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| Greetings, my friends call me DT short for dark thunder. A will let my journals speak for me and not waste lots of time and words here. I would suggest that you read them before contacting me!
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There is a fine line between exotic darkness and the unknown did very few had the courage to venture into. Hiding in the deepest darkest crevices of one's mind are many hidden secret desires waiting for someone to tap into and bring into reality. From birth we are trained and taught to ignore those deepest darkness secret desires, to never omit or allow oneself to enjoy even one of them. Yet they are few that find the courage to risk venturing into that darkest crevice of their mind allowing the secret dark desires to be brought forth. The world and society has conditioned everyone to believe that you cannot think outside the box that you have to believe what they want you to believe, and if you do not they want to judge you as having done something wrong. Finding the courage to omit there are things that many others may not believe one should allow their self to enjoy is a difficult thing to find, but the rewards can be tremendous if we do so. The definition of what is wrong and what is right between two individuals should be left to those individuals and no one else. |
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The brain is the most powerful organ in the body even more powerful than the biggest cock with her tight pussy the brain can open doorways that no other organ can open. It has to power to inspire to make one want to open their self's and allow someone to enter into space they let no other. It has the power to seduce the power to lead the power to control. Is the one organ that has power over all the other organs in the body and emotions. The greatest dominant you ever know will tell you that if you can conquer her mind inspire her to open herself up and allow you to know everything about her that only then will she ever submit to your dominants. There are so many hidden treasures deep in the mind of the submissive so many hidden desires things that she only allows herself to fantasize about. The dominant that knows how to use his brain will conquer her mind faster than the dominant that knows how to use his cock. Even if the sex is awesome and fantastic you will fade in time and they will slip from each other's fingers, but if he is conquered her mind and inspires her to give yourself to him she will always desire to do so. Unfortunately there are very few dominants still know the art of inspiring a submissive have the knowledge to seduce her the confidence to take the time needed and ability to put it all together. You do not have to be a businessman have to be college-educated to be a great dominant, you only need to realize that your brain is the best tool you have in your arsenal. |
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The foolish man seeks only the key to unlock his womans sexuality, and upon doing so, both quickly tire of each other, and both are soon alone. The soft man seeks only the key to unlock her heart, and upon doing so, merely becomes her friend. The Wise man seeks the key to unlock her mind, and upon doing so, discovers he has the other two keys. |
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The old ways of this lifestyle are slowly disappearing, and things like patients, compassion, trust, honesty are all being replaced with this attitude I have to have it today. No one wants to take time to just talk and get to know each other, it's become rush rush rush. It's become how sexy of the picture can I put on here to attract someone's attention other than having a profile talking about oneself or journals that someone can read and get a better understanding of what you enjoy and think about this lifestyle. Today's younger generation and even some of the older generation had truly forgotten what this lifestyle really is all about. The mental part of this lifestyle is 90% of what it's about the sexual and your kinks only 10% yet most believe is the most important part. My only advice I would offer anyone is slow down enjoy the journey, you may just find it will finally take you to where you've always wanted to be. |
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There are many things that can't be seen but only felt deep within us. These things are called our desires and they are hidden deep within our very souls. Left ignored they become useless desires never to be cherished or mired in there fullness. Slowly they become a whisper where they once strongly cried out to be set free. There timeless treasures that are slowly becoming just fantasies in our minds. One must find the courage and faith to not let these timeless treasures be ignored until they are forgotten and lost to us forever. When you apply nothing you become nothing, but if you put forth your best you become the best. One only learns wisdom from their mistakes for they teach us all harsh lesson. Remember just because something can not be seen does not mean it does not exist and if you do nothing then expect nothing. |
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The power of the dominance mind must be capable of breaking down the walls brick by brick to allow the slave to know that you desire to be on the inside looking out and not on the outside staring in. You must strip away all her resistance giving her no place to hide allowing you to capture her mind and place it into bondage to yours. The resistance that you will in counter is not there to stop you but to ensure her that you really desire her slavery. Your words must be powerful and penetrate to the deepest crack and crevice of her mind bringing forth all of her desires, wants, and needs stripping away all resistance until she is laid naked before you. Remember to them that wait and show great patience, understanding, and the ability read your mind will the spoils be given to. |
