| Hello, my name is Richard.
Safety, Security and Love is what I have to share for the right little girl.
I'm following a vision for what I want my life to be and progressively realizing it. The vision is so vast that it took most of my life to nurture it, comprehend it and truly believe that it is possible. I carried the vision and now the vision carries me.
I know exactly what I want. I am not an "average guy."
I have a vast amount of relationship experience in many different kinds of romantic attachment, from monogamous dating to polyamorous fmf triadic marriage. A few lifetimes worth of experience, I would say.
I am just now beginning to have the time to make an active search for what