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Shadowsedge
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| A few things I want to clarify: yes there are more men on here then women; but that is irrrelevant to me because I have taste and time, I'm not interested in the first easy shag that trolls up. I am a Dom, I am not going to beg... erm, that's part of not being a sub! Capiche?
I am looking to see who is out there. I have been in D/s relationships since my teens, having initially been a sub but soon finding the joy of being Dominant/Daddy. I do not subscribe to stereotypes of what a Dom or sub/slave/baby girl should be. Indeed experience has taught me the limitations of labels... Although I do recognise their utility. Every relationship has been unique with its own rewards and learning. I am interested in meeting the real person, not the persona; that takes time and I enjoy the slow unwinding. I do engage in one offs and hook ups to get sexual release, ultimately it is something deeper I want. I am demanding psychologically, emotionally, and sexually, it takes a special woman/girl to keep me interested.
I have been described as a 'sensual Dom', the whipping and beating are fun but ultimately it is the psychological that arouses me. Ideally a sub/slave/baby girl should interest me... Good conversation is a must. Anything less means you're disposable (said in a smiley not a psychopath kind of way). So single word answers or greetings tend to end up in the bin. Enough of the negatives. Feel free to say hi, ask questions, just be yourself and I'm sure we'll get on fine.
If it's looking like something is building I'll want to verify via cam/voice. Too many wasted conversations because the pic on the profile wasn't real. I don't expect cam play, it's just to make sure we are each who we claim to be.
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Hmmmm. Why ask for politeness and manners and then be so rude and obnoxious? Words for the day/year/life: 'congruence' and 'consistency' x |
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Well I walked right into that one. Ask an honest question, get a mail full of abuse!!! |
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Why do I feel so frustrated? Hmm! Ok, to be clear, in this twitter age, I do not write dissertations in mail. You do not get it all at once. It comes over time, slowly, through conversation. That's how knowledge is made; it is grown, organic. 'Tell me what it means to be a Dom!'... really? That which is described in words does no justice to the experience. To be a Dom requires a sub, one is not there until the other also is there, in relationship (be it moments or a lifetime). Anything else is just words. |
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Intelligence has several forms: knowing stuff is clearly the one most people most people associate with the word; however knowing lots of facts Is not particularly attractive if there is no self-awareness, no emotional literacy, or indeed understanding of ones own limitations. I value self-awareness, emotional literacy, and the capacity for reflection. If you have one or more of these then not knowing much stuff really is not an issue. |
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You were delicious last night. Such a good girl performing with me on cam to a stranger. Well done littl'one. xx |
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Those moments when all you can do is smile quietly to yourself and disbelievingly shake you head. The universe wills as the universe will.... |
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Those moments when all you can do is smile quietly to yourself and disbelievingly shake you head. The universe wills as the universe will.... |
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What makes a good slave, I was asked. Easy, I said, it's' 'intelligence, diligence, and conscientiousness'. |
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Gotta wonder at the authenticity of someone who misspells their home town on their profile. Fair enough typos can happen but if you are so careless that you don't double check what you've written then I very much doubt you really have what it takes to please a Dom/me. |
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Stop. Pause. Take a moment and really relish the wonder of the word 'Bugger'. Tonight my dear I am going to thoroughly Bugger you... Really get the 'b' sound. Gorgeous. Any old person can fuck up the arse... But buggery takes class! |
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I gotta say, guys that go off on one and vent when they are rejected are really missing the point about Dominance. It's about Control, not just controlling your behaviour but also being in control of your baggage. It's fine to have baggage, we all do, but letting your fear rule your behaviour is just not Dominant behaviour. Embrace it, challenge it, and channel it. |
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