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After reading many profiles it's come to my conclusion there are so many that are curious about the unknown and the deepest darkest crevices of their own minds and hold secrets to a darker side of themselves. I see so many submissive curious and not sure why they hold these desires and hidden parts of their mind so no one can find it. Even though they sometimes fantasize about those desires they want to believe they're nothing more than that and yet they live there in their bed late at night craving those desires. They feel guilty or even ashamed that they have them and wonder if it is wrong to hold those desires. The honest truth is no they should never be ashamed or feel guilty of something that's part of them. Each submissive is different and what one desires another one never will, but just because others do not desire the same thing that you do does not make it any more wrong than the desires the others hold their self's. The ministries of the unknown and the darker desires is only that if you allow it to be just that. The only way to ever know if what you desire even though it may be a dark desire born unknown desire is to share that desire with someone that holds the same desires and can help you understand those desires. No one has the right to judge another and with the do they should first look at themselves. Society itself would have you believe to be submissive or in a relationship for you were submissive to a dominant is wrong and should never be. When you that your fear become your master it will always be your master. When you let others determine how you will live your life and what desires you would just enjoy, then you're allowing them to become your master. No matter what two people choose to share together if it does not harm another person there is never anything wrong with them having their desires. To sum this up be yourself and live your life so that you can be everything you desire to be and can find the truth journey you're meant to be on. |
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A submissive/slave is like a seed to achieve its greatness expression it must completely be undone. The shell cracks, its inside come out and everything be changed. To anyone that does not understand growth, it would look like complete disaster, but to a real master it seeing growth blooming to its fullest potential.
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At the very core of every submissive/slave there is a Pandora's box of desires and needs that she herself is not aware of everything that's in that box. It takes is skillful knowledgeable very patient dominant to slowly unlock the box look deep inside and bring everything into focus. Even the most convinced submissive/slave that believe they know exactly every desire and need to be complete is never the case. Many however know some of their desires and needs and maybe convinced that is all that is, but deep inside in a Pandora's box lays the mystery of who she really is. Many are convinced there are things they can never have because society, family, and friends tell them they cannot. Only when that box is open can anyone ever realize the full potential of that submissive/slave. A true dominant inspires one to reach deeper and find that box. Many become frustrated and walk away, only because they wanted something so badly, they never took the proper time to allow someone to open that box and discover the real person. Patients and knowledge is the key and remember to those that are willing to wait, comes rewards. |
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Have you ever been just browsing profiles, and come across one that his pictures and Journal entries touched the very core of your being. That there's something so familiar, yet you cannot put your finger on what that is. Your mind remembers that same feeling late at night when you just woke up and felt presence of the strongest dominant you've ever felt, your mind is focused on words that were whispered in your ear as you were sleeping. You try to put it behind you and just believe it's just another profile and yet you return time after time wondering why you are there. You feel as if he knows your mind from the things you've read in his journals better than you know your own mind, his pictures are once that you yourself would have used. There's a deep hunger and craving and the very pit of your stomach and the more you try the more you know there is much more there, but yet you still cannot put your finger on it. Then something in his journals catches your eye, words written from the very core of a dominant his heart and soul, will always touch the very core of a submissive heart and soul. Your eyes light up when you realize what you could not put your finger on, was the very thing you have been searching and seeking your entire life to feel, the true wrong power and strength of a dominant. |
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Dominants is not an action, it's a trait in one's DNA. It's not aggression or simply being domineering, or giving someone meaningless orders and assignments taken away from their freedom just a feature ego. It is not how big your cock is or if you can swing a strap or tie a knot or how many slaves you have played with. Dominance is simply who you are it oozes from your body at every turn, the way you carry yourself and what is behind your eyes. Dominants is inspiring and seducing a submissive mind, into freely coming to you, knowing there is no other place that she can ever see herself being. Dominants is having the patience, ability and understanding that kingdoms are not built overnight, and trusts takes time to build into their foundation you can build your kingdom upon.
