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I find it so funny. Some people on here who can't get laid (for various reasons, use your imagination) go on to complain how everyone else on this site is a fake. Ever think that maybe the people you are hitting on on this site just don't want anything to do with you? huh? huh? |
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Ahhhhh, the mindless, faceless, nameless and remorseless drones. What would this site be without them?.................. |
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Never, ever ceases to amaze me......even when they are trying to insult someone......the idiots on this site can't even spell. Amazingly, it immediately "outs" them for the degenerate trash that they are. I love seeing some of the childish tantrums they throw on here because they can't have what they want.......we all know who they are. Go back to that "fish" site if you aren't happy here........ |
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Geezus! I mean......really..........Mind control/Hypnotism, Financial Domination? Whatever happened to a good old-fashioned tying up and spanking. Doesn't anybody F**K anymore? |
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Ooooooh LOOK! Some guy's snowmobile, anther guy's ATV, a pickup truck and......WOW! a guy holding a fish.......Hold me back! i'm turned on now. Now all i need to see is a big, fat beer-belly and i am melting in his arms!!!!! |
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Always remember.....this site is free so there are no real safeguards so do like i do and treat it like a bowl or granola.........fruits, nuts and the rest are flakes. Think that way and you should be good to go! |
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Are there any pretty, slender females out there that would like to get together with me and my fiance (female) while i collar you both and direct the action?!?!? Anyone? Anyone? |
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Damn! Time to bleach my eyeballs again.......i've seen too much! |
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Fakes! Time-Wasters! B.S. Artists! Liars!. People, this is a free site with little or no credential proof required......what did you expect? Of course there are fakes and deceptive people on here, the site is wide open.....if you want to get away from all this crap then go to a pay per site and stop your whining, otherwise, just sit back and enjoy the Circus that is Collarme.com and just laugh..... |
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When you say "Professional", do you mean like, a Doctor or Lawyer or do you mean, professional B.S. artist? |
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OMFG! I have seen too much, i must now go and wash my eyeballs........with bleach!
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Why do the most disgusting guys make the most outrageous demands that they will NEVER see met???
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OMFG! FINANCIAL DOMME?!?!? Is'nt that Revenue Canada? I can't believe there are people who believe that draining my wallet is sexy! Get a life!
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I've noticed a marked increase in Trans-Everything on this site. A guy puts on a pair of chick's panties and Voila', he's a Trans-Submissive......GEEZUS! There are some scary ones out there too! I'm wondering how many Buffalo Bobs are in our midst????
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Ok, i am REALLY getting tired of the fucktards who can't read simple ENGLISH. I AM NOT SEEKING OTHERS LIKE ME AND DO NOT TRY TO ADD ME UNLESS I HAVE SPOKEN TO YOU PREVIOUSLY AND APPROVE OF YOU. Geezus people....READ!
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Still laughing after that last profile..........
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PEOPLE.......I KNOW IT'S DWAYNE......FER CHRISSAKES......IT'S A TYPO.......SHEESH!
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If you look like or are built like Wayne "The Rock" Johnson, my ownership papers are in the glove box honey!
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It has occurred to me that there are a lot of angry, controlling and emotionally bankrupt people on this site. People are always writing about the "fakes" here and it's really not that they are fakes, the problem is that these are people who just want to live a fantasy on-line for a few minutes or hours then they slink back to their vanilla lives until the next desire hits them or they need another masturbatory interlude......
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Each and every time i come onto this site i can hear Supertramp's "Dreamer" playing in my head! This "Domme" wants your money....oh, sorry, a "Tribute". This guy is offering to be a "sex slave" to a woman.....yeah, right. But my all time favorite HAS to be anyone on here who is barely out of their teens (if in fact they truly are in the first place) and write on their profile that they have been "active in the lifestyle for several years now" My GOD! the babysitter had thigh high boots and a riding crop!?!?.....ok, i'll stop, i'm beginning to creep myself out now.
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Things that really make me suspicious......when people write...."fit and attractive" (especially when they post no pics) or "discreet" or "well endowed" or my favorite....."not looking for sex, just looking for friends". Wow, this site is something 'ain't it?
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The decent, kind, caring and conscientious people continue to message me with encouragement and kind words. To all of you, thank you.
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Well, yet another ignorant note from a sub-human on this site who doesn't like my profile.....seems Daddy4tgirl thinks i'm a "Bitch" his words not mine, probably because i'm independent and intelligent like many people on here (mostly women but don't get me wrong, there are a LOT of great guys here as well). Some men can't stand the thought of independence and someone who thinks for them self. People like this want to hold others down just because. It's really too bad that a lot of Doms on this site can not comprehend the fact that, in a D's relationship, it is TRULY the submissive/slave that holds the true power.As far as Daddy4tgirl, i never solicited nor asked for your comment so, shove off........
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SWEET MOTHER OF GOD!!!! Someone, please......gouge my eyes out!
