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Daddyonfire

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I am a discreet, professional, confident gentleman in public and a snarky, incorrigable bad boy in intimate settings I don't think you are inferior nor do I expect you to call me Master, unless I earn the privilege. I am not looking for a doormat; rather a partner who understands and enjoys submission. Age difference is not important but maturity is. I can be a daddy or a peer.
I have been around the D/s environment for quite a while as a traditional Dominant but recently discovered the pleasure of being a Daddy.... yes, still Dominant but in more of a mentoring and nuturing role than a harsh one... but don't be fooled; I enjoy rough play when its right. I didn't realize so many women had the hunger and the fantasy to have a daddy figure in their life. This daddy can be sweet and playful but still knows how and when to discipline his girl... wink wink .... I am fun to hang with but will I keep you guessing; spontaneous but always have a plan. I don't tolerate drama and I am not into strict protocol; this is supposed to be fun, sexy and and angst-free.I may be older than you but I am not a cranky old man. My hair is silver but my heart is golden. I have a wicked sense of humor and can be very sarcastic and facetious , in a good way, of course. I have seen the dark side and use humor as a defense mechanism. I respect limits however one never knows where they may be defined until they are stretched. I know you have those dark fantasies in there; so do I. It's my job to draw them out and make sure they are lived to the fullest. Not looking for doormat or needy masochist type but otherwise normal; open minded and highly sexed is wonderful. Please have self esteem and a personality. There is about people who trust each other to share their innermost dark secrets. Our time together will range from carefree light flirting to intense scenes. I have a collection of adult play equipment, a good imagination, a wide range of interests and yours are important to me also. You are accomplished, well-spoken, feminine but not a diva. I prefer someone who is an assertive, responsible women in vanilla life; they make the best submissives in private. If you want someone to embrace and appreciate your sexuality guilt free, I am your guy.....All fetishes welcomed and celebrated. There is no shame in being a perv......
I am a non smoker, I do not abuse substances but enjoy fine bourbon and dark chocolate. I do not post my face photos because of the sensitive career that I work in. I will be happy to exchange g rated images by email.
Speaking of trust; here is a caveat... I have a wonderful vanilla women in my life. She is completely aware of who I am; that I have this profile and that I have had D/s relationships in the past. She is not submissive and does not play however knowing my needs, does not object to my activity, given reasonable parameters. In short, she knows but doesn't want to know the details. There is no drama involved and there will never be upsetting phone calls. Feel free to say hello... I promise not to send cock shots or nasty, vile emails..... All the best, D
1/1/2015 5:54:39 PM
New Years Resolution:   To find a wonderful submissive  and  make  her happy  and  make her  make  me  happy :)  
12/31/2014 4:23:14 AM
Happy New Year to all! Let's be safe out there.
9/13/2014 6:14:43 PM

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