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A 26 y/o, well-educated, good-looking, experienced dominant looking to meet women interested in submission in and around Portland. In the years since I was first introduced to the Lifestyle I've had the chance to pursue everything from the classic equal relationships we've all done, to male-led vanilla, to eventually expanding into all sorts of amazing Dominant/submissive relationships with a sprinkling of Master/slave total power exchange.
Those who are interested in learning more should know I place a great deal of importance on setting the foundation of any BDSM (typically D/s) relationship. Without a doubt the most important aspect of any successful kink-based situation is communication. The health of most any D/s relationship can be succinctly shown as the level of emphasis placed on honest, open communication between the relationship participants. If you are willing to be honest and open any other hurdle in this lifestyle is a breeze. I have zero qualms with training someone with no experience, provided she is both interested in learning the Life and is honest & trustworthy (after getting to know each other). One of the most important things for a submissive new to this Lifestyle to understand is that she will never be judged or viewed negatively for her willingness to be honest with her dominant about herself (assuming she takes the time to find an experienced, worthy Master). While being judged is a constant concern for any vanilla relationship, where a constant balance with what is expected of a "normal" person, the submissive in a proper D/s scene will only benefit from her honesty. Every tidbit of info, of trust, will enlarge the relationship, will add that much more depth and dimension to the connection between an experienced Dom and Sub. It has been frequently commented on how domination/submission relationships tend to develop very quickly and very fast, with the switch between "single" and "slave" seemingly developing faster then between first and second dates in some vanilla relationships. That massive level of growth, while both very odd to the outside observer and very natural to those living it, is directly sowed during the foundation/design at the beginning of any well-planned D/s relationship.
Now that all the heavy stuff is out of the way, the fun: Portland is without a doubt where I fit. I love most anything outdoors: hiking, backpacking, kayaking, rock climbing, fishing, etc etc.. Anything I haven't had a chance to try yet I'd be thrilled to (ahem, snowboarding). I love to learn, love history & psychology, and have been in photography for years.
Those who are at all interested in any aspect of this Life should feel free to message me with questions or any other info you wish to share.
--> As time and work allow, I will begin updating my journal with parts of my training plan for new submissives (It is currently being reworked).
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