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Hetero Male Switch, 71,  Oregon, Oregon
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I am a mature professional man living in Eugene. I was married in a long-time sex-starved marriage. We have decided to separate and divorce. I would like to find a woman open to exploring and growing. My experience with the broad spectrum of BDSM is limited. I know a lot about erotic full body massage. We could play with bondage and spanking/canes/crops. I have played with orgasm control. I have done fisting -- if that's something you would like to try, we can. I love to play with vibrators. I respect boundaries, and if you want to expand what you thought were your limits, let's get together and make some discoveries. If you are looking for hard impact activities, or for blood, anal, degradation, abuse or humiliation I would not be the best choice. I like fun and pleasures. Abusing my intimate partner is not my idea of pleasure.
I would be happy to exchange messages to see if we should get together or just for friendship and growth. I am open to exploring Master-slave, Domination-submission, Daddy-girl, and possibly more that we are curious about.
There is nothing incestuous about a Daddy - girl relationship. It's a gentler, sometimes more loving form of domination: more discipline and reward than punishment. I'm willing to bet you will find me a lot more attractive than you expect.












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 195 lbs






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