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Are you a pendulum that is just passed equilibrium? Do you seek peace yet inspire trouble? Are you the sum of all your fears, hopes, failures, and conquests? Do you crave purpose yet are confused as to what that may be? Do your dreams scare you your goals in constant revision always looking back and never forward to the future? The truth is so many of you are, and never realize the answers you seek lie deep within yourself. Anyone can be dominant but only handfuls have the confidence, ability, and patience, to open your mind and allow you to see your true potential. He must be a disciplinarian, teacher, friend, in able to shape and mold and bring out the answers that you seek. But when I read profiles what I see is a laundry list of demands and rules and expectations that you know exactly what he must be to become the dominant for you. That is an allusion for no one has the ability to know exactly who that person will be that holds the key to unlocking the mistry of who you really are. I see so many becoming frustrated and walking away and just giving up only to regret that choice and keep coming back time after time but always ending up frustrated. The problem is we set ourselves up to fail holding our expectations way too high and believing that only the perfect person can bring us joy and happiness and fulfillment in the lifestyle. See would forget the basic thing is to first become friends and communicate and let things just play out as the always will. It will make no difference if it takes a week, month, or year if it's meant to be it will be and if it's not that to will show its ugly face overtime. So stop being a pendulum that just past your equilibrium and rethink things in a new light with a new set of eyes and maybe your luck would change.
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Why does a person not commit to another? (FEAR) perhaps it's even fear of finding exactly what you thought you wanted and realized it was not. Perhaps is very security, or relocating at the risk of losing everything. The truth is everything involves some type of risk. You risk not finding what you want if you do nothing, you risk being hurt if you put your trust into someone. Without risk there is no possibility of joy or even making a mistake or finding everything you've ever desire. There are no guarantees in life, any sure things in without taking some kind of risk the one thing you can be sure of is nothing will change.
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You have only tasted bits and pieces of the true lifestyle that you have desperately seek. Your journey has been difficult at times frustrating at times because you own me tasted bits and pieces of what you seek. You wonder why it has been so difficult to find everything that you seek. You have come to the doorway of everything that you've ever desire but never risked enough to inner through that doorway and because of that if only tasted bits and pieces of this lifestyle. You can ask any successful submissive that is found everything that she desires and she would tell you that until she was ready to risk everything she had only been able to taste bits and pieces of this lifestyle. It takes much more than just a desire it takes a belief that you were willing to risk being hurt to have more than just taste bits and pieces of this lifestyle. So when you're setting pondering and analyzing why your journey is been so difficult so frustrating and only allowed you to taste bits and pieces of this lifestyle. You may want to step back take a look in the mirror and ask yourself are you willing to risk being hurt to find everything that you seek? Are you willing to open yourself up to reach for everything that you desire holding nothing back wanting more than to just taste bits and pieces of this lifestyle. So far you convince yourself that until you are positive he is the one, that you do not have to risk anything open yourself up to be hurt, and that is only gotten you a taste of bits and pieces of what this lifestyle is about. Nothing in this world is free everything demand some type of risk and until you're ready to do that, you only taste bits and pieces of this lifestyle. |
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Have you ever been pushed up against the wall hard, his hand around your neck, his eyes piercing into the very core of your soul? Making your beading difficult, your heart pounding as if it would explode in your chest? Do you remember how it felt to feel your legs trembling and shaking, and if it were not for him holding you against the wall you would collapse to the floor? Feeling dominant power so overwhelming that it renders you useless and you find yourself yielding to his will? Have you ever felt please be out-of-control and yet is exactly where you've always desired to be? Do you remember seeing the intensity in his eyes allowing you to know that he knows exactly what you need and desire and he intends to give it to you? That you have experienced mental bondage and you would never forget or allow yourself to ever forget how that felt. |
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Funny how no one remembers the essence of this lifestyle. The way a dominant walks into a room and never has to announce that he is dominant. His actions, confidence, and the way he talks is enough for everyone to see his true nature. People put emphasis on the sexual aspect when the true essence of this lifestyle is when a dominant can run his fingers through a submissive's hair and she trembles, shakes and can feel every ounce of his power without a single word ever being spoken. Funny how so many want to believe you have to fit into a certain category to be dominant or submissive when in reality it's never that simple. Funny how people believe by simply putting the words dominant or submissive in their title that it makes them exactly that. Funny how the sexual aspect is only a very small part of the lifestyle. The mental aspect needs to be satisfied before any sexual part. Funny how so many believe they are born with the skills to become a dominant or submissive, in reality your personality maybe dominant or submissive but it takes time and patience to craft, skill and really understand the true nature of becoming a dominant or submissive. Funny how a submissive thinks it is as simple as just saying they will submit to all your desires, when in reality if it was that simple would it be worth going after? Funny how a dominant believes it is just as simple, only to realize what he has captured was not all that he believed it to be. The dance is the most important part where you begin to discover each other and begin to feel his power and her submission and understand the connection between the two. The mental aspect is the most difficult part and the most misunderstood. Anyone can spread their legs, anyone can shove their cock into a hole, but to look into the eyes of a submissive and see she is totally dedicated to your every desire and wanting to make your life better is something very special indeed. To see in the eyes of a dominant that you are special, unique and priceless because no other can give to him which you bring to his life. Funny how the old ways are still the only ways for this lifestyle to blossom and finally but unfortunately the new ways are destroying what was once the most beautiful way to live your life.
