high on the other. If you scored high on both of them, go for someone who is similar (or for multiple partners if you're into that). If you scored low on both, this probably is not your kind of kink. You scored 36% giving and 31% receiving on oral.
You scored 33% giving and 60% receiving on anal.
You scored 15% giving and 71% receiving on bondage.
You scored 37% giving and 48% receiving on humiliation.
You scored 61% giving and 57% receiving on pain.
You scored 42% dominance and 40% submission.
You scored 67% voyeurism and 56% exhibitionism. Besides that, you're 13% into fetishism and 88% polysexual (i.e. interested in sex with multiple partners, whether at the same time or not). You'll probably want a partner who is similar, whether you scored high or low in these categories. Finally, you scored 35% on autoerotic - a scale that measures your ability and/or willingness to have kinky fun without a partner. It's not exactly a matching criterion, but it's good for you if your score is high. Keep it up! You scored 57% on bandwidth, higher than 73% of your peers.
You scored 48% on humiliation-receiving, higher than 83% of your peers.
You scored 37% on humiliation-giving, higher than 60% of your peers.
You scored 71% on bondage-receiving, higher than 73% of your peers.
You scored 15% on bondage-giving, higher than 18% of your peers.
You scored 57% on pain-receiving, higher than 85% of your peers.
You scored 61% on pain-giving, higher than 84% of your peers.
You scored 13% on fetishism, higher than 7% of your peers.
You scored 88% on polysexual, higher than 94% of your peers.
You scored 67% on voyeurism, higher than 74% of your peers.
You scored 56% on exhibitionism, higher than 90% of your peers.
You scored 35% on autoerotic, higher than 49% of your peers.
You scored 31% on oral-receiving, higher than 13% of your peers.
You scored 36% on oral-giving, higher than 9% of your peers.
You scored 60% on anal-receiving, higher than 57% of your peers.
You scored 33% on anal-giving, higher than 34% of your peers.
You scored 42% on dominance, higher than 51% of your peers.
You scored 40% on submission, higher than 58% of your peers.
You scored 60% on confidence, higher than 66% of your peers.











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