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I want a woman who doesnt need a dominant man in her life, but craves it. I ask for a sweet disposition, a desire to truly serve, slender to average in weight, under 45 or so, employed, have a funny and feminine side.



I am looking for a woman who is possibly strong, confident, bold, and assertive in her life and her dealings with people in general -- OUTSIDE THE HOME - but who can be a good girl, and who wants a dominant man in her life because she finds it sexually exciting to be dominated by a strong man, to please and she knows her place as a woman. She might or might not be in a position of authority at work but she has a personality and a level of competence such that she could be in such a position and command respect. A woman possibly interested in a semi- 1950s type relationship, HOH, etc. Possibly a vanilla looking relationship, with a good twist




Id love to find someone whod be happy tied to My bed for me to use whenever I wished. I need to hurt you and do it very often. I need to put my marks and bruises on you at all times so you can remember that you are my little girl and owned.

I need someone who wants and needs to be choked, told shes a good girl, petted and held when shes been good. I need someone who knows that she would be here for my pleasure and she would get her pleasure from pleasing me.

If you think wed have anything in common, email me. I do prefer someone and the North Dallas area because I really do not like traveling very far to meet and be with someone! I also Im not able to move from this area, so if you are not from the area and can move, that is a bonus.





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10/26/2013 12:01:17 PM

Raise your hand if you're thinking about sex

 

Is your hand raised?


Well, is it?

Mine is. Heck, both of mine are. And if I could raise other people's hands for me, well, they'd be raised too!

 

You know the old saying that a man thinks about sex every few seconds? I don't doubt its truth. But what about women? I know I think about sex every few seconds. A day doesn't go by that I'm not thinking about sex in some way or another. I'm thinking about it right now. And no, it's not because I'm writing this.


Well, that's not entirely true. I mean c'mon, I'm writing about sex, of course I'm thinking about it! But forefront on my mind is the delicate curves of a woman...how I'd like to run my hands over them, trace the lines of her body with my fingers....doesn't that just make you all tingly? 

 

We all think about sex. Some of us more than others, and some things take our minds off of sex. But typically it's only briefly...because someone will say a word, or we'll see a beautiful body walk by, or an image will stimulate our mind in the right direction and again our thoughts we'll be veered towards sex.

 

So, dear reader, is your hand raised?



8/15/2013 11:42:17 AM

I am attracted to the 1950s/HOH lifestyle. Many seek out the 1950s type lifestyle where the woman was a stay at home person who tended to all the household chores. The generational makeup at that time was a male dominated culture with women having little say in what transpired. Many look at this as a form of slavery and this appeals to many in the M/s world. Can it work today?


Back in my grandparent’s day, men were the heads of the household and women were consider inferior. Women stayed home to raise children while men were the sole breadwinners. All financial and "business like" decisions were made by the males. And, like Leave it to Beaver, children were sent to their rooms until "your father gets home". The men were the ultimate disciplinarians within this family model.


To say that women in this generation were weak is a misstatement. My grandmother is a prime example. She had the strength to deal with the household when my grandfather was gone during the war. While gone, she made all the decisions. Of course, she stepped aside when my grandfather returned.


For many, this mindset sounds like a wonderful way to live the M/s lifestyle. However, before relating it to this way of life, I need to clarify one other thing about my grandparents.


As mentioned, my grandmother willingly stepped aside when my grandfather returned. She was also one to allow him to run at the mouth and never embarrassed him in front of others. Basically, my grandmother was the ideal wife in an era where subservience was valued. Nevertheless, I will not state that my grandfather was in charge. There were a few times when I witnessed him run off a bit too much at the mouth and she cut him off. She wasn’t rude or demonstrative. Instead, she simply stated "that is enough" and my grandfather knew to shut his trap. In the end, the subservient one actually retained the power.


Of course, this is where a M/s relationship differs greatly. Everything about the 1950s lifestyle could be applied. It is possible for one to be controlled in all aspects where her only focus is on household duties. Anything outside that realm is the responsibility of the Master. However, I must point out that in a M/s relationship, all power resides in his hands. Unlike my grandmother, a slave does not have the right to say "that is enough". Her subservience is complete.


The "homemaker" form of slavery seems to be popular these days-at least in the minds of many who are seeking a Master. However, I find that it is a fairly unrealistic expectation for one simple reason: most lack the resources to live this particular way. It is no secret that most Western families require two incomes to make ends meet. This is a truth that extends back over 20 years. It is a quarter century since we saw the ability for families to survive on one income.


What does this mean? This tells me that most will provide service to a Master in the form of earning a paycheck. Now, many want to dispute the validity of this type of arrangement. Get real. If a Master tells a slave to get a job, that is fulfilling his wishes. If a woman now a days works and maintains a full-time job which she earns a paycheck that could be handed over to me. Her efforts are going to benefit me. It allows me to maintain a particular lifestyle for my household which I prefer. Her service is not lessened in any way because of it.

