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Over the years I have found most women thrive in the presence of a strong man, in the warmth of an atmosphere where she can relax. To free her darkest desires, to let her guard down, she must feel it is safe to do so. With me, she will. Once real trust is established, even your greatest fear will be gone. What you once regarded your scariest aspect to your personality will be lovingly revealed as your inner child. Few women are willing to brave the disapproving echoes of their upbringing, nor risk the censure of their colleagues and wrath of their families to loose what is within. This type of courage is nobler than battlefield bravura and rarer than great intelligence. It is, however, the essential, vital quality required of one who yearns to be free of the demon and embrace the inner little girl. My question is simply this Are you willing to travel down this path and see where I can take you? Im looking for a Long Term Relationship. Ive had several one lasted for 20 wonderful years. Others were truncated by Cancer, or by the lack of self confidence to commit to one man, some women sought perfection, which by definition simply does not exist.I will help you to a enjoy a new submissive attitude. There will be missteps along the way, yet amazing things will happen. You will yearn to belong to me. A great deal of dedication and work from both of us will be required, but youll have my guidance, my training, my encouragement, and more. I will admire your beauty and relish your femininity. My ownership will bring about a sense of tranquility. You will know comfort and wellness -- and permanence between us. I am open, I will listen and I will enjoy learning what it is you need and want.

I appreciate that YOU are capable, I take pride in your professional work and accomplishments. I appreciate even more that, when you cross the threshold of our home, you drop the pretense of a fulfilled, independent, self-contained woman who doesnt need me.

If you didnt, Id spank you on the spot.



In the privacy of our home I will compel you to be the naturally submissive woman I know you are, and have always been. It will be your joy to please us both, obey your own desires, serve us both, and love me. I respect your intellect, opinions and ideas, and I encourage you to freely express them, knowing that ultimately the decision will be both ours as to what you really want to say and what you can do.



I am intelligent, loving, and kind, firm and resolute. When Your words or behavior cross the line that WEVE drawn for you, I will correct you. A remark youve made in irritation may be met by my cautionary Would you like to try that again?

Otherwise, You Will Find Yourself bent over the nearest table, kitchen counter or Lying Flat And Naked In Your Bed, receiving a more painful and embarrassing admonition.



spanking is a disciplinary tool, so effective is the mixture of pain, helplessness and humiliation when spanking a grown woman, some tears of relief should result.

Your imperfect attitudes or misbehavior will be addressed. And, you will understand that the effect of my discipline, along with the consoling that follows, shall provide you a sense of serenity and well-being youve been craving for days, weeks, even years.



I hate perversion. I hate abuse. I have far to much respect for women, something my wonderful mother taught me by her example as a loving mom, and a very intelligent and profoundly talented professional woman.



Yes, we will both know you are genuine, real, and your heart is in this. So is mine. Im not here to toy with your emotions or misrepresent my intentions in order to take advantage of you as simply a long term sexual toy.



