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I am currently traveling around the US so feel free to contact me no matter where you live. I'm always up for making new friends. This gem was sent to me recently by an admirer: Daddylikesyou, Sir,i read Your profile and was extremely moved by it. i have been through a few relationships in the past 10 years with Masters.....some online and some real life.....there were things i liked about them and things i felt were missing....in the past few days, i have tried to sit and think and be honest with myself about what i truly wanted....i need strict and firm but i need loving and nurturing as well....the more i have been reading and listening to others, the more i believe that i need a DaddyDom....my favorite quote has always been.."Respect the woman, desire the slut and cherish the little girl"......i am a sensual mature woman with the sweetest little girl inside....and, as You know, it has nothing to do with age play or role playing....thank You so much for writing all You did in Your profile, Sir...it clarified quite a bit for me. Enjoy Your day! I came across these pearls and they say all there is to say. The first is from the perspective of a submissive Daddy's girl, the second that of a Daddy Dom and third is the D/ Creed I strive to live by. If these strike a chord deep within your heart, I would like to hear from you. Include a pic with your reply and I will respond in kind.... Smiles to all.. i am also what is known as a Daddy's girl sub with a slight bratty twist to my personality, no that donesn't mean i am hateful and lacking respect in anyway.. to Those i feel deserving i offer the proper respect to without question, i want to be babied, nooo not shurking my duties in any way shape or form, i am no where near lazy, i am child like in most of my ways and love the tender loving controlling care a Daddy Dom offers. I am still a woman but a rather child like one, i am of legal age to consent or refuse any and all offers i feel unhealthy or unsafe or just not my trip... But i have the strong instinctive desire to be cared for the way One would a child, with an open mind and heart that guides, loves, protects and teaches me. One who will show me the world and keep it's harshness at bay should it become to over whelming for me, my safe place in the world so to speak, On Daddy's lap or in His arms or peeking out from behind Him OK, a Daddy Dom is a Male type Dominant Person Who has a strong Fathering urge,the counter part of the Mother Hen syndrom i would believe, How ever in D/s When the Daddy Dom takes a submissive, He treats her rather like a little girl(see the next page to find out more about the little girl sub) He guides, teaches AND.. offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. In my view a Daddy Dom is the most tender of Dominants. He loves His little girl with an unwaivering and passionate Love that is timeless. His little girl is His sunshine the bright spot in His life.He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing He can not, He guides and teaches her helping her to be ready for this world. And then He waits, knowing she will run to Him when she becomes over whelmed and scared by the harshness of it all. The Daddy Dom always has His little girl's best interest in mind, He will help her set and reach goals, He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be,not for Him but for herself..and yes He will even at times punish her. This will no doubt break His heart, but He will always do whats best for her. The Daddy Dom gains as much joy and excitement from His little girl's daily acomplishment as she herself does. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way He cares for her, she has put that twinkle in His eye. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to Him, to her they are real and He will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and He is her Hero for it. The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams and desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves Him enough to open herself up so totally to Him, and He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little girl, and He loves her unconditionaly. Even if during scening He brings her great pain to release her pleasures(admit it some like it .. so hush now.) He will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it., when she feels unsure of herself He will whisper encouraging words for her, when she feels ugly He will reasure her how beautiful she is to Him.. when she is scared He will be her saftey ,her medium against the world if need be. Even though she is all woman, she is His little girl and He is her Daddy As the Dominant to My submissive, I know that she gives herself to Me in mind, body, soul and spirit and does so of her own volition. In Me, she has placed confidence, reliance, faith, hope, and dependence. I will endeavour to ensure My submissives needs and desires are learned, and her limits are respected at all times. I understand that the gift of submission is priceless and will cherish it always. Through My actions I will demonstrate that I am in complete control of Myself thus allowing Me to impress upon My submissive the need to relinquish any control she may subconsciously retain in order to facilitate O/our erotic power exchange. I accept responsibility for all aspects of My submissives life, ensuring that each decision I make in her regard is the best for her body, spirit and soul. Never will I place My submissive in jeopardy, nor will I compromise the trust she has placed in Me. In order to bring My submissive to new heights and understanding, I will work to achieve a vast knowledge of all aspects of the lifestyle, thus allowing Me to be the teacher that she so richly deserves. I will honor, defend and guard My submissive at all times showing that My love for her will provide a safe harbour in times of adversity. My Dominant self is rooted both in reality and in fantasy, yet I can easily differentiate the two, never allowing the fantasy world to overtake that of the real world. In times of distress and hardship, I will shed the role of Dominant and provide for My submissive, a supportive partner and confidante. While often unrelenting and strict, bringing My submissive to tears, I will always kiss away the tears that are shed showing My submissive that while stern, My heart belongs only to her. I vow never to lift a hand to My submissive in anger. When punishment is needed, it shall always delivered with a tender and discerning hand and for a valid reason. I pledge to My submissive patience and understanding, tolerance and steadfastness allowing U/us to grow

9/3/2009 8:05:57 AM Note to myself: I have noticed a lot of sad, negative, desperate and dishonest individuals out here on CM. Lots of angst, baggage and general unhappiness. Why would someone want to start a new relationship when they are so sad or angry? I myself choose to elevate the positive, the good things. I don't let the past rule me. I will no longer communicate with those women that can't see beyond the negative.