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| Do not message me if you are married, have a girlfriend, a fiance, a boyfriend or any sort of committed relationship where your partner is unaware of these acitivities. If you are looking for casual sex, hookups, FWB etc. then I am also not for you. In this lifestyle, more than any other aspect of our lives even, we should be free of lies and mistruths. This is about reaching those innermost secrets and exploring those nooks and crannies, that can only be done on a foundation of trust.
That being said.....if you ARE looking for a submissive, and are willing to put in the time and effort a true D/s relationship requires, message away!
Me....described as "melty" by my amazing Fem Domme play partner, I am looking for a predominantly sensual Dominant. I do enjoy mixing my pleasure and pain with the right partner, mixing being the key generally. I would prefer mainly bedroom play however some blending into every day life happens and I love that as well. Public scenes with those I am connected to have been fun but I am enjoying the social aspects of getting to know others in the community just as much. I love power play and following instructions and will do everything within my limits to please. I need someone who can respect and appreciate this desire and will cherish me and our time together. I'm open to suggestions so let me know what you are looking for and we can discuss the possibilities. For specific fetish interests please see below. I am a huge fan of the violet wand and I love being flogged. My favorite thing in the world? Being called little girl by the right person.....and being told I am a good girl after doing what you required of me.
As far as who I am...to the vanilla world I am smart, kind, independent, funny (a little goofy), good hearted, responsible and fun to be around. You can still make me blush. :) I have a corporate career and I sell my art through my own business. I seem to bring out protective instincts in my friends and one recently said I have an "innocent soul". That's a pretty accurate way to describe me and I was very touched she recognized it as something of value, not something to change.
You...will know the difference between someone choosing to submit to you and all that entails, vs. an unhealthy need to manipulate and abuse. My safety willbl never be taken for granted. With that connection and consideration I will give you all that I am. Aftercare is a must and is not just a requirement that day. Please understand what it means for the day after, or even potentially the day after that, and be willing to accept that responsibility.
Take care and happy hunting! :)
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