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I get weary of some of the idiots on here, babies who, if you don't respond because they had the audacity to hit on you, they send an angry message because YOU didn't meet THEIR expectations.
I am here seeking what I want, not what you want.....keep that in mind when messaging me. I owe you NOTHING and if you don't meet MY expectations i am under NO obligation to continue a diatribe with you. Just because you attach the moniker "Master" or "Domme" to yourself doesn't mean you are one. There are no rules, no regulations and no handbook here..........
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If there are any bi-females out there that are interested.......my wife is EXTREMELY Bi-Curious and would love another female to play with us so, if you are interested, drop a line and we can at least chat. We offer a safe, sane environment in which to play. I would love to have two kitties on collars to play with........
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Why is it that men are so demanding and picky about how a woman looks or dresses or even her body type but they can let themselves go to shit and still think they are hot?
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Don't you just love people who steal pictures from the internet and pass them off as their own?!?
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CARPE DIEM....That means "Seize the day" When looking for someone on any of these sites, and finding someone whom you would like to move forward with, when you hesitate, you lose. Wasting time with your fears or apprehensions only puts you deeper into the rut. We all have them.....fears but some of us act on them when the timing is right because life is a journey to be lived and experienced not watched from a dark room on a tiny computer screen.
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PLEASE!!! Do NOT write me if you are a: Out of my Province b: Out of my Country c: Out of my age requirements d: Out of my species.
I will not meet you if you are a 57 year old man from Lithuania who's Wife or Mommy will not let him out of the house........
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My GOD! my B.S. meter is in a constant state of activity. I can't believe some of the claims made here and some of the "come-on's" i have heard. It is truly a wonder anyone from this site EVER hooks up. It's a veritable paradise of on-line masturbatory fantasies with no one ever intending to meet after they wank. It has made me cautious ALMOST (i said almost) to the point of paranoia.......i would rather be cautious than dead.
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OMG! another hairy guy wearing panties...............Either commit to the lifestyle and completely wax/shave or stop wearing your wife's clothing.......AAAARRRRGGGGHHHH
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Well, i discovered ANOTHER person on here who wasn't who they said they were. After taking them for whom they said they were, i discovered pictures on another website that they had quite obviously "liberated" leading me to realize that they were posing as someone else. I guess the big question i have here is "WHY"? Why the hell would anyone not want to forge a relationship or friendship based on honesty and integrity?
I guess the answer is clear, we live in a world where deception and lies are becoming the norm. I suppose these people have their reasons for this behavior the least of which is that they are simply "getting off". Well, whatever the reason, please understand, even though i engage you in discussions and i may even add you to my messenger, i will never completely trust you until you give me a concrete reason to do so. Understand, i am NOT that naive nor gullable. I guess like the old saying goes..."fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice.....shame on me". To the rest of you who are exactly what or who you say you are......THANK YOU!.....XO....Danielle
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A friend wrote me the other day after having read my journals and suggested that i may have contradicted myself in regards to speaking about fakes on this site (read from a current and then a previous journal).
I have never whined on this site about fakes or anything else. I know there are fakes and posers here as we all do. For example i mentioned men that pose as women in order to lure a female. This is a FAKE, what other word can i use? I clearly announce who AND what i am right up front.....i have nothing to hide.What i was merely saying was that, there are other persons on here who bitch and whine about being on here for months and not being approached or not being approached by the right person. Well, as i have said, to these people, maybe you are not for them or the "right" type and because you don't get attention, you bitch and moan that nobody on this site is real.
The only place you are going to find that sort of concentrated attention is on a pay site $$$$, a bar or a BDSM event and even then, NOTHING is guaranteed....ever. I have been here for a few years now and have not met one person from this site, big deal. I have made a few good friends here which is a good thing and i use other on-line resources to find what i am looking for.
Does this shed any light on this subject?
Danielle.....
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OMG! I think that was a mug-shot that person was using as a profile photo.....UGH!
I'm still expecting to run across O.J. Simpson on here.........lol
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I just love the people on here who complain about "the lack of seriousness" or "submissives or Dominants who are not serious" by their standards or better yet, people who complain about "Fakes". Translation......they are not into you.....period,or your profile portrays you as such an ass that not even a weasel would be interested in you. The result, you sit here and moan and cry because nobody will write you or pay you tribute. I say.....get a life. None of us EVER gets the attention we expect, it's just the luck of the draw here and in the real world. We think we are one thing, and the rest of the world sees us as something else. Get over yourself and be fortunate you get the attention that you do, even if it's just one or two people. Nobody here is going to throw themselves at your feet because you say you are a Dominant or submissive.
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Another day, another.......well, anyway. I strike up a conversation with a cute guy the other day, we hook up on Yahoo and then he begins with ....."blah blah blah.....and that's the way it's gonna be, understand?" NO FOOL, i don't understand. If you want to be with me, you must understand this one simple thing.......i do not come out of the box with instructions and ready to submit, to you or anyone else. If you want me, be respectful, decent, kind and have all of those other attributes that make you human. Pigs i can find most anywhere.
