I am a single submissive mom of 3 beautiful children ages 9, 7, and 5. I am an openly bisexual woman and all my friends and family know. I have dated my share of people who say they are grown, but can't take the seriousness of real life. I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who wants to be a part of my life and my kids lives. I love to read, write, listen to music, watch tv and movies, chat, go online, shop, and much more. I am currently in the process of writing a novel which I'm about 1/2 done with. I hope to get it published some day and become a known author. I love rock music, but I am very much open to all different kinds of music.

I don't limit myself. I am unique because I enjoy being myself and I don't let others change me. If I like something I am proud to like it not change it because it isn't cool. I'm going to be honest and say if you're not kinky or Dominant, or in the lifestyle, it probably won't work between us unless you're willing to allow me to go to my parties on weekends. If you don't have a clue what I'm talking about, PLEASE don't message me asking for sex.

I am looking for a real life Dom...not someone who just wants to be a Dom. I am sick of fakes and players and want someone who really knows how to take control. Someone who wants complete control. I have a slave's heart and want to be able to share that with someone who knows what I need without me having to tell him how to be a Dom.

I need a strict man, not a DEMANDING man. I want someone who is a disciplinarian. If you don't know what any of that means, ask me, if I don't think you're it, I'll tell you. I don't want to be able to get anything I want, or get away with crap just because I pout or stomp my foot. I have learned to live my life by no excuses (unless it's an emergency), and I need a man who can hold me to that and will punish me (not abuse me) if I step out of line.