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Hetero Female Switch,  HulaVille, Hawaii
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Daddysgirlsocali - HulaVille, Hawaii

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 Female Switch



 5' 7"

 150 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male

Switch Men

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining

 Travel (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)



 Shopping (Expert)



 Horseback Riding

 Body Worship


 Breast Binding/Play


 Corsets (Expert)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Role Playing

 Shibari  (Beginner)

 Stockings (Expert)

 Strap-Ons/Packers (Expert)

 Suspension (Beginner)

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Lifestyle BDSM




 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries


 Coffee Shops



 Musical Theater





 Surf Boarding





 Canes and Crops



 Corner Time

 Electrical Play

 Enemas (Expert)


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community





 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play

 Needle Play

 No Strings Housework

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pantyhose Fetish (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play



 Watersports / Toilet


 1950s Household

 Alternative Music


 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 EMO Music


 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music


 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music




 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes


 Feng Shui







 Ice Hockey





 Bar Hopping

 Wax play

 Heavy Metal Music




 Curious About:


 Wind Surfing

 Rubber Fetish

 Sky Diving



 Hard Limits:


 Fire Play

 Knife Play


 Auto Racing


BluEyedBlonde loves SPANKING sense of humor is as big as my strapon, "Sir"

(yes that very famous "Sir" from Alt!)


"After all, doesn't every successful relationship represent the triumph of chemistry over baggage? "
~ Author unknown

Expect to enjoy a full life that includes pleasures of BDSM,
SeXy shoes, GirlyGirrl attire, hot nasty SeX
with enough vanilla to keep the neighbors from wondering.

Read my profile, take it as you will, not every activity is for everyone, I'm extremely VERSATILE!
I am Informal: if you insist on Titles 24/7, strict protocols, specific costuming, etc. I am most likely not your girl.
I am ASSertive: squeaky clean ASSplay IS required by all involved parties...   giggle...
took me a lifetime for it to be on my "lives for" list, so I can teach you to at least have it make your "likes" list.

If you're not into it, I am definitely not your girl!

TOYS are required, if you don't own any
I  most likely won't be interested.
If you enjoy CBT,  you must bring your own toys to the playing field & I'll be glad to tell you which to purchase (as if you hadn't already looked online) .

I am very int
erested in sensual caning, shibari, ropework, and suspension.
May I peek in your toybag? Besides the thrill I get, it's a good indicator of what you think may soon take place, or not.

I am BOLD/shy: I enjoy CONTROL and being controlled.  I want it all!!!
I adore being tied up, especially when it's creative and neat. I had a guy tie me into a pink knot bikini... tight & felt amazing.  Hell, sloppy & tight works sometimes!
Show me your knots, I'll show you mine.
Most likely if you SUBS: don't have just a bit o' switch in you...I'm not the girl.

 I am not Barbie (but I am pretty luscious and REAL)!
Educated, sensual, heteroflexible woman
yearns to learn the secrets of your desires and take them as far as we both are willing.

Not in to wearing leather (it's freaking HOT here!) as much as lingerie...

Prefer tall, athletic, surfer: handsome, well endowed, caring man w/firm hand.
This is not my fantasy, I've had this guy, and it is what works for me ( you want Barbie, and a 20something, no less! I want surfer dude).

Please don't "play" a role to get my attention. Just let it be known the relationship you hope for, and if the chemistry is there, we'll see what we have to work with.
Select (REAL) sub men & femme women desired for my personal pleasures.  Love the athletic men and  ultra femme cd/ts/tg's, (straight and/or curious) girls too!
Only respond to messages with pics. 
Show me some ass... giggle I love nice asses!
NOT interested in long distance. 
No baby talk or diapers! 
If not available weekends or evenings, keep moving! Go back to plenty of fish.

Honing my socio/psychopath radar: had to get through a few to recognize those bells &
screeeching whistles.
(sorry about the no, no, no's, but the crazies forced my hand!)

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Journal Entries:
3/14/2013 10:09:16 PM
Cum play with me at Leather & Leis March 29-April 2 Hilo, Hawaii

1/1/2013 12:42:51 AM
Hau‘oli Makahiki Hou!!! Happy 2013 & best of everything to you all.

11/28/2012 1:34:51 PM
ALOHolidays! Loving the fresh young meat now appearing on Cm. If you are REAL, muscular, & eager to learn, step to front of the line! Xtra points for TALL. Miss Christi

6/18/2012 4:17:24 PM
Aloha~ Spend your next holiday at Ass Lake! "Sir" & I would love to give your ass the full tour. Let me know when you'll be visiting HulaVille, so we can plan your memorable excursion.

3/20/2012 9:54:42 PM


Visiting the islands soon?

Look forward to meeting new friends!

12/17/2011 3:27:50 PM

Aloha & Mele Kalikimaka!!!