You want me? make me want to be yours, when that happens, i may allow you to collar me and then begin training to suit your needs but not a moment before.
Always remember two simple things #1 Slaves and sub are not born, they are made (trained) #2 It is truly the sub/slave who holds the power in any relationship.
Happy spankings all.
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Ewwwwwwwww....Ever had a guy talk to you, then you see his picture and he hits your creep-o-meter at the speed of sound?
I just did.............
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I've read some entries here accusing others of being "rude" for not replying to messages or mail. To them i say.....GROW UP.....if i don't reply it's because of a few reasons, chief among them is.....#1 I did'n ask you to message me so, why should i reply? #2 You send me unsolicited e-mail without fully reading nor understanding my profile and YOU expect ME to dignify you message with a response......GROW UP. That's fine that you send me a message with kind words etc. but there is nothing in the etiquette rule-book that compels me to give you a response......GROW UP and pout somewhere else. I don't always get replies to messages i send but i DEAL.....
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WOW! Some people have ACTUALLY read my profile.......and even fewer understand it!
The majority of people on here (so i have found) are only here out of sheer curiousity. They talk about "the lifestyle" not fully understand what it is all about, worse, they don't begin to understand what they are all about. You can't move forward until you come to grips with yourself and your sexuality. When (and only when) you have dealt with that issue, then you can begin to fully explore.
I read honest and sincere profiles everyday from persons who are searching for a match here and i can seriously say that, after a couple of years on this site......LOOK ELSEWHERE .....because it's not gonna happen here.
I see profiles with no pictures, of cock and breast shots......get real and grow up. I've been asked "why do you want to see a face shot???" BECAUSE IDIOT.....for all i know, you could be my Boss at work.
To the other 97% of you, you are poseurs and fakes, deal with that moniker. You are simply on-line masturbators and fantasizers. I understand when someone says fakes because of that 97%, 2/3rds of that are men pretending to be women so they can persue online mastubatory fantasies.
I have resigned myself to the fact that i will not find what i seek here and i have chosen other avenues to persue (thankfully so). I am simply writing this as a warning......beware the fakes, phonies, scammers, liars, cheats and mental defects that lurk on here.
I'm sure that i will get my share of responses here because of this journal but thank god for the block button. It's not like i've never used that before.......
Oh, and to all the other decent and kind persons that i have been fortunate enough to meet here, bless you all and peace always......D
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Boys Boys Boys.....please, do NOT try to pose off sexy on your profile. Do something manly....hold a Mooses' head or a shotgun or a pickaxe or something for GOD'S sake, please. I see far too many profiles where the man has adopted a sexy repose on the chaise, scantily clad or naked much like a woman would do. Yes! i KNOW, i'm a drag-fag but, trust me, i've been doing this for years. It takes time to learn to move and pose fluidly like a woman does, MEN, don't try it, you just look dumb (unless that was the desired effect?!?). Oh, and, if you have a beer belly or you are hairy like a Sasquatch.....cover up, do something, dress it up, i don't wanna see yer flabby bits. I know YOU think your god's gift but the rest of us have a problem with that. Market yourself wisely....please! Oh and, by the way, if you are gonna message me and rant......you will be iggied.....Danke'
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Ok, today i reaffirm what i believe i said some months ago. THERE ARE TRULY SOME VERY SCARY PEOPLE ON THIS SITE!!!!! And i don't mean scary in a "ooh that person gives me goosebumps" sort of way. Genuine people out there, all i ask is......please, be careful!!!
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Spoke with a guy today who insisted i must be "lonely" because i am so "demanding" and my search for "Mr.Right" continues. Well, when i finished laughing i answered him thus.......I am not "lonely" as i am with a mate, possibly the most wonderful, tolerant and sexy woman God had fit to create so therefore, how could i ever be "lonely". As far as demanding, i am simply cautious and selective but i would rather take my time in choosing then end up with something the Doctor can never cure or being with someone who confuses this lifestyle with abuse.
I also explained that i get quite a lot of email from men and women on a daily basis and, if i chose to, i could have a different partner several times a day. The problem is that i have some depth in my life and i choose to seek a person who has depth to them as well and will not compromise in that regard, nor should any other self-respecting person. Suffice it to say that if i choose to be with a person, it is because i find them to my liking and with the qualities i value above all else. At the end of the day, i cannot help a person's feelings if i have not selected them, especially if they feel they are "all that". It's wonderful that you feel you are king of the universe, but you are not my king.....
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Ok, i keep meeting and talking to Mr.Wrong! Most of the men here are little boys with no strength of conviction whatsoever. They seem to want to play little on-line, jerk-off fantasies and then retire back into their Vanilla lives where the wife doesn't understand the crooked smile on their smug faces. To those guys i say......leave me the F**K alone. If you can converse......really talk and you disappear for large blocks of time then i don't want nor need you period! I am looking for a MAN, a REAL MAN who can be just that and be strong and connected. For a guy like that i will do just about anything. Little boys need NOT apply............
