11/10/2009 7:25:30 AM

desperate much? i was looking at a profile of a woman below average in looks, and who could not string a decent sentence together, but there she was babbling how much email she had and all these men contacting her. Not attractive, none too smart, but horny..i guess that is the only criteria one seeks on this site.

8/26/2009 12:02:57 PM

I was talking about spanking and bdsm with a vanilla girlfriend on saturday night in a nice cafe. As we left the cafe and made our way through the evening throng of people a peculiar thing happened to me. Makes you wonder about the what you give off in the universe. I was not dressed in a way to invite what would occur, but i suppose my attitude might have set it off, or perhaps it was just some silly occurrence. A group of young lads was walking towards us, and the cockiest of them starting acting a bit peculiar iwth his smile and attitude towards me. I thought he was being a bit arrogant, and he should respect his elders (heheheehe), so i have him a sassy look back. Well, i got a hugely hard spank on bum from this young whippersnapper. It took me by surprise that I did not even react. My girlfriend commented he was cute, but wondered what that loud noise was. I told her it was my bum being spanked! Seems like in a strange way i needed a spank that night..lol.

8/26/2009 7:53:12 AM

What is the intangible? For me, it has to do with the psychological aspects of this lifestyle. Yes, i do enjoy the physical kinks, but that alone does not touch me. It's more about the interaction between two people, and specifically the exchange of power. Submission is not a gift, it is a power exchange between two people.