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Have decided to change the profile, the pretentiousness was getting me down, and clearly the humour was lost on many people.... so here we go...
I am a switch, which means that I am open to relationships with people of all flavours and denominations... it does not mean that I will try and change or subvert you, it means that if we are good together then I can joyfully play the way that suits us best. To my mind the relationship is the thing, knowing and being known, intimately, that is what rings all my bells, blows all my whistles, and shoots all my... erm... well whatever is meant to be shot!
My first experience was with a much older Domme when I was a fresh faced teen... she was wealthy, I was her au pair, and she quickly taught me how to behave. Since then many of my relationships have been with subs, and I have played in many different ways... I do not really scene anymore, over time itall started to feel like one big stereotype. I do not mean to insult anyone, this was just my experience; I much prefer someone who can talk seriously about likes and dislikes rather than assuming that everyone knows what a Domme or sub is. My experience has taught me that the line is usually too fine, and the dichotomy is really quite artificial and false. That being said, games are games, and play is play as long as the rules are set then fun will ensue.
I am active and committed to my work, this can limit my availability, it also means 24/7 isnot an option in the early stages. Parts of my life you won't be allowed access to, nothing personal but until trust develops things in my life will be kept safe.
I am happy to send pictures when we have started to connect... if visuals is all you are interested in well much respect and goodbye... my tastes do not require someone to meet a specific physical standard.
I am really interested to hear from Dommes and subbies... like I said earlier, it is you I want to get to know.
I also have a low boredom threshold, I know it is not de rigoeur on here for males to ask females to be 'interesting' but if all you have to say is a few words and all you do is sit back and offer no initiative then do not be disappointed if I swiftly move on!!
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funny how some people insist on only replying to those with photos and yet they have no meaningful location on their profile?? Is the message that distance is no issue as long as you are attractive? Personally, and it is just my preference, I don't care what you look like just as long as we get along. Each to their own (as my Nan liked to say)!! |
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Here we go, a few 'facts' about switching (from my perspective), first off to me switching is about the relationship, some people I prefer to be Dom with others sub... it is not a light-switch I turn on or off as the mood takes me, nor will I suddenly turn around during 'play' and say 'Actually darling can I wield the cane now!!' My orientation within relationships remains the same... it is about the relationship not the SEX!!! Does this mean that I will automatically bow before all Dom/mes or impose my will on all subs? NO! It means that I will get to know you and if it clicks then great and if not then 'no worries'... it is not a judgement about you and your entire being, it is about me deciding whether this relationship is right for me.... erm... but isn't that what we all do?? *smiles* I hope this clarifies it? |
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A few bis of interest but nothing solid... like soooo many other sites the gender ratio is awful (or great depending on your perspective). some serious judgemental statements from a few people.... still, to be expected... control is everything and some just ain't got it... let me ask you, how you gonna make her beg if you just let rip at word go???? |
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Well here we go, a new entry, new beginnings and all that. First off Hi to all those I've chatted with over the past few weeks, my faith in humanity (and the scene) is somewhat restored. Anyways, to those with the whole "no picture, no commitment" diatribe pthhhhh!!! I've been around too long and have seen how pics are misused... you'll see me, no worries, just as soon as it is appropriate. End of the day at least I'm not pasteing some no-existent model type up there... hehehe! 'Sides if I'm feeling Dom you'll be in a blindfold/mask so fast whats the difference? Mmmmm! Now that's got me thinking... time to go play. see ya! |
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