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For those who give a @$#@$%
I replaced all of my pictures so......72 hours....
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Girls, i fully understand what you mean when you say "NO MEN:. Along with that you MUST take into consideration the types of mental deficients that inhabit this site. I am positive that there are other sites out there that are more strict and adhere to a set of conditions and policies but, as they say...."throw steak on the table, and hungry dogs will partake of it" . This site is no more of a BDSM site than it is of being a Meat Market. There are "Trolls" on here simply searching for "morsels" and claiming they are "into the lifestyle" without understanding the dynamics behind it. So very many people caliming to be a sub or Domme/Dom without understanding. The lifestyle is so much more than just strapping on some leather chaps and claiming to be "into the lifestyle" As far as girls posting a picture on here and getting hit on repeatedly......well....sorry girls but what did you expect? "If you build it, they will come"......so to speak.
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Ok, so it's totally uncharacteristic of me but here goes.
I want to take a moment and say a big THANK YOU to all of those on this site that i have encountered who are normal, YES.....i said.....N-O-R-M-A-L. There are still some of them left in the world and we have had some wonderful, down to earth conversations. To all of you whom i have encountered in the above category, you know who you are, a big, warm, friendly HUG and and even bigger.......THANK YOU! I love you all......Danielle
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My GOD! some people on here think they are all that......i'm thinking that, more likely they have delusions of grandeur.....
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Recently i got involved in an argument of sorts with a person on another site. The disagreement surrounded me asking him for a recent picture(s) of himself as he had none posted on his profile. "What is a picture" he asked me, "wouldn't you much rather meet in person ? A picture can tell you nothing of who the person is or what they are about" then he proceeded to insinuate that i was somehow "shallow" for asking.
Well, my explanation for this idiocy is as follows. Right off the bat, i want to see a picture because you could be my Boss, My co-worker my Sister/Brother......how the hell can i know without a picture ? More importantly than this, to me, however is the fact that, like it or not, we are all initially driven by the visual before anything else. We see something/someone we like then move from there, shallow as it may sound, and to anyone out there who is saying "that is so NOT true with me" it is how it is. Once the attraction is established, we can then move on to find what that person's other attributes are......good or bad, and begin to filter them out.
I will not run out and meet you blindly in a coffee shop, i would never put myself or anyone in that sort of danger besides the fact that a LOT of people i've met on here are NOT exactly certified sane.
So at any rate, if that doesn't explain things for you from my perspective, then you are really dense.......
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A very Merry Christmas to the whole, freaky, weird and Kinky bunch of you......XO Danielle
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I can NOT believe the amount of people on here who think they are better than everyone else. Truly. I have sent many messages to people on here either congratulating them on their successes in finding someone or milestones in their lives or simply to comment on their looks, nothing lewd or disgusting, i always try to be as polite as i can. I message men and women equally.
One thing i can't stand however is the ignorance in not forgetting one's stigmas and hates and just messaging me a "thank you" back out of sheer politeness. People like this think they deserve the right to live and that the rest of us are "freaks" which is laughable because we are all here an a BDSM site so are ALL pretty much "Freaks" under societal "norms".
People.....get off your high horses, your soapboxes and be human again. I am not messaging you to ask you to see my way of thinking or to cross over to my "darkside". I am trying to be polite and complimentary. Please think of that when you either A:completely ignore my message or B: write me back with something utterly childish or disgusting remarks.......GROW UP! If you can't stand the mixture of persons on this site then it's not for you......move on.
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I would never buy clothing or a car without seeing it first. I can't understand how someone can expect me to just run out and meet them without showing me a picture of them first. NO PICTURE, NO CHAT, NO MAIL NO ANYTHING..........
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WANTED: Tall, handsome, muscular stud-muffin. Must enjoy servitude and being used as a personal sex toy and humiliated and collared, forced to do exactly as told. Please apply within....applications now being taken.
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Ok, if two Dominants get together, do they cancel each other out and become one BIG submissive? hmmmmm?
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I am finding this site to be more and more difficult. I am guessing that the odds of finding anyone compatible on here are astronomical at best. There are a great many people on here for sure but less chance of finding someone specific to your search.
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I reiterate what i said in a journal entry some time ago. This site is gifted with a spell check add on. People, Please i beseech you, USE IT! When you don't it only makes you look like a redneck (unless you LIKE appearing that way?!?) It is the simplest thing on this planet, if you see a little red line underneath a word you just typed, that means it's WRONG! All you need do then is right click on the word and pick the suggested CORRECT word......simple as pie. But then again, maybe some of you don't want to evolve? Grammatical structure is one thing but misspelling the word "suggestion" or worse yet the person who typed "i have a Universaty dagree" MY GOD (no i'm not kidding)......the irony!
