Collarspace.com

What am I seeking... Much as the genius I pretend to channel, I seek cerebral stimulation that pushes the boundaries of social acceptance. The good news is, society is not as overtly puritanical as in the Marquis' day, but it still feels like there are restrictions placed on us that confine us and become our definition. I come here to explore those boundaries and restrictions with the right female. "Who am I" is really unimportant, what I represent might be - again to the right person. If you are seeking a release, an outlet, the opportunity to surrender yourself in a somewhat safe, possibly sane, and quite possibly intensely erotic moment (if you are open to exploration), perhaps I am the right person to talk with. We will likely never meet as we both have lives that will not intersect, except here. Thus, what you do and say cannot and will not be used against you: Except by me in pursuit of my own ideals of fun and recreation. And I intend on using it to fulfill both our imaginary lusts and desires. As we progress, I will make demands - possibly unreasonable demands. I expect obedience. The right woman will understand what this means and rise to the challenges I present and enjoy the slow sinking into her depravities. How far we go and what we explore is, in the end, up to you as the willing participant in our search. My hold on you will only be as strong as you want the chains to be. If you are interested in exploring your thoughts and fantasies online, feel free to write. No requirement to meet. Just some stimulating conversation to spice up our day. I prefer using a messenger system as often we need the spark of spontaneity to make the day fun and lets face it, it is sometimes more intimate than the cold distance of an email or system message. I look forward to the right one's response.
11/28/2016 12:56:11 PM
Having a say

An interesting question came to me, "Why do you (i.e. Me) ask what I am hoping to get from this, isn't it obvious?" The short answer is No, it is not obvious. The longer answer is, How could someone who knows nothing about you understand your motivation?

Some subs want to be owned, but what does that really mean?  Is it a code for "real relationship"?  But I do not see the act of being owned as a means to an end.  To be owned means to live with the fact that, like any property, you can be transferred to another without your consent.  It would seem this would fly in the face of relationship.

If a relationship is built on trust, how far does such trust extend in an owner/property relationship? Should the owner not be open to the idea that an upgraded model could come to the market and keeping the prior model immediately discarded?  How does the sub/slave/property reconcile her status as "owned" with this risk of being replaced?

Even if the sub/slave claims the status of babygirl, what is it that she hopes to gain from being with Daddy?  Is it the opportunity to have her diaper changed daily or simply to feel Daddy's warm embrace?  But I think when I, or any other, asks the question, we are looking for something deeper. 

"What are you hoping to get from this?" is not a challenge and is not laziness or an inability to understand your profile missive, it is a genuine opportunity to engage you in conversation and allow you to have a say so both parties can decide if there is alignment sufficient enough to warrant a continued effort. 

Just a thought.
11/8/2016 2:31:53 PM
Another response to a comment received:

I was recently called out for not claiming any relationship status.  To be clear, I am divorced but have been dating someone "vanilla" for 3 months.  I am not saying she in incorruptible but I have, as of yet, seriously brought up the subject of my fascination with, shall we say, the darker side of human sexuality. 

Thank you for pointing this out clara. It was a good call on your part.

Have a great day.
11/8/2016 1:37:22 PM
To answer a few questions that have come up:

Why no picture?  There are a few reasons, each of which is a good explanation from my perspective. 1) This is a creative outlet for me so my looks should not be the issue. I can find a picture of some guy off the internet if you would like, but as far as my pic goes... it is not going to be posted for reason number 2) I work in a public capacity where having my picture/name/likeness exposed could cause me some public embarrassment.  I am not Carlos Danger and do not want that sort of notoriety in my life.

Yes, I prefer having written conversations. Mostly for the fact that I either sit in an office where staff come and go or I am out at a client where privacy is at a minimum.  While I enjoy the sound of a woman's voice, finding time during the day to listen and talk is not easy. With email and chat, I can respond and participate at my leisure and not have to worry about being overhear or rudely interrupted. 

Thank you for the questions and stimulating conversations so far.

HeatherH76
 
 Age: 36
  Nevada