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The craft of a master is not imposing his dominants, but winning her submission. He must show great patients and inspire her willingness to allow him access to her mind. He may show no doubt in his confidence, without being overconfident in gaining her trust. He must be willing to overcome any obstacles she may have built to keep anyone out, by showing her that he belongs on the inside. He must show her that he has chosen her and he will not waiver until he owns her. |
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He's always standing in the shadows watching, listening, and sees your every need, desire, illustrations, and he waits until you are ready to accept your destiny. You felt his presence coming from somewhere in the shadows, but you deny your destiny. He there in the deepest darkest crevices of your mind, you feel him and his thoughts yet you deny your destiny. Each patient, cunning, and know that one day you would except your true destiny. The Shadows! |
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There is an old saying" that if you apply nothing you will be nothing, but if you put forth your best you will become the best." Many of us have either heard or saw this old saying, but how many really took the time to understand what he meant. Now here's my challenge to anyone for anyone to tell me exactly what the 21 words really mean! |
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There are many reasons so many become frustrated and discouraged and the biggest factor of them all is fear. There fear becomes their master, they fear failure, risk, the unknown, and their own voice from deep within. Each time they begin to wander beyond their comfort zone, fear raised its ugly head and pushes them back. They fear it took to patients he will not wait, if they rush in the will be making a mistake. One must first conquer their fear, understand what they need to be complete and never waver from it. Fear itself is not always a bad thing, if you know it is just a mechanism to tell you to stop and listen before any choices are made. Fear by itself is powerless until you give it the power to control you to become your master. |
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Thought of the day!!
In this pursuit to find the right one so many make the mistake of confusing the real person with the one they have created in your mind. They desire it so badly a here only what they want to hear, they see only what they want to see. Then they become lost and confused and want to blame everything on someone else, when the responsibility and the choice they made is solely theirs alone and no one else's. Remember if it's real and worth it then it will still be there when the time is right. |
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Over my years in this lifestyle I have saw many changes some more good but most took away from the true meaning of this lifestyle. Dominants forgot how to rule without becoming a tyrant they forgot it requires understanding and humidity to rule. They miss take pride for arrogance they lack humility. They tried to command out of fear and not respect for the lack humility. They employ force and not strength because he lacked the knowledge and have no humility. They try to alter and never complete they're not able to see what is there what is missing for they lack understanding and have no humility. Years of mistakes trials and tribulations have given me the experience and knowledge to see things in a much cleaner light than when I first started out for I have learned humility. One never needs to demand respect or demand they be called master, for over time one learns others are the true judge of who you truly are and only they can bestow that name upon you with meaning. The foolish master only sees her sexuality and never the true beauty lies deep within her mind, and is the foundation of who she truly is. The inexperienced master never understands that she is like a Pandora's box that has to be opened before you can truly know everything that lies within her. To sum this up this lifestyle is not as complicated as it is been made out to be, it only takes being true to oneself, understanding you make mistakes along the way, but each one can teach you and bring you the knowledge to become not just a master, but a true genuine master! |
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Hope brings forth faith, and faith brings forth courage, and courage brings forth the will to risk! Remember nothing comes without risk, and risk only comes from having the courage to take it, and having the faith to believe it works, and that brings us back to hope! So never lose hope, faith, or courage to take that risk to believe in yourself and that others will see the real you! |
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A Slave's Journey She was a young woman who came to me unbidden, asking for only a few minutes of my time. She was dressed very simply in flowing white, yet was carefully prepared to show herself at her best. She was very lovely, but her youth was especially attractive to me, for she could have been my youngest daughter. There was no chair for her to sit before me, and this disconcerted her. I motioned for her to sit on the cushions at my feet. Then she smiled at me and did as I bade. She spoke to me very directly in a low and melodious voice. "Thank you for seeing me, sir. I have come to you to learn of the Way of Submission. I have been told you are a Master of great wisdom, and I wish to learn the truth. I understand that you are now retired, but truly I need your help, and I beg for your indulgence, kind sir." She looked up at me, her face shining with hope. "It is true that I no longer teach," I replied. "I have left the bustle of the world behind, and these days I often sit alone in