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Ok, here's the deal. I am tired of whiners and poseurs. If you contact me i assume it is because you have read my profile and you FULLY understand what i am looking for. Do not message me and engage in a conversation and then disappear without maintaining some kind of further contact because Mommy will not let you play of the wife is breathing down your neck (!@#$$@#!$ little boys). Don't get all pissey when i message you and make mention that i will not be treated like an idiot by you or anyone else...i am human, just like you and you messaged me first.
There are a lot of kind, decent people on here who are more worth my time. There are people who understand the dynamics of respect. If you can't come out and play with the big people, then don't run around saying that i am for you.
Obviously my diatribe is directed at the majority of MEN on this site who are simply here to play with their flacid little units through cyber and nothing more. If this is you, stay home in the dark, wank off and stop bothering people on here because i don't wanna hear your whining.....little boy!
It sometimes makes me ashamed that i was born this gender.....
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Wow! some of the writings on here sound like they are right out of Penthouse or Playboy......or even Playgirl....lol
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Be careful what you wish for.......you just might get it !
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I have noticed an onslaught lately in persons coming on to this site and wanting to engage strictly in "cyber". If they find a willing party, they will gladly spend hours talking to you, building to the idea of BDSM, talking about what they want done, what you will do to them and what you will do together......you just know they are on the other end masturbating (or trying to). Show them a few pictures and........WHAMMO! the text box gets quiet and you see them suddenly log off.....never to be heard from again......well almost. One day out of the blue there they are, requesting to speak to you again. You ask what happened to them the last time you chatted and out comes the lame excuse about "my internet went down" or "i had to run to the store for some milk" It's hard enough on here finding people who are what they say let alone finding someone who is real! Then there are the ones who are carrying on behind their partners backs......shame. People, if you are on this site and merely curious, fine, ask questions, get educated. If you are here to jerk off and fantasize, go buy a Playboy of Playgirl and take off!
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In answer to some of the questions i get on a daily basis....no, no, no, yes, sometimes, no, NO! never, especially NOT with a goat...possibly, no, no, no, yes, yes, yes and YES! absolutely but it depends on the size!
WHEW! there i answered just about all of the questions i've gotten over the last little while....CHEERS!
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I received some very nice mail lately from some members on this site and i thought i should give them some equal time as well. YES....MOST of the people on here are good decent people like the rest of us and they are serious about their passion for the lifestyle. It truly is a shame that a few bad people act to destroy the structure for the rest of us here. To those of you here that have responded to my journal entries, THANK YOU for taking the time to see past who/what i am, for making decent comments and for being encouraging.
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Do some people on here give ANY thought to the pictures they post here. Remember the old saying "you never get a second chance to make a first impression"....UGH ! I mean, ok, my pictures are'nt the hottest or the most erotic out there, but i don't post a picture of me sitting with kids or at a group gathering or at work. SHEESH !
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I keep reading "Professional" on a growing number of profiles lately. Ok, cool, professional what? Window Washer? Toilet cleaner? Chef? McDonald's burger flipper? A growing number of B.S. artists on here and the number grows exponentially.
Oh.....and for the sub-human that called me a "freak" the other day......you can professionally clean my butt. ? You are on a BDSM site calling ME a freak? Have a look in the mirror sister.
Maybe we are all freaks after all, like the Joker....freaks have more fun...lol
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Where are all the Bitch-Boyz at??? I thought this was a BDSM site? Guess i was wrong? Noone wants to be hogtied and abused? Sad :(
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Subbies and switches and Doms OH MY!
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wOW! Peepul cum on hear and thay cant even speel and this site even inkludes an outomatik speel chekr......funni
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MEN! Do NOT try sexy poses, they just don't work for you......you might hurt yourselves..Oh and another thing.....SHAVE! no wonder women on here are pissed at most men.
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I'm currently awaiting approval of a few new pix......stay tuned !
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As i click through this site day to day, i get better at picking out the wacko's. I can tell who has done time, and who has "issues" with women or anyone different than they are. I see a lot of young people on here who claim to have "been in the lifestyle for years" when they are only 19 or so. Seems to me that this site is rife with liars, players and innocents who have no idea what they are dabbling in. Whatever you do, please be very careful what you do on here and who you deal with. Just a thought.....Dani
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OMG! Ok i'm sorry but......that guy looks like a frikkin' Axe Murderer.....i swear.....
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OK! Some ads on this site make me simply (((((SHUDDER))))) and NOT in a good way either........
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My job is NOT to judge you but to treat you the same and find the good human qualities you posess deep down inside.....I hope to be treated that way myself one day.....love and peace.....Danielle
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"I think we've all arrived at a very special place. Spiritually, ecumenically, grammatically.",
Capt' Jack Sparrow....Pirates of the Caribbean
or.....when all else fails, just say...."oh bugger"
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Been a while since i've contributed anything to my journal....springtime....getting outdoors more!