12/1/2011 12:59:11 PM

Blondie's Holiday Best! scratch, bang, wow!

Have you done your holiday shopping?
Do you dread wrapping all those gifts, or wish that one special gift
was wrapped as wonderful as the gift itself?

Are you coming to visit your island home for Christmas or Hanukkah, and wouldn't you be pleased to have all the holiday decor up and ready for your entertaining pleasure, when you arrive?

Give Blondie your personal shopping list and she will select creative gifts for your family, friends, coworkers, and clients!
Scrumptious, gourmet baskets available year round, for distinctive gifting.

Award winning designer will decorate your lit tree, and living space, with your ornaments, and add embellishments to fit any budget.

Starting from scratch?
Let Blondie show you how to get the biggest bang for your buck.
Traditional, Elegant, even Hip... You call it, let's make magic!
Kink can be added to any of your decor or gifts... see my tree pic?

Expert gift wrapping (year round) with hand tied bows and trinkets for an hourly rate plus the cost of supplies (OR will gladly use your own paper, boxes, tape, & ribbon, etc).

These valuable services are perfect for working professionals, retirees,
even busy soccer moms!
Or maybe you'd like to GIFT these services to another... it CAN be arranged!

Message me asap to book your date(s)

Available right up to December 24th!

Appreciate you reading this ad. DO tell your friends!
Mahalo nui loa!

11/24/2011 9:23:16 PM
It's been a fabulous spanksgiving! Mahalo🌺

10/6/2011 11:23:36 AM
Moving to Hawaii this month! Keep in touch, you know who... Aloha

9/13/2011 8:24:27 AM
Update: I will not be running to yahoo to chat anytime soon! Please don't ask. No Pic still means No Response! Prefer to see your ass & face, save your cock shots... unless of course they're creative cbt pics! Are you seeking a keyholder? Let's talk. Pleasure is all mine...

9/12/2011 1:20:28 PM
Dsandvanilla is a SCAMMER aka SCAMMER hacked my yahoo! Techies want to help me? Miss Christi, Queen of the Tech Impaired

9/12/2011 8:58:33 AM
**ALERT*** I am not in SPAIN!!! If you received email/text from me to that effect, you may thank a guy right here on cm who is " Ds and vanilla". Write him!!! We can ALL thank him for hacking my yahoo! Actually, I'd like "Sir" to thank him personally... he's obviously not one of US, so I think he might not be as thrilled with "Sir", as some of you genuine men are. I appreciate every one of you who write on my behalf! Kisses, Miss C

9/12/2011 8:34:38 AM
Where are my KEYS???   and my pics? Yeah, the pics of you with my name written on your body... and you're wearing that lil thong..   You wanna talk? Pics & keys are the order of the day.   SHOW me!!! Pleasure is all mine, Miss Christi

8/29/2011 2:57:16 AM
This message is to the chickenshit phony known as facefacts: Worm, It is now so obvious that you are not genuinely sincere about your quest for confinement. Are you really getting the responses you expected? Maybe if you reined it in a bit, with less repetitive information, and quit going for the total shock value...Your setup leads the reader to expect so much more, only to be totally let down by your insolent responses. You ARE quacking like a duck, and that is hilarious! Making this entire charade, ever so slightly, entertaining. Best of luck, to your pitiful self!

8/25/2011 11:57:29 PM
Where are my KEYS??? and my pics? Yeah, the pics of you with my name written on your body... and you're wearing that lil thong.. You wanna talk? Pics & keys are the order of the day. SHOW me!!!

8/23/2011 7:06:14 PM
Brainiacs... REALLY? NO PIC=NO RESPONSE!!! to all of you who have complied with my wishes, a heartfelt thank YOU. To "I don't have one", get lost! and quit wasting our time.

8/20/2011 5:42:53 AM
NO PIC=NO RESPONSE NO Shiii!!! I totally appreciate the effort when you do include pic & will respond only when you have honored my request.

7/13/2011 1:33:05 PM

The July Fry is here...  meet me at the beach, 

I'll see if I can recognize you! ♥


6/30/2011 10:11:21 AM

Be Safe,

Be Sane...

especially this crazy 4 day weekend!

6/4/2011 3:24:28 AM

yawwwn... do we have to go ever this again???


fyi: I prefer the scruffy, bit messy look, over the buttoned down, but show me your best

       if you'd like me to respond.

3/29/2011 3:34:08 AM

BluEyedBlondie's Birthday Festival!

3/29 to 3/31/2011 Jump in anytime!!!

3/14/2011 3:25:54 PM

NO PIC = NO chat, NO response! NO exceptions!

Apologies to my friends... but you pictureless souls will not be rewarded

until you have complied with my pic requirement, and be prepared 

to turn your cam on!

1/5/2011 8:50:15 AM
Join US!
So Cal Shibari (San Diego) 2nd & 4th Tuesdays Japanese Rope Bondage Class and Social 
 at Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista.