contemplation and remember the past." "Please, sir, help me!" she begged. "I gladly will pay you very well. You only need ask and anything that I can provide will be yours." "What is it that you wish to learn?" I asked, intrigued. "Do you wish to become a slave or to create one?" My directness seemed to disturb her, for I could see she was struggling to reply. "Ahh!" I continued. "Does the word 'slave' disturb you? I know it is not a 'nice' word in these times, and yet slavery has been part of human society from its very roots. Today most slaves do not acknowledge their bondage ‹ they call themselves free yet they are enslaved by one means or other. Many are slaves to their work. Of course, our governments also deceive us and try to hold us in its bondage as well. These are accepted as normal, but none dare label them truthfully as the bondage they are." She was silent, and I continued, "Do you wish to hear of the history of slavery in human society? Or of the day-to-day slavery of life in our times? Or, perhaps, the slavery in which some mating couples bind themselves together?" I could sense her desire by her subtle movements while I spoke, but she needed to acknowledge it out loud. I quietly waited. "Yes, please, tell me of mate slavery," finally came her very soft reply. I smiled at her.” The 'mate-slave' is someone who has willingly taken a vow of submission and obedience to their mate. Their slavery is not coerced, nor are they held forcibly by an oppressive social or legal system. Indeed, the world around them guarantees their freedom to turn away from their mate and seek another life -- and yet they choose to live in a private world in which they are truly a slave to their mate." She settled herself and listened very attentively as I spoke. Then I gently asked her, "Have you felt the urge to experience the submissiveness of your female nature? Or, perhaps your mate has asked for your submission?" She raised her eyes to mine and answered calmly. "I am not a slave by nature, but I have thought about it recently. My last lover asked me to fully submit to him. I did not. I felt threatened by what he said, so I rejected and ridiculed him. He left me vowing that he would never speak to me again. I soon came to regret my hasty words. I have tried to reach him, but he will not answer me. My love is much stronger than I realized then, and I cannot forget him. I know it is too late for me to win him back unless I can do as he wishes ‹ and yet I am afraid that I cannot. I need to learn more about what he wanted from me. I need your guidance to help me decide what to do." I smiled at her sadly for her pain and said, "All of us, Masters and slaves, rejoice in our hearts with those who join us, and ache for the loss and despair of those who have not found their way but need to. I hope my words will help you find your way." I continued, "All relationships are different because all people are different, but underlying our individual differences we share many things. In mate-slavery both partners are reaching beyond ordinary social facades and striving to meet their needs through the other in a way 'normal' relationships cannot. Does this make mate-slavery better? Perhaps, but not necessarily. There is much potential power there, and if used wisely it can forge a bond of great strength between two people." She asked with doubt clear in her voice, "You think being a slave can be better than just being a wife?" I could hear the skepticism in her voice. I had to quash it now, firmly. "Yes. It can. Does being a slave make you in any way less than a 'normal' wife? Indeed not. Rather, we know that within you are far more. You have opened yourself to new possibilities. You have committed yourself to your mate with more confidence and enthusiasm. Your intensity and passion can fire your relationship far longer than a normal wife's. Few wives have a man with the power and passion that slaves do." My speaking of passion caused a brief look of remorse and longing to pass across her face, but she remained silent, listening. "Your lover's desire to fully possess you was not unusual. Many men desire this, and many women desire to be possessed as well, but still, few dare to bring it to reality. However, our sexuality and emotional needs are very complex, and there are many patterns and variations. For example, there are also men who desire to submit and emerge themselves in their love for a woman, and there are women who desire to possess men. All of these relationships can work given the right circumstances." "Your reasons for submitting as a slave to your mate must be your own. Most slaves prefer to be the property of one Master, much as a wife literally belonged to her husband in ages past. For a few slaves, however, their adventurous spirit requires the pleasure and excitement of serving more than one Master. It does not matter which type you become, since all can find happiness in this world, and in turn bring happiness to their Masters. The most important thing for you is which lifestyle will bring happiness to you. Women usually find that by bringing more happiness to their men they in turn bring more happiness to their feminine souls." Here she looked up at me with some fire.” I pleased him in other ways, many other ways," she cried. "I shared with him. I compromised and tried to make plans with him. I was a good lover, too! I don't think I did fail him!" "Then," I asked, " why did he ask you to submit to him? Didn't he want MORE from you? And then, in response, didn't you refuse and thus force him to leave you?" Her mouth opened, but she had no words to say. She shook her head, in anger perhaps, and then two tears silently rolled down her cheeks. Relentlessly, raising my voice, I went on, "How can a Master not value his slave's commitment? When he is fully involved with her slavery, he will ensure that she is given an opportunity