Lots of looks at my profile but nobody wants to say hi. It's funny cuz, if i see a profile that's interesting, i say so. That does'nt mean that i want you or that, because i've commented, you're going to turn gay or bisexual somehow....i'm simply commenting....sheesh. I find there are a lot of socially ignorant persons on here who don't know how to take a simple compliment.
Geez people.....grow up!
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OK, more on my observations of people (especially on the internet).I've had a guy from another site (lord knows there are no weirdos on here, right?!?) and this guy has been bugging me, nay, begging me for several weeks to "get together" and proclaiming his lust for me. That's all well and good but when this happens, usually a little bell goes off in my head. I continue about my business and my day to day life (yes i do have one) and he continues to message me....i remain cordial, polite. WELL, when things don't happen on HIS time frame man, does he get "testy" (i.e. OK, I GET THE HINT, YOU ARE A PLAYER, BLAH BLAH BLAH, YOU WHORE THIS AND YOU SLUT THAT.....) so finally i correspond back telling him i can now see the "real him" coming out and i'm VERY glad i stayed at arms length where he was concerned. Well, this started a litany of profanity and ignorant rant that i simply shut down but hitting "iggy". This goes to show you how damned careful one must be to play on the interent, it's an infestation of wacko's i tell ya. Girls, you think you get your share of idiots, trust me, it ain't easy being a Drag-Fag. Peace and Love Kiddies.....Dani
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ARRRRRRRRRRGHH! The obligatory 72 hour waiting period for new pictures......ARGH!
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Ok, has spelling and good grammatical structure gone the way of the Dodo? Are we so enslaved to machines and computers that we let spellchecker decide what we are typing? I have never in my life seen such poor example of spelling than on the internet and sites like these. I am not talking about simple mis-spellings or someone who has just overlooked banging two keys at the same time....i am talking about sheer idiocy. For example "you are all to kind" or "we are going too the party". The ignorance abounds. Also, i CAN NOT STAND people who are so lazy as to not even be able to type the full, proper word....i.e."UR hot" or "when RU going to the party?" I suppose we are now reaping what we have sown, we live in an age where people hide anonymously on their computers pretending to be whomever they want, afraid of reality and face to face encounters and, yes, partially i am one of them but my greatest fears are realized when i read some of the lines on this site and discover that the art of real, decent conversation is truly dead!
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If the term "tribute Domme" does'nt tick me off enough, today i saw someone who will "train on-line" PUH-LEEEEEEEEEEEZE, give me a break, what? ooooh yes MAster, i'm going to whip myself now oooooh. And i thought i was a freak..................
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I honestly do not mind the curiousity or the many inane questions i get here but if you are interested in me as in a play partner do NOT even think of bothering me if you can not hold up your end. What i mean by this is, if you come to me saying that you want to be friends as well then stop talkiing shit, do what you say and keep in contact, stop coming on line when it suits you just to wank off then disappear for another six weeks. I am a person with feelings and a life and i expect to be treated as such. That said, i reiterate, treat me like a person and i will do the same for you, if not then move along and stop bothering me, use a hooker or call service......
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Ok, another astute observation by yours truly....ME! This gem comes from sheer experience and is not a guess on my part....They say the chase is better than the catch and i beleive this is, for the most part, true. I get men messaging me (notice i said .....men) and they want to talk about the whole fantasy of being with "someone like me". They want to verbally explore what they would like to do, how they are going to do it and where. So you say to yourself..."hey, this guy meets most of my criteria, why don't i give him a chance?" You take another step further and poof......he disappears like a child from the sandbox run home to mommy. If you do ever manage to contact him after that, he makes you feel like it was something you did but in reality, he retired that very evening, wanked off and cleared his mind, back to the wife, girlfriend......Mommy(guilt-ridden)...whatever, work and the daily grind. My point in all this i suppose is that if you are here to play games, engage in cyber or other unknown nocturnal persuits then PLEASE, leave me alone because i am here for something real and tangible.....'nuff said.
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Well, it's unanimous, i am a FREAK MAGNET, either that or there are quite a lot of mal-adjusted people out there.....where are the sane ones, or at least semi-sane!
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I think i'm in heat......somebody SPANK ME!
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Dang! i have a TON of pics i'd love to add to my profile but i can't stand waiting "up to 72 hours" for my profile to go back on-line. That sux!
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OK, i'm not trying to be rude here but i will not begin to entertain any mail that i get unless there is an honest-to-goodness picture attached or on your profile. I have tried to be as up front here as i can and i expect the same courtesy. Yes, words can move me but to see if there is an attraction, i need to see what you look like. This is a site for adults. If you can't show yourself then you might be hiding something, I understand the need for discretion, i am a big supporter of that but if you can't even mail me a picture then that makes me suspicious and that is something i will not begin to deal with.
