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I am a 26 year old and I've been interested and partially active in learning more about the BDSM community for quite some time. I am recently relocated to the Woodstock, Ontario location in beautiful canada (am American).

I am seeking multiple new friends, a decent group of friends within the scene of like minded people to help extend their experience, and a submissive of my own. I would prefer someone that is single as far as the submissive goes, with no prescribed attachments and totally dedicated and commited to the submissive experience that's willing to get to know one another in all ways before discussing a serious D/s relationship.I am looking for someone who is ultimately willing to give the 110% in return that they're going to recieve.

I may be new to the scene of strict BDSM, but I'm not to the feelings that have laid dormant iwthin Me for quite some time. I've had many experiences on both sides of the coin, in learning what it feels like to be the slave at a Master's feet, what it feels like to recieve the whip that graces the slave's flesh only to get a better perspective on it, so therefore I can better respect, understand, an develop my own skills, and better understand the mindset of the slave that's before Me. (One of the best things a friend of mine said to Me was "A D/s relationship at it's core is a give and take relationship, the slave allows you to take what they give". I didn't understand what they meant at first, being ithin a gorean mindset and philosophy for my introduction to the lifestyle, however I realized that without the submissive/slave, and understanding them, having their trust and loyalty, there is no Mastery.

Through a constantly changing life that's required alot of schooling for my real life profession, traveling around the country and into a couple of others, I have finally come to some realizations that it's time that I find my niche, become whom it was that I was supposed to be and enter the world and lifestyle that I was always meant to be in. No longer shall I deny myself that which lies within Me and makes me happiest, and I hope that there are others out there that are willing to join in on the rest of my journey and experience what a compassionate, understanding, strict and dominant Man has to offer.

9/26/2005 6:03:35 PM
Hey All, am still looking for friends and people to talk too that are interested to help explain some things and share experiences with and the like, but thanks to agood friend and this site, I found someone special! :-)