to prove her love and dedication! Becoming a slave is not an end ‹ it is more aptly a new beginning." I continued more quietly, "Nothing in life is without risks, but mate-slavery is especially rewarding in these days of separate incomes, easy divorces, and separate lifestyles. Slavery can bring a greater level of support and security to the woman, more rewards to the man, and a higher level of excitement to the relationship." I repeated, "Nothing is without risks, but mate-slavery can bring great rewards ‹ if you risk it." She looked at me silently, her pretty face graven, perhaps now beginning to understand. "You did not follow his lead towards enriching your relationship. So, yes, you did fail him." I had thrown her worst fears back at her, and misery showed in her face. "A mate-slave couple is indeed blessed. Of course, what I have said are idealizations, and we know the reality in our lives falls short of the ideals, which guide it. Still, a woman living as a slave enjoys a rare opportunity. One, which you have missed." She stared at me, her face now a picture of grief. Such sadness in the face of one so young and pretty tore at my heart. Very gently I said, "However, you believe you may have one last chance to reach your lover. Do you care enough to try for it? You must be very sure. Only if you are very sure will I instruct you in the Way of Submission." She sat silently, gathering her courage perhaps. Then she spoke. "Yes, please," she said in a quiet voice. "I can see your great wisdom and the value of your guidance. I understand now that I can learn a great deal from you. And I am very, very sure. I want my lover back. Please, teach me." "I will take no money, but you will pay by serving me here in the evenings. We will begin each lesson with study and discussion, but talk means little where the soul is concerned ‹ only actions count." "You mean, Sir, " she whispered, "that I would have to serve as your slave?" I nodded. "When I teach you about the Way of Submission, as a serious student you will become a slave-in-training. If you are receptive to the lessons there is no doubt that you would truly be enslaved by the end." "Oh!" she said looking somewhat uncomfortable. "I know I'm certainly not ready to agree to being a slave now, and even more I'm not sure if I believe you. I don't think it would be very easy for me to become a slave, after all, I've been pretty independent my whole life." I smiled. "Trust me, young lady. The potential indeed lies within you. I can see it myself. It only needs the proper nurturing and development. It will happen as I say if you are truly serious in your desire and conscientious in your study. You will be reborn as a lovely slave girl." She was silent and stared down at the ground for a few moments, thinking, then she looked deeply into my eyes as she spoke,” If I become a 'slave-in-training' expecting that your training will enslave me, I require one promise from you." She looked at me expectantly. I nodded. "State your request." Her words tumbled out, "That I be given as a slave to the man I love." I smiled at her. "Blessed are you, my dear. I would do that in any case. Then, we are agreed that you will enter my training?" She nodded her head and whispered, "Yes, sir." I found I was very pleased. I then gave her detailed instructions for her next visit and sent her on her way. I watched her leave, examining her body. She would make a very lovely slave. Each day she would come to me, at the time and in the manner I specified. I would instruct her in the Way of Submission. Each day she would study and then would experience what I demanded for her training. I turned to my book, 'The Way of Submission,' which I had spent so many years in writing, and I opened it to muse on its mysterious ways. In the end, it would be as I said. There was no doubt that she would succumb to the yearnings of submission in her heart. Her longing for her lost lover was strong, and she understood that she could not bridge the barrier between them as a free woman, but after I had enslaved her she would be sent to him, and she would at last belong to him. She would make them both very happy. |
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When you stand before a mirror and the person staring back at you regrets that they have lived their lives for others and never lived their life for themselves. Do you regrets that you've always lived your life as society and others around you have told you that is how you should live and now regrets that you never took that chance and opportunity to live your life as you so choose to. Do you regret that you never became that slave you really wanted to be and enjoyed the desires that are deep within you? What would it take for you to understand that to be on your death bed looking back over your life in regretting you let others choose a like for you and never had the courage to live the life that you wanted most of all? The one thing that we can never get back is time, once it is gone is gone forever and you can never really have that moment in time. So look deep within yourself and discover the person you really are and make a promise to yourself to become that person and live your life for yourself. Remember no one knows what you need to be complete and happy others than yourself and no one have the power to change your life other than yourself. So before you wake up one day full of regret take hold of your life and live it as you desire. |
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I am not here for your entertainment, or to know that you like my pictures or my journals. Now having said all that, if you wish to hold the conversation or have a question that you need answered, then by all means message me. Now if you still do that and see your message unread, you know the reason why. |
