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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? Your playing small does not serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
“Light thinks it travels faster than anything but it is wrong. No matter how fast light travels, it finds the darkness has always gotten there first, and is waiting for it.”
“It cannot be seen, cannot be felt,
Cannot be heard, cannot be smelt,
It lies behind stars and under hills,
And empty holes it fills,
It comes first and follows after.
Those Who Fear What The Dark Will Do Have No Idea What The Light Has Done.
There's no monster in the closet
No shadow under your bed
Just the normal whispers
Sending visions through your head.
There is nothing anywhere.Only what you have been told there is. Nothing more.
Are you what you have been told you are.Or, are you something totally different.
Would you even know the difference. Unless someone opens a door no one has ever opened for you before.
Entering into your mind. You think it has happened before.
Not even close.
Most people you meet will be and act and say the very same things you do.Day in day out,month after month,year after year.
Why? Because...they are sleep walking just like you have been all your/their life.
You will say you have done so many different things in your life.
That you are different,unique even.
Only to find that you have gone to all the same places done all the same things every one else has.
That is why there are so many cruise ships,resorts,casinos,etc.
Because everyone will always do the very same thing.
Human nature is so predictable...
Yes, you are here. Will you become someone totally different or will you find nothing but fault after fault with everyone that contacts you so you never have to really make a change.
Most, will find fault. Complain about it. But never do anything about it.
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Fantasy.
Some say they don't want fantasy they want real.
Who says fantasy can't be real.Who says fantasy is not real.
The building you work in. The home you live in was not always there.
Someone thought them into being.
The book you read last, the movie you last saw. Was someones fantasy thought at one time.
There has to be something that causes you to want to open the door and
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I can take you and change you.
I can take control of you,your thoughts and desires.
I've done it before to others.
Here online.
Some just want to be controlled alone in the privacy of their own home.
No sex with another person just to obey and be free from a life that is less than it should be or more stressful than it has to be.
Some just want someone to talk to.About those thoughts that seem dark to dark for others to understand.
I prefer real time and a LTR.
I do understand those that seek cyber control.
Friends of mine have found their slaves from those that only wanted cyber.
So who knows.
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Welcome to your "DARK" thoughts/desires. |
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Inside the white swirls of fog there can be seen the "Dark Areas" Dark Fog.
Like the dreams and fantasies in your mind. |
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A question I read in a profile.
Are there no real true dominant men out there?
My first thought was.What may you consider a "real true Dominant" I have had the pleasure of meeting wonderful people in this "LIFE" (I don't really care for the term "lifestyle" to me it means one that plays and are not really serious) over the years.That have in some form or another asked the same question.Are there any real true submissive/slaves. I see the question from both sides.
I have asked them the same question.
Which is almost impossible to answer. They all come up with pretty much the same answers yet those answers never really help them.
You, I'm sure have an answer to that question as well.
The problem I have discovered is that your answer may not match the answer of others that you have talked with or sent messages to.
That is one of the things I have found over the years two ships passing in the fog.
I often wonder why each profile I read always reads the same.
What does it mean to be dominant,what does it mean to be submissive.
There are so many lame answers to these two questions.It is easy to weed out the clueless right away.
Then we have to move into the other areas. What does it mean to be a Master.
What does it mean to be a slave.
I venture to say that most don't really know what this life is about. Other than what they have read in books of fiction.
Most really only want a little control and some kink and someone they can trust.
(Trust is very important)
However when one finds a dominant that knows this life and desires a certain way and certain things from the one that submits to him/her... and they (the one submitting) don't really know the things they should know. That is when problems arise. And name calling begins.
Some are so narrow minded that they will only see what they want to see. Receive only what they want to receive and only in the way they think it should be received.
There is nothing wrong with that. If you are not really wanting to find someone.
Think about this for a moment. If you have tried and tried, over and over again and it seems you are getting nowhere... one has to ask is it me? Or, what is the problem.
I see it here all the time in profiles."I'm trying for the 3rd/4th/5th time."
Sure there are a lot people here who will waste your time.
But, maybe, they are feeling the same way as you.
I have often said that in the vanilla world two people meet fall in lust and everything is wonderful until one day the lust is gone and they find themselves with a total stranger. By the time that happens for most people they are married.
If you are here and you have never really owned a person then you don’t really know what it is all about. (Anyone can tie up another and spank,give orders,use a flogger,etc.)
If you are here reading this and you want to be owned by another and serve them and yet you have never really done so. Then you don’t really know what its like and you don’t really know what it is all about.(Yes, I'm aware we all have to start somewhere)
If you are new to it. Even if you have been playing at it for years. By that I mean. You have been here or sites like it and you have been to some play parties,you are still new.
(If you have never lived the slave side you are still new.)
It is a lot of work to take the ownership of another. It also takes a lot of work to serve another person.
Just a lot of romance and kink,Some bondage thrown in,a few toys,some leather goods, is not a Dominant/submissive life it is playing adult games.
Nothing wrong with that at all. If you tell the truth and let people know that is what you want.
But telling a person like me you want to be my slave.
You have a rude awakening coming. Because a slave of mine will do all the things I do not want to do. And lets face it... if I’m spending my time with you in bondage you will be getting nothing done. If I have to tie you up and use a flogger on you so you can go into subspace when ever you want it. That is not you serving me. That is me serving you.
So before you ask the question, “Are there no real true Dominant men out there?”
Ask yourself if you really know what it is to be a slave to a true Dominant.
You only get what you can truly give.
That is true on both sides.
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We often cling to beliefs that if released/castaway we would be happier and enjoy life more.
We are a collection of thoughts/demands/charges/rules/ that have been placed/forced upon us by family/friends/jobs,etc.
Most do not even know who they really are.
Is your desires yours. Or are your desires someone else s.
Are you living another s life.
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I have always been different. Thought differently, lived differently...
Now others are starting to think the way I do.It is refreshing to meet those who think more like I do.
Some of you may be here. |
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CHAT DOES NOT WORK....CHAT DOES NOT WORK!!!!! |
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| Age: 22 |
| Leiden,
Netherlands |
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