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I am truly seeing the vast differences between men and women here. The women like to get right down to business while the guys seem to love playing games. Women are more respectful of opinion, lifestyle and desires whereas guys, well they just want to get-it-on regardless. Women ask a myriad of questions, guys touch themselves while you are discussing things and you wonder why they disappear for days.....until they need services again. I have seen others talk of this here so i'm not the only one. I am seeking someone who is REAL (although i am beginning to wonder what that is) and someone who is interested in a long term partnership of play (did i say marriage or relationship?) guys run from such words don't they?!? If you are here to merely peruse the site and talk to prospective whacking material, please, leave me alone. I am very real and completely serious about my intentions, all i seek is a real-life partner who is willing to explore, experiment and enjoy themselves. I am not set in stone and am adaptable. This is all why i respect women so much more.....and, yes i have a wonderful woman at home and do NOT want to change that.
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Wow! whaddya have to do on this site to find someone who fits the bill? carry around $500 ca$h and a bag-o-rock!?! I've met the insane, the self absorbed, the illiterate and the mundane. Where are the colourful people who say what they mean and mean what they say? (don't get me wrong for one second, i've met and made a ton of friends on here as well). I have tried to be fairly specific on my profile but it seems i am a freak magnet (and not freak in a good freaky way) HELP!
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OH MY SWEET LORD~! WHERE do they come from?!?!
People, please remember this ONE thing if you remember anything on this site......if it looks and sounds too good......then it's probably a freakin' TROLL! Please, don't ask me for a definition if you don't know......(laughing)
All my lovin' ....Danielle
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Another thing that peeves me! You spend time filtering the flotsam and jetsom from this site till you find one or two people that you think (yeah i said think) are chat worthy, they tell you "hey add me to your MSN" then they spend the rest of the time making B.S. excuses why they can't talk to you or they simply hide....cowards. Please....MORONS...if you don't want me to add you....SAY SO...i have a couple of hundred people already on my Messenger so i'm not about to go chat hungry cuz of you.....trust me i have broad shoulder....pads, tell me you don't wanna chat and i'll gladly remove you......bite me!
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OK, i saw Sweeney Todd over the weekend and let me tell you.....IT ROCKS if you like dark, Tim Burton musicals. Johnny Depp is to die for (i want to spank him, no, seriously) and the cast is fan-tastic. It was one of the first movies in a long time that i went to the theatre to see where i feel i had gotten my entire dollars worth. If i'm wrong shoot me! lol. I'm still humming some of the tunes from the show....go see it cuz Dani TOLD YOU......MAGGOTS!
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WOW! so many people look at my profile, very few say anything! Is that because you think i'm a freak? because you think i'm beneath you? what? If you talk to me, i promise, some of my drag-fag essence will NOT rub off on you. If you have questions ASK DAMMIT! And to those i have made positive comments about, they come from the heart and mind, not from my groin (unless you ask) area.....everyone could use a little boosting now and then......to the rest of you who ignorantly populate this site....bite me!
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Ok, from time to time i browse people's profiles and once in a while, i send them a comment. I may comment on how well they present themselves in their profile or how beautiful they are etc, RARELY am i rude if ever!
That is all well and good but common courtesy would dictate that the recipient of my comment might make a comment in return such as "thank you very much", you see, i'm not necessarily doing it for kudos, i happen to enjoy reading a well-written profile that leaves very little to the imagination. More times than enough however, i find that people DO NOT extend the common courtesy and at least make a tiny comment. This is just plain rude. I don't care if you don't subscribe to my lifestyle or "what" i am but people, please, have common courtesy for god's sake, it's only proper.
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Dang! one of my pictures was denied. Something about "genital nudity and new American laws" WTF???? Geez, probably a nipple or something!?! At any rate, my other picture was approved so......c'est la vie, c'est la guerre hmmm?
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Waiting to get a few new pictures updated....please bear with me...xo Dani
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I have most definatly met a LOT of great, intelligent people on here. People who are beautiful in mind and not just body. It's a pleasure to know those types are still out there.
Having said that, sadly, i've met a lot of "dark" people as well, persons with another purpose than what they state on profile (you know who you are).
There are people who say one thing, and do quite the opposite and then there are those who want to get off on line or on cam and then never contact you again after saying the things they know you want to hear.
All i can say is "get a life you losers" and stop wasting everone elses' time here, if you want to wank, get a porno mag and go to it. Oh, and, stop blaming the other person for your behaviour as if they somehow lied to you or misled you. I am sorry to say that the pathetic people who ruin things for everyone else are thriving on this site so, please people, be careful.
D
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OK! So, yesterday, i was chatting with a friend i've known for a couple of years (he lives in NYC) and he's a really good looking guy and built the way i like e'm. We were chatting and i guess he was sort of .....well, frisky. We had talked in the past about maybe one day meeting and what might happen, but here he was, talking about getting off on-line. I told him that was'nt really my "thing" and i thought that personal meetings were best. WELL! you'd think i cut his "maleness" completely off. he got all snooty and told me then and there that i was "high maintainance" HA! Well, i informed him that "high maintainance was far better than being an easy gutter slut with god knows what sorts of diseases" Well right after that it was over, our two year plus friendship all because i would'nt play jerk-off sex show for him on cam....PUHLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZE, People, is that all we're reduced to? Intimacy and personal rendezvous have gone the way of the Dodo!! Shows you that you never really know the person.
