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Hetero Male Dominant, 38,  Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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Friendly greetings to everyone. I'm James. I have been into this lifestyle now since my late teens. I have been on Fetlife and Collarme/Collarspace for close to 10 years now. Though I haven't been to as many public venues (like the TNG munches in Toronto) and other BDSM associative gathers in quite a few years, I am still very much into this lifestyle. Just prior to my mini-bio, I will say that internet dating is risky but there are ways to do it safely. If anybody needs advice how to go about, contact me for some tips to deeply lower the volatility risk. Most people on this site are fairly sincere decent people, but there are bad apples, and of course no good trolls/scammers. This is probably not the best place to look for love in your life, but if you're fully dedicated to this lifestyle, finding the right person is fairly important to keep happy in life. Quite often you can learn more about somebody over the internet than you can in real life. It's all about chemical compatibility. All the best to everybody. My dedication is very genuine. Having a vanilla relationship just isn't for me. I am willing to talk to anybody really, even if it's just exclusive online flirting and I also do believe in monogamy. I am heterosexual with a strong dominant mind; never been arrested/jailed. I enjoy the idea of dominating/controlling a female primarily through bondage. All activities must be mutual/consensual with a partner (obviously); it's like sharing the enjoyment. I am not particularly into the S/M aspect of this lifestyle, but willing to participate in it based on circumstances. I am a strong believer in trying to enhance the best out of everything, so I am keen on giving oral sex, but you absolutely must be STD free, like myself. This lifestyle is pretty fantasy directed for most people. I do run a fairly normal/decent life as well working two jobs and getting by quite well. I am fairly laid back, choosing to avoid frustration in life even at the worst moments. Drop me a line if I sound like somebody you'd interested in chatting with, regardless of location. :)

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 Deanstyle

 Dominant Male

 Toronto, Ontario 

 Canada

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 9"

 180 lbs

 38

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 05/27/07

 

Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Switch Women

Friends

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Travel (Expert)

 Hiking (Expert)

 Walking (Expert)

 Bondage

 Chastity

 Humiliation

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions

 Vibrators

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Loves:

 Bicycling

 Begging

 Collars

 Corsetry

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Gags

 Munches

 Sensory Deprivation

 Theatrical Scenes

 Comedy Shows (Expert)

 Cybering (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Alternative Music

 Golf

 Likes:

 Beachcombing (Beginner)

 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Fine Dining

 Movies

 Volunteerism

 Running (Beginner)

 Ultimate Frisbee (Beginner)

 Yachting (Beginner)

 Blindfolds

 Cages

 Hoods

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training

 Clothing Selection

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish

 Shibari

 Suspension Bondage

 Tickling

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Arcade Games (Beginner)

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Historical Shows (Beginner)

 Horror Movies

 Online Chatrooms

 Puzzle Games

 Science Fiction

 Sitcoms

 TV News

 Astrology (Beginner)

 Investing

 Photography

 Astronomy

 Mathematics

 Nanotechnology

 Philosophy

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Electronica / EDM

 Jazz

 Oldies

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Agnosticism (Beginner)

 Atheism (Beginner)

 Badminton (Beginner)

 Bowling (Beginner)

 Paintball (Beginner)

 Tennis (Beginner)

 Volleyball (Beginner)

 Tolerates:

 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping

 Clubbing

 Coffee Shops (Beginner)

 Flea Markets (Beginner)

 Gambling

 Garage Sales (Beginner)

 Museums (Beginner)

 Musical Theater (Beginner)

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Camping (Beginner)

 Climbing

 Dancing (Beginner)

 Gymnastics (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding

 Rollerblading

 Weightlifting (Beginner)

 Yoga (Beginner)

 Breast Play

 Being Massaged

 Hair Pulling

 Leashes

 Masks (Wearing)

 Objectification

 Sensation Play

 Spanking

 Stockings

 Watersports

 Wax Play

 Chess (Beginner)

 Newspapers (Beginner)

 Simulation Games

 True Crime

 TV Sports (Beginner)

 Cooking

 Meditation (Beginner)

 Painting (Beginner)

 Singing (Beginner)

 Blogging

 Chemistry (Beginner)

 Goth Lifestyle

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Blues

 Country Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Catholicism (Beginner)

 Christianity (Beginner)

 Auto Racing

 Baseball (Beginner)

 Body Building (Beginner)

 Darts (Beginner)

 Football

 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey (Beginner)

 Snowboarding (Beginner)

 Street Hockey (Beginner)

 Swimming (Beginner)

 Curious About:

 Martial Arts

 Rafting

 Tai-Chi

 Exhibitionism

 Paranormal Phenomena

 Old Guard

 Dislikes:

 Antique Shows (Beginner)

 Aerobics

 Diapers

 Fisting

 Foot Worship

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

 Pantyhose Fetish

 MMORPGs

 Romance Novels

 Drawing (Beginner)

 Conservative Politics

 Economics

 History (Beginner)

 Liberal Politics  (Beginner)

 Libertarian Politics

 Poetry

 Political Activism

 Psychology (Beginner)

 Writing

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Swinging

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Age Music

 Rap

 Reggae

 Hates:

 Crossdressing

 Dilation

 Genital Punishment

 Fire Play

 Oral Service

 Biology (Beginner)

 Physics (Beginner)

 Female Supremacy

 Sky Diving

 Hard Limits:

 Enemas

 Cuck Options

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