A New Year begins and it is fuled with promise, so far....
In the past weeks, being away, I received some messages which I truly didn´t check due to being too far away from civilization and still in our traditional mourning period. The people who sent me these messages have now obtained their replies, and I am glad to say most are very interesting, good-hearted and smart persons who wish to make friends and grow as persons through learning, through linking up with their fellow lifestylers....
Unfortunately, a third of these messages were kink-only messages, and although I do not have anything against a kinkster, bottom topper or anything, I do consider that when you break the rule and do someone harm, or intend to hurt badly, then you don´t have the right to be that way.
I got sent messages, and when I couldn´t reply, I got sent insults. I will not reply to such or report them, as these people will eventually learn their lesson and grow wiser, recapacitating, but in the meantime, I can only hope that no one else does such thing.
For my own part, I am still looking for friends and for people to learn from and this year I shall visit the U.S. (Miami, FL, and New York City, NY and also Washington, DC with the possibility to visit Boston, MA and also Chicago, IL and Cleveland, OH. That will be a 40 days trip, staying not more than 6-7 days on each. This will take place during the latter week of June until the second week of August as I am told it matches a seasonal thin with the K-1/Pride and UFC sorganization tournaments.
This has been a great breakthrough for me in my sports practice, albeit it now is more as a trainer than a fighter but still, it´s all good, and it is still a work in project as our sponsors will eventually have the last say on who goes and where, for how long, but I am confident.
I consider an opportunity to learn more, visit places and such and I appreciate if anyone can send me a message with advise as to where the best BDSM clubs are, although I look not for Pro-Dommes (I also consider it, but I am more interested in real-deal lifestylers and not Pro Dommes, purely for reasons of objectivity in my studies and inquiries as the answers will differ, and I need to learn from more relationship-based BDSM partners than from Pro-Dommes and customers although they make a part of my learning study) in order to visit the mucnhes, see a spanking or whipping, obtain permission to be on the receiving end of one and have a coffee, chat and such.
I am especially interested in relationships built around, but not as the sole pillar or axis of, BDSM and fetish. I do wish to meet Lesbian, Bisexual, and Gay Trans Dominas and genetically-Woman Dominants and their submissives.
Also, I don´t have a thing against straight or gay Masters, but I really don´t think i can ever pick up a crop to spank a woman and I don´t really have any Dom bone in my being, even a Dom cartilage, joint, tendon or sinwew, LOL. Not even in my body fat or skin, LOL.
Also, if anyone does have a good information about scientific libraries and places where to buy software designed for engineering, chemistry, physics and math (simulation programs, calculation and reaction prediction programs, handbooks, essays and such) I would appreciate it, after all, I am a nerd and a scientist more so than a kinkster.
I hope that this year starts well for everyone and also, for their loved ones and this lifestyle, as my own blessings can make me feel happy, no matter what adversity befalls me. I wish you all to have the same thing in your lives that can turn sour into sweet, pain into pleasure and distress into comfort.