If any other reason weve discussed in the past still lingers, say it again loud enough to for me to hear.
3/31/2018 3:02:23 AM
Hi, I'm Jerry.  If when reading your profile my assessment is you're quite bright, know who you are, know what you need, then I'm curious.  In short you're no fool. I'm not going to prevaricate with an attempt to coax you into any long distance relationship outside your geographical limitations.  I will convey to you the raw edges and smooth transitions leading to fulfillment in the D/s depths are familiar to me.  So too are the relationships, like a jet engine unable to run on it's own, which shut down for insufficient fire.  One lives with the hope the next developing relationship will manifest greater wisdom with resulting satisfaction.  
9/17/2016 4:26:08 AM
We all have fears. Submissive woman have the most, like for instance an uncomfortable pair of handcuffs. We can put a man on the moon, but we can't make a comfortable pair of handcuffs. But, isn't that part of the fun?
9/17/2016 4:11:23 AM
With authority comes responsibility.  Both require the need to discover leadership.  One major ect of leadership is delegation.  I think delegation is at the heart of the submissive or slave fabric.
The master has to acknowledge the competency of his charge. By doing so, he is giving permission to that woman to be herself, and if she lives to serve, then he must delegate to that role. It is a power sharing arrangement.  TPE as an absolute right of the Master is inaccurate for a LTR. In fact is, it's the province of abuse. It's the home of the immature man, the sadist who refused to be rational, and is imbued with 'power greed.'
I can't recall a single spanko and bondage kinkster who didn't associate corporal punishment with love.  So for the sub/slave personality, this conflict is difficult for a true DOM to deal with, as the line between anger and love in these ladies is too thin to walk on without falling in both directions, often at once.
Nevertheless, as a DOM who associates kink with an appreciation of an altered state, a good altered state, the need to pleasure/pain with the application of tenderness in the experience, must exist. It fulfills me as a Daddy.  So in that role I enjoy providing loving after care and my motto is: Spank you, fuck you, hug you, and rock you to sleep.
I've a sound reputation for availability to my subs, talking you to sleep over the phone when insomnia strikes.  I use my resonant and sonorous voice effectively in praise of your virtues, I'm the teddy bear in your arms and sleep often comes within 15 minutes. And when I say I'm going to hang up I'm often told: "No, not yet, just continue telling me I'm a good girl and tell me a story."  When her breathing is deep and regular, I simply say 'sweet dreams doll face', and hang up.  It makes me feel so fulfilled, I think it might be better than the entire routine of sexual orgasmic ritual culminating in my orgasm.    
I narrate during the seduction, in great detail, narrating my application of arousal in very specific anatomical terms, but in a heightened realm of my ownership and control of your body.  Great fun and deeply satisfying for me.
I've passed the point in life where sex is a simple release of sperm from my cock.  I measure satisfaction in how wet she is, how much her vagina spasms as my fingers enter and play with her cervix, and anal play as well. 
I'm in control; I'll give you instruction on your goals and irations, and obeying my daily instructions to feel safe and secure in your actions. My orders, are the staple of your day. I can and will humiliate as a master of the psyche, knowing that our lurking shadow in our unconscious demands participation in the ritual of self awareness of our unconventional needs.

God blesses all of us more often as we understand our own nature and learn to follow out animal instincts as well as the instruction from our higher mind.
9/14/2016 7:03:34 PM
Hi young lady,

Cyber training is an art form. I can tell you the equivalent of spanking online is "scolding" and this is well explained in the many articles on the web about being a submissive online.  I have a great deal of experience with this.
Did you in your teenage years fantasize about being spanked? Not unusual. Those years often are the point where you needed to be disciplined by a strong male figure, but you may not have gotten that. 
Some women did not have a father present, some women did not have fathers who understood the daughter needed to be watched closely as she challenged him for discipline.  Some women are latent submissive women, whose first eagerness for discipline occurred around puberty.  In any event, we will explore the erotic and rewarding side of bringing guidance and discipline into your life.
I can do this effectively by texting and phone conversations. What you need to do is find the private time away from your vanilla life to indulge in your education, and be prepared to become aroused.  At some point in our dialogue, you will become very wet. You will struggle with my directions to play with yourself as I WILL phone or text fuck you.  That's the beginning of your submissive transition.  So, are you ready for this? You may love it beyond anything you've ever experienced. I will guide you into it, and hold you in it. I will dominate you in a kind and relentless manner. You'll think of me constantly and become dependent on our relationship. Are you ready to start this adventure?
I require a suitable commitment after enough interaction between us has occurred, just remember, once you become enamored with me, there is no turning back for you. To do so would be the demise of the new you. You will beg to meet me and be completely dominated in the flesh.  I'm giving you this advice now so you can decide if the lust in you is really ready to emerge.  It's your choice. 
9/13/2016 6:55:55 PM
Spanking you is my favorite method of providing multiple benefits. First of all, it needs to be a daily event. Why? Because you always have a need for guidance.
I will verbally discuss with you issues of your performance as I'm smacking your derrière. You will be accountable for meeting your goals, and of course will be disciplined for not doing so.
I don't punish you, I remind you of what you have agreed to do for both of us to improve your submissive path. 
And there are times when you simply need a good reason to cry.  Your period is painful, you had a bad day at work, somebody you thought you knew has betrayed you, etc. On those occasions a good fanny treatment is a great refreshment. 
8/17/2016 4:43:23 PM
If you know what will satisfy you, even if it's scary, then you will be able to articulate it.? If you can't make a straight forward summary, then you're not ready to make a commitment to even attempt it.? Don't fool yourself.? Be ready to make what you think you want to experience a reality, that is to take a risk.? If your personal history is full of fear of risk taking, you're not going to gain much from a real Dom, which albeit, are still in the minority. ?
khimylicious69
 
 Age: 42
 Devine, Texas