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There are many obstacles and barriers on the path of every journey in life the one travels. When a submissive starts down the road on her journey she will encounter many boulders in her path, the majority of submissive will simply turn around and complain that it was unfair she encounters a boulder in her path and do nothing to remove it. A very few will take the time to remove that boulder and will discover that beneath that boulder was a key it would unlock one more mystery and allow her to discover more about herself. The moral of this story is that in life in on your journey the person solely responsible is and always will be oneself. That if you wait for others to remove the obstacles, barriers, and boulders from your pathway you will never discover the happiness that you seek. |
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Have you come here in pursuit of your deepest urges and desires? Have you come here in pursuit of the voice deep within you that is state silent until now? Have you come here in pursuit of answers that have eluded you for so long? The answers have always been hit deep within your mind and all you ever needed was a strong dominant with the wisdom and knowledge to guide you to the place you wish to be. |
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Things she needs and the dominant should never forget!!
1. Your time. If you can’t be with her, talk, text, instant message, or send smoke signals fairly frequently then you aren’t for her. She needs to know she on your mind and you want to be near her. It isn’t just common knowledge, and it never will be, no matter how hard you have tried to make it so.
2. Your attention. If you can’t listen to the little details of her life and make contributions that are useful (even if they aren’t what she want to hear), then you aren’t for her. She need to know that what matters to her today, tomorrow, or next week, also matters to you. Whatever it is may be a silly thing in your mind, but it’s her thing, and it’s important to her.
3. Your consistency. If you can’t enforce the rules you set, and punish and/or reward every single time, then you aren’t for her. Sure you can take into consideration the circumstances in her life at the time, but she need to know that each rule you set has purpose and you intend to see them all through. If you can’t supervise them, don’t set them.
4. Your honesty. If you can’t tell her the truth, all the time, every time, then you aren’t for her. She will not lie to you, even when she really wants to, and she expects the same courtesy. If you are always honest with her, even about the little things she will find it easier to believe the harder stuff.
5. Your trust. If you can't trust her to know her limits, when she reaches them and to let you know then you not for her. She trust you to take her to new places but you have to go with her to and sometimes those places are also new to you so go there together.
6.Your mind, if you can't share that things that are important to you with her and you're not for her she likes your body she like your skills but she also wants to like your mind your thoughts dream goals and ambitions are important to her to what happens in your life matters to her because you matter to her. |
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It is written when all have passed away, and history has been written only words spoken in truth will endure. Real truth will endure long after the ego of man has become something not important. When all is said and done we are only able to change one person, and that is ourselves. If we do that and we can change for the better we make it simpler for others to make changes in themselves letting it trickle down like a stream that becomes a river that becomes the ocean. If we have lived in truth, and honor it we have given the ones who follow us the greatest of all gifts. |
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I am interested in finding what you may call a penpal to explore in exchange ideas about this wonderful lifestyle, most interested in others from countries like Australia, England, Ireland, but all are welcome.DT |
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A true slave has known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known lost and yet have found their way out of the depths of all of that to become a true slave. It has made them stronger more determined more committed to their slavery. True slaves are not born they are made from there struggles and failures into the most beautiful thing of all a slave. |
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The foolish master seeks only the key to unlock his slave sexually forgetting the mental aspect and soon both quickly tire of each other and soon find there self alone seeking once again!!!!!! |
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I have discovered over my years of teaching that the biggest challenge a dominant faces is reaching the deepest darkest places that are hidden deep within her core that hold her unspoken fantasies and deepest desires. Timeless treasures to be a mired and cherished then nurtured but left ignored they become unspoken words, useless words, nothing more. A wise dominant understands this and knows he must seduce her mind and inspire her to freely take the risk of opening herself completely allowing him deep within her. Like a wise hunter he must allow her to move closer show patients and not be in such a rush that he scares her off before she is in reach. He must allow her to smell the sweet nectar of his dominance to where she desires to taste the forbidden fruit of his dominance. Once she is felt to taste upon her lips and her craving and hunger to taste more of his dominance she will freely wants to move into reach and be captured by him. |