At any rate, if you are going to contact me, have some substance, don't get off on my pictures then never speak to me again. I'm sorry Mommy or the wife or girlfriend won't let you play but how is that my fault? Honestly ladies......i truly understand what you mean when you bemoan the lack of decent men....trust me i understand......they are creatures of the right hand and their penis' ...after that, you could be on fire and they would'nt even piss on you to put it out....unless you offered to blow them first. Really, sometimes i am truly ashameed to be one!
Chivalry is truly dead!
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Darn it all! They say the waiting is the hardest part. I have some new pictures i posted and now i have to wait until they are approved.....oh poo!
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Wow! People come and go, look at my profile but say nothing. Fer Chrissakes people, i'm a Transvestite not a rabid dog.....lol....stop and say hello, i won't bite (unless it's a request)
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Sweet Mother of pearl! Where the F**K do these guys come from?!?!?
I am ready to either A: Go totally postal or
B: Give this !$$@$%^&^% site the heave-ho.....
I'm still thinking of either option.....hmmmmm?
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Kewlies!!!! I continue to get a variety of mail from persons here. I get a lot of "girly" mail too....from real women and T-girls alike. I love chit chatting with the chicks...they throw it right on out there....like my honey!
Guys continue to message me telling me their deepest, darkest desires...Great i say NOW HOW ABOUT A PICTURE TO GO ALONG WITH THAT BRAVADO?!?! Sure, i'll chain you to my bed and do all sorts of nasty stuff to you on request but first...you have to appeal to me (oh, and be built like a brick shirt house)
Why all of this mail, these comments and not one of you wants to chat....to pick my brain...why?
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Wow! Dominant, submissive, straight, gay....so many labels. I guess one observation i have to make is that, you could walk by anyone on the street and not know a thing about them....oh, except for the poseurs i mentioned in a previous journal. A poseur is a person that says outwardly by look or action....."look at me, i'm bad, yeah!" They may be covered in tats (and not for artistic reasons) and may have an outside appearance so as to scare people away when, really, inside they are scared little people themselves!
I have known several serious Dom/Dommes in my life and not one of them was arrogant or attention seeking in their day to day life.....they were into the lifestyle but it did not occupy their every waking moment (unless it was their fulltime job)
Maybe this is why i adore women so much,why i tend to emulate them, they are non-pretentious.They are who they are and most times wear their hearts on their sleeves. The majority of wonderful inspiring comments i have received on this site have come from women. Women are etherial beings, in tune with the world around them and when men have finished warring and plundering the world, women will step right in and take over....'nuff said.
I have also known (far too many) several women that have suffered at the hands of men (abusive, raped) and my heart goes out to them so when i see a man who has too deep of a need to dominate or control i'm always wary. On this site especially, trust is not just a word, it is something to be slowly earned and then cherished when you find it.
So kids, play nice on here and follow your heart, head and natural instincts and NOT a bunch of archaic board-game rules that some idiot has set down that they claim you must follow.....best of luck!
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Hmmm? ok, maybe i'm taking the wrong approach here?
OK! ON YOUR KNEES YOU FILTHY LITTLE WORM, LET'S SEE IF YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO PLEASE YOUR DOMME T-MISTRESS. CAN YOU MAKE ME HAPPY? WE'LL SEE. YOU ARE BENEATH ME AND DISGUST ME BUT, IN TIME, YOUR SERVITUTE MAY ACTUALLY PLEASE ME. I WILL TIE YOU EVER SO TIGHTLY AND RESTRICT YOU FROM THE SIMPLEST OF MOVEMENTS AND, IN THE COURSE OF DOING SO I MAY EVEN USE YOU TO PLEASURE MYSELF. UNTIL THEN, TAKE YOUR PLACE AT MY FEET, KNEEL BEFORE ME AND LICK MY THIGH HIGH STILETTO BOOTS......YOU STINKING PILE OF REFUSE!
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Oh My Sweet Lord. I wish some people would learn to spell!
What did peepul do wit thuh edukayshun they were given? Do peepul not know about speel cheq? What did u guyz do in skool? And why do people type things like"ur realy hott"? Lazy?
The english language is truly going to hell in a handbasket.
P.S. if you can't figure out sarcasm then you are more lost than i am....lol
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Wow,well, i've spoken to some people on here and made some contacts but seriously......some of you people scare the hell out of me.!
It seems just about anyone can hang a shingle out there and claim to be whatever, i mean, seriously, the 22 year old who says he's been in the "lifestyle" for 4 years now, REALLY? you've been into BDS&M simce you were 18?? GEEZ Your parents must have been very liberal. And did you practise your black arts in the family basement rec-room?
Gimme a break....i'm knee deep in poseurs here.....
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