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I am an intelligent, some say attractive, submissive woman, with a great sense of humor.
On a warm sunny day there is nothing better than a cruise on a motorcycle holding tight to good company. His hand reaching down and caressing my calf....mmmm...but please don't mistake me for a biker "bitch" lol.
I love the outdoors, I love to read and write, I love to spend a rainy Sunday afternoon cuddled up on the couch watching a good movie, or a football game even, as long as I am with someone special. I am looking for a compassionate Dom, some might call Him a "Daddy Dom", a man who is secure in his dominance, one who knows the difference between a woman serving because she wants to or because she fears him, a man with honor and integrity. I am looking for a good balance between the vanilla outside world, and coming home to our D/s home. I am very much a lady on the outside, and you will always be proud to have me on your arm. But behind closed doors, well that's a whole different story! I am not interested in: couples, sub men, switch men, married men, women, liars, cheaters and game players. I would prefer to be with someone local but it's not a deal breaker...I have done the long distance thing and it's extremely hard to trust someone who is 2500 miles away from you for three weeks of every month. I have two children, so if you don't want the package deal, please don't bother with me.
A sense of humor is a must, a lot of patience is a plus, lol.
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Unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it's a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love should not be one of them. |
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Life is good~ very, very good....summer is almost here, everyone is healthy, and best of all everyone is happy :) |
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Just some random thoughts for today...
I realize that it might not seem fair to you that you have to pay the price for damage that someone else has caused to the one you care about, but the reality of it is this: we all have scars that make us who we are today and if you care about her, and she has trouble trusting because of her past, cut her a break once in a while because she is probably trying really, really hard not to take things out on you. Be above board about everything, don't give her mind a reason to go places it shouldn't. Sooner or later she will realize that you can be trusted, that you are not like "all the rest" who came before you, and you will be the one who benefits from her realization for she will give to you what no man has truly ever had from her...her soul, completely and without hesitation finally. |
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*confused look*
Here I am again, pretty much saying the same things I have said since I first came to CollarMe. Why is it people say things online and act a certain way online when in reality that is not who they are at all? I am so tired of putting myself out there only to find, after devoting much time and feeling to somebody, that they are not who they say, not even close. *sigh*
Eventually the truth always comes out...you can only be on your best behavior for so long before your true colors shine through.
Know who you are and what you want before you involve another person in your life...I can't scream this loudly enough: IF YOU DON'T WANT CHILDREN IN YOUR LIFE, DON'T CONTACT ME PLEASE. I am not trying to be rude here, but I am just so tired of all the bs.
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You ever notice that some men who call themselves dominant should be calling themselves domineering instead? Is there a rule that says that as a submissive woman I am not allowed to make the choice to end a relationship, especially one that consisted of two dates? I am not, nor will I ever be, a doormat. I have a mind of my own and if I choose not to date you anymore for whatever reason that may be, then that is still my choice to make. A good Dom and a mature man would respect that choice, wish me happiness, and move on. A domineering man would continue to email me, insisting that the failure of the relationship is all my fault, and that it is HIS choice to end the relationship. There is no fault or blame when something doesn't work out the way you had hoped...what counts the most is how you handle yourself afterwards. I choose to handle myself with grace, dignity and maturity in all situations. Can you say the same? |
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I'm finding it really confusing and disappointing lately...I get some great introduction notes, and then we talk online, and on the phone, and then we meet..and so far the ones I have met have not been the people they represent themselves to be online. I don't expect perfection, Lord knows I am not perfection, lol, but if you represent yourself as a dom, then please be one. And if you represent yourself as a compassionate, romantic, sensual, Daddy type dom, then please be one! If it will bother you that I live an hour and a half from you, then please don't tell me that the distance is not going to be a problem. If it's going to be a problem for you that I have children and my commitments to them come before you, then please don't tell me you understand and will never be jealous or disappointed when I put them first. Just be honest with me, I don't think that's too much to ask. It doesn't make you a bad person, it just means we aren't going to be a good match. It's actually a big time saver for both of us! Oh, and if you are OCD about making a mess during sex or getting cum on you, then get me a towel before we start, because sex is messy and if it isn't, then you are doing it all wrong, lol. |
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Want to read something funny? Tonight I received an awesome introduction note from a guy from NY...it was a beautifully written story and a nice note saying he liked my profile and asking if I would like to chat. I replied to him with a short note thanking him for the great introduction and yes I would like to chat with him, but that I couldn't do it tonight because tonight I have to watch a baseball game...I do afterall live in Red Sox Nation.
A few minutes later I receive this: "If that lame response is the best you can do, I have zero interest in hearing more."
Okay..so the guy is obviously a Yankees fan and can't get past it.....SO CAN WE SAY "SORE LOSER?"
LMAO.
C'mon people, I am not a huge sports fan, but I can't turn on my tv or walk out of my house without seeing stuff about the Red Sox, and this guy is gonna get pissy because I want to watch them play a championship game?? |
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My first journal entry and I am beginning with a bitch...I know, I know, not a good way to begin anything but this really bugs me! I set up my email preferences to weed out certain people I already know I will not be interested in such as couples, younger men, married men, men in other countries, and submissive and switch men. So why do these people send me emails and bitch to me that I am rude when I don't respond to their first emails? Don't they realize from reading my profile that I am not interested and can't they figure out that their mail went directly to my bulk mail folder without me having seen it? I respond to all the mail I receive, even if it is to say I am not interested, and I respond in a respectful and honest way. Okay, that's the end of my rant for today, lol. |
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| Age: 48 |
| Basel,
Switzerland |
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