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After reading many profiles I have come to the conclusion that both submissive and dominant lacked the ability to communicate properly. I say this not to offend anyone but to bring to light a problem I have noticed. It is the responsibility of both to communicate to each other who they are and what they are seeking. Many become frustrated because the other for one reason or the other cannot open up and allow the other to see who they really are. I realize many are scared that that person may not desires them if they knew every last thing about them. Some have hidden desires they believe they should never have and are frightened to share them. A dominant needs to be able to inspire a submissive to want to open up and share everything about herself with him, but it's also her responsibility to inspire him to want to make her his. Many have been played and lied to and are very reluctant to trust in anyone and that makes it very difficult. One has to learn there is a risk in everything we do consequences for every choice that we make, and like it or not that is a fact. I have saw two individuals that was so perfect for each other, fall apart only because they would not take a risk allowing the other to see who they really were and what they needed to be complete. No one knows exactly where life would take them or who will crossed her path. Believing someone has to be perfect to become your master or slave only builds a barrier difficult cross. Being submissive has nothing to do with how much you weigh, how tall you are, how old you are, what race you are, or any other factor. It's what is inside you that makes you submissive and what any true dominant should seek. The same goes for dominant it's what is inside him that makes him a great master or just a player. I used to teach BDSM at munches and seminars and you would not believe how many really never knew what this lifestyle was really all about. They read things in books talk to others, and nine at it 10 times the books they read the people they talk to had no idea your their self's. Trust is not earned, it's lost by one's actions, the amount of trust you place in someone is earned over time. The most successful dominants and submissive it's will tell you they risked much but the rewards will far greater. They knew and understood without risk one never grows and learns. In conclusion one could say be yourself if you feel deep inside that person is worth the risk and go for it, waking up regretting a wondering what if is never a good feeling. |
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A reminder, especially this time of year...
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, " I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
“The golf balls are the important things -- your God, family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions -- things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
“The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car.
“The sand is everything else -- the small stuff.
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
“Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
Play another 18.
There will always be time to clean the house and ‘fix the disposal’.
“Take care of the golf balls first -- the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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"The Obstacles In Our Path"
There are many obstacles on the path of each journey in life that we take. As a submissive start down the journey of the road she will encounter many boulders in her path. The majority of submissiveness will simply turn around and complained about it being in her pathway and do nothing to remove it. But the submissive that takes the time to struggle and sacrifice and remove the boulder from the path finds that lying beneath it is the key that she's been looking for to make her the best that she could be. The moral of the story is that your life and the journey that you're on is your responsibility and if you wait for others to remove all the obstacles from your pathway you will never find happiness that you seek.
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A dominant is many things such as magical because he can take the impossible and make it possible. He can be terrifying because his powers can reach deep into your mind and bring forth all your deepest darkest secrets and forbidden desires that you felt were hidden from everyone. He can be dangerous because he can make you desire, crave, and make you want to become that person that you always wanted to be, and felt there was no way you could be that person ever. He can be powerful because his knowledge of how to reach the deepest darkest crevices in your mind is far superior to any other you've ever met. Mostly he is mystifying because he does not fit into any category of other dominants you have spoken to. Simply put what you're feeling and the core of your soul can be felt but not seen the words that have become magical is nothing more than his thoughts transformed into words filled with power and that is dominants. |
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A Dominant is a Ruler, but never a
Tyrant.
But to rule requires
understanding and
understanding requires humility.
A Dominant has Pride, but never
Arrogance.
But pride requires dignity and
dignity requires humility.
A Dominant commands Respect,
but never Fear.
But respect requires serenity and
serenity requires humility.
A Dominant employs Strength, but
never Force.
But strength requires knowledge
and knowledge requires humility.
A Dominant employs Strength, but
never Force.
But strength requires knowledge
and knowledge requires humility
A Dominant completes, but never
tries to alter.
But to complete one must be able
to see what is there, not what is
missing and THIS most of all
requires humility. |
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