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Hetero Male Master, 73,  Connecticut
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I am a Dominant male with many years in the lifestyle. There are few activities I wont do however hard limits include permanent damage. I prefer sensuous play but can up the beat when necessary. I enjoy working with and mentoring others, helping them to learn about and enter the lifestyle. I will update this profile shortly with more ination.

I will be glad to share pictures and such on request and from trusted sources

I play RACK...often close to the edge but never without safe words

Do contact. .. I dont bite oops I do bite back muah ha ha









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 Dominant Male


 6' 2"






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A Poly Household

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Journal Entries:
10/5/2013 9:09:22 PM
Dungeon Space Seeking dungeon space in South Western Ct. Or Or Westchester County. Reference on request. Probably monthly... occasionally more often Thanks for your consideration.

9/29/2013 5:32:37 AM
Dungeon space for occasional use sought Stamford Norwalk South Westchester County area Mostly daytime use Reasonable reimbursement. Drop a line

8/30/2005 5:58:34 AM
cont... intro to bdsm.
I went to the house. She lived out in the country and had a rather large and imposing house. She'd asked me to come out because in the course of sauna I'd offered and she'd accepted a massage. I'd been lucky enough to have some instruction and some knowledge in this area.  We'd talked about some massage and I gave her a massage; then she said to me "I need something harder, Spank me."

Although I thought this a bit off, the prospect excited me. Rather than spank her on the massage plinth I took her over my knee. I was surprised at the effect the whole thing had on me, that not only was I enjoying the skin contact (more about that later) but the act of holding her and restraining her and spanking was thorougly arousing me. I started to vary the pitch and intensity, rubbing her ass between, holding back, swinging hard but only lightly grazing and at other times whalloping her ass. She was very turned on by all this as her fluids were running on my leg. We stopped for a few minutes and she said "be right back".

(I should mention that her house was clothing optional (off). Her houseboy lurked on the fringes of all this activity but never uttered a word. She came back with a small satchel, reached in and got a pair of handcuffs (and keys) out. She handed me the keys and the cuffs, squatted in front of me with her hands out.

She explained as her houseboy looked on that while she was sexually satisfied she had these urges to be 'punished' and I was the first that seemed to be able to do the job. 

8/30/2005 5:48:55 AM
This is a first journal entry for me. I thought I'd explore my beginnings in BDSM and some of the reasons why I continue to be in/on the edges of the lifestyle.

I was first introduced to BDSM before computers and the internet, before the BBS era. I was a member of a local sauna group (clothing optional) which was for the most part straight folks who enjoyed the pleasures of steam and heat. I met a lady about 20 years (perhaps more) my senior. She invited me to her house for tea. It was definitely not an overtly sexual invite and she had a 'houseboy' who was her sexual partner.

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