12/31/2010 10:25:07 AM

Happy New Year!

12/16/2010 5:35:58 PM
Screw cookies & milk!!!

and pretty much screw all of 2010...
I'm getting over it and looking forward to a fresh new year.

Happy Holidays to ALL of you... even the fakes, flakes and fuk alls!

Love you Madly,

12/13/2010 7:04:30 AM
Apologies if you feel I'm neglecting you. My Maytag flooded my downstairs last week, & the insurance co has has my wood floors ripped up, cabinets & granite coming out, AND they expect me to move out for the 2-3 months of repairs. I'm stunned & lil off kilter at this point. I appreciate your well wishes & Holiday Best to All.

11/29/2010 6:07:00 PM
I respond to nearly every message!
Include your pics so we can get that out of the way & on to what we really want to know... WHAT is YOUR KiNk???

11/16/2010 9:11:53 AM

I am aware that my happiness is an inside job

and I am working towards being employee of the year!

You win the Best Profile on CM Award, especially in the "most real" category.  Of course there is no trophy

to take home, but you get kudos.  Your "I am aware that my happiness is an inside job

and I am working towards being employee of the year!" is priceless.

Thank you JP!

11/15/2010 2:35:37 PM

***NEWS FLASH***  Would love to report I am off this rollercoaster!!!

Help me out here! giggle

"Then there was the ass play paragraph.   Shared interest #2... I'm a big fan, but I got the sense that I may be more of an ass tourist, and you went and bought a vacation home right on the shores of ass lake. Makes me curious about what it is I've been missing all these years. " 

Thank you, Buddy!


10/27/2010 12:50:24 PM

We all recognize the scammers, seen our fair share of flakes, but who are we when we lose interest and just stop interacting? Does that make us flakes? No, it's the ADD nature of this sensory overload! The grass DOES always seem greener...

I appear to be a collector of the beautiful bodies and artistic types. Am I to be judged for that? Most likely, and to each his own. I enjoy our differences.

As each day FLIES by faster and faster, I hope to treat myself to what ever pleasures I can, for the short time I am allowed. Looking at my profile I'm sure you're thinking "whooore!" and that would be so far from reality... giggle

I am extremely selective, so those of you I interact with ARE exceptional, to me.

10/24/2010 1:58:26 AM

No pic=No response. Hello, what makes you think I'm going to chase down Yhoo mail to see who you might be??? I, quite possibly, the Queen of the Tech Impaired, manage to frequently post current pics, just like thousands of other members. For whatever reason you "pic"less folk seem to have clueless profiles as well, so NO I will not be providing my Yhoo, MsN, etc to you, the absolute stranger. Or Brittney, you adorable lookalike, you can im while you're in "class", but you, of all attention whores, do not have a cam?!!! That is priceless. Even scammers have entertainment value...just don't bitch, when I don't bite!

btw Giants vs Rsngers... what's your position?

10/4/2010 11:54:27 PM
LIMITS:  the harshest Doms, the meekest of subs, we ALL have them and expect them to be honored.
In the middle of something new, you decide this is not working for you, this new activity is now a HARD limit and you need the activity to stop.
Safe word has turned in to begging, pleading , tears...
What makes you think NO doesn't mean NO, just because she consented to being tied up

(hey fucker, is this turning you on???)?

10/2/2010 2:40:55 PM
ok, enough with the previous question!
Let's move on to a new topic: cunt kicking
Haven't seen that on the interest lists & was recently introduced to it. Not sure it's appropriate for an initial meeting, hell I don't think kicking you in the balls is either, but that is definitely a HARD LIMIT!
Please share your thoughts.

9/30/2010 11:55:44 AM
NOTE: I am not a NASCAR fan, but this has been the best response to the silliest question...
"the difference between auto racing and nascar is the fans..
auto racing fans wear their hats on straight..and might smoke cigars that are hand rolled..
nascar fans chew tobacco and wear their hats backwards..."

9/22/2010 4:41:46 PM
Please don't expect me to cam nude before we meet...
I'll turn it on and before you even notice what color my eyes are you say " take your clothes off, turn around,  bend over, put your head in the seat of that chair, and spread your cheeks"... all of us subs know that drill!
Let's have some creativity, puhlease!
btw, I have lost about 40 to 60+ lbs since these photos were shot and am having serious acceptance issues.
Can you believe I'd give just about anything to have my larger features back! Working on a new photo collection and will post asap.

IS there a difference between auto racing and NASCAR? just curious.

8/31/2010 3:10:18 AM
 I came to Collarme for obvious reasons
and playing childish vanilla games isn't
one of them!
I'm so pissed off, my "Switchiness" is making me want to stuff DaddysGirl back in the trunk,  and find myself a couple of deserving subs (male & female)
to work out my frustrations...
p.s. the married man didn't get any, fyi!


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