Those who are seeking to be a 1950s "housewife" ought to look at the reality of the world today. My grandfather was able to support his family on only one income. So was Ward Cleaver. And Ricky Ricardo. Yet, we find the economic reality of the world altered to the point where people depend upon the two checks. Unless our seeking slave is lucky enough to find a Master with a good financial balance sheet, I feel she ought to be prepared to work.


Her income makes life that much easier.


The idea of living as some of the matrons of the 1950s is a wonderful dream. It is perfectly acceptable for one to seek this situation out. However, as we know, in a TPE relationship, there are no guarantees. A Master might decide that he wants the arrangement a different way. For that reason, a slave cannot marry herself to a single idea. There are many times when a Master will alter one aspect of the relationship. Being flexible is one of the traits that a slave needs to have if she is to survive in M/s.


In many instances, people are engaging in romantic pipe dreams when searching this relationship makeup. Once again, many are distancing themselves from reality. While it might come true for a few, I believe the vast majority are going to be disappointed. Like many things online, it is easy to promise something, but a lot tougher to deliver. The reality for many will be vastly different then they imagine.


I have no problem with a woman working, even being the one in control at work, but once she leaves work…


6/18/2012 10:04:21 PM

 How To Be A Submissive Wife

 

    1. Be happy with what you have because no one is perfect.
    2. always tell him the truth… never lie to your husband
    3. Open yourself to him in always… give him all he ask and you will be rewarded.
    4. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female–a man doesn’t want a man for his wife!
    5. Dress pleasantly/attractively.
    6. Smell good!
    7. Absolutely no talking about your spousal problems to anyone you meet, not even under the pretense of seeking help!
    8. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.
    9. greet your husband when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile and hug him.
    10. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
    11. Compliment him on the things you know he’s not so confident about (looks, intelligence, etc.) This will build his self-esteem.
    12. Tell him he’s the best husband ever.
    13. Call his family often.
    14. Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.
    15. When he’s talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it seem like you’re interested.
    16. Encourage him to do good deeds.
    17. If he’s in a bad mood, give him some space. He’ll get over it.
    18. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.
    19. When you’re mad at him, don’t say “YOU make me furious”, rather, “This action makes me upset”. Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him.
    20. Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.
    21. Let him chill with his friends without guilt, especially if they’re good guys. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn’t feel “cooped up” at home.
    22. If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really.
    23. Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings.
    24. Don’t get mad over small things. It’s not worth it.
    25. Make jokes.
    26. Tell him you’re the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know you’re good at.
    27. Learn to make his favorite dish.
    28. Don’t ever, EVER talk bad about him with friends or family unnecessarily. If they end up agreeing with you, you will see that it hits you back in the face because you get more depressed that you have a bad husband–and other people also think you have a bad husband.
    29. Use your time wisely and get things accomplished. If you’re a home-maker, take online classes and get active in your community. This will make you happy and a secondary bonus is that it impresses your husband.
    30. Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with each other to convey what they like and dislike of each other to do or not to do. Do NOT give commands or instructions like he’s your servant.
    31. Tell your husband you love him, many, many times.
    32. Have a race with your husband and let him win, even if you are much fitter and stronger than him.
    33. Keep fit and take care of your health so you will remain a strong mother, wife, cook and housekeeper.
    34. Refine and cultivate good mannerisms i.e do not whine, don’t laugh or talk too loud.
    35. Do not leave the house without letting him so he will not worry.
    36. Make sure all his clothes are clean and pressed so he is always looking fresh and crisp.
    37. Don’t discuss important/controversial matters with him when he is tired or sleepy. Find  the right time for right discussion.
    38. Always let him know that you appreciate him working and bringing home the “dough”. It makes it easier for him to go to work.
    39. Don’t forget to do laundry.
    40. Surprise him with gifts. Even necessities, such as new shoes, can be gifts.
    41. Listen to him. (Even when he talks about extremely boring things like basketball or computers.)
    42. Try (hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies.
    43. Try not to go shopping too much … and spend all his money.
    44. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him.
    45. Learn tricks and “techniques” to please your husband in intimacy.
    46. Prepare for special evenings with him with special dinner and exclusive time (no children permitted).
    47. Take care of your skin, especially your face. The face is center of attraction.
    48. If you not satisfied intimately, talk to him and tell him. Help him or provide resources, don’t wait until matters become worse.
    49. Don’t EVER compare your husbands to other husbands! For example don’t say, “well her husband doesn’t do that, why do you …” (thats a killer!)
    50. ALWAYS be there for him intimately, remember your body is now his.
    51. Remember, being a submissive wife does not mean you are a dumb wife. A submissive wife is strong and smart pleasing to the lord.  Allow yourself to learn, grow, goal-orientated and follow your dreams. A loving marriage requires work. If you both are at war for the same spot as head of a household, prepare to be part of a quarrelsome home.

 


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LilMissHaven
 
 Age: 19
 Cedar rapids, Iowa