|
|
|
|
| I'm a married Dominant polyamorous woman looking for a sub male who wants to find his Goddess. He does not need to be poly in that he would want other partners, but I am willing to share him should that arrangement work for both of us. He must, however, accept that I do have other current partners who I am devoted to as well and must be willing to accept that his Goddess has responsibilities that must be tended to.
To me the joy of having a submissive male is the joy of finely honing a man into a better person than he started out as. It is holding his trust, his life entirely in my hands while not having to micro-manage him. I don't want a whining pathetic, driveling little boy to play with: I want a man who can handle his own life, but chooses to submit to my guidance. I want a lion on a leash, someone who I can use for my desires and my will, who will enjoy my attentions and will do as I wish because they are devoted to me.
I want a man who can think for himself, but will wait for my word. Who seeks my approval and wants to please me. I want a man who likes being used, not just a "do-me" sub who thinks it is all about his pleasure and his wants. I like the control over him, the ability for a strong and fierce man to kneel at my feet and pledge his devotion to me, to do anything I want, to grow and improve himself, to be more than he has been previously just to please me. I am not a pro-domme and I am not here to humiliate or deny a man. I am here to find someone worthy of worshiping me and who will be rewarded well for his devotion.
I am not a cruel Goddess, I choose my toys and devotees carefully and ensure they are worthy. If I choose you, you need not fear that you are not worthy of me as my word is law: I do not choose unworthy people. You should, though, fear my displeasure, and certainly my disappointment. I have standards and those standards are set high so that you might become more than what you have been. I do not often utilize the physical restraints of bondage because I prefer to watch you endeavor to maintain control of your own body and keep a position I have commanded you to hold. I am a deeply psychological mistress who will work with your inner demons, your inner beast, and will make more of you than you might believe.
I ask for devotion, yet I do not ask for unquestioning followers. Questioning me in a respectful way is a part of your tasks as I wish you to be intelligent enough and perceptive enough to even question your goddess should something need to be brought to her attention or should you or I misunderstand some communication. Blind devotion is for the stupid and ignorant among us, and I will not have my chosen remaining ignorant or stupid in any way.
I am sexually involved with my subs and this means that I am extremely picky about who I choose. I do not engage in any sexual play unless the sub has already been tested and proven clean and is monogamous to me or is regularly tested and utilizes protection with all other partners. This is an expectation that will be upheld in every circumstance. I do not demand monogamy from my subs but I strongly prefer it.
I ultimately make the final call. If you feel you might stand up to my trials then you may petition me to see if I will consider you. Accept any rejection and take it to mean that I feel another would better suit you than I. Even worthy individuals do not always have compatible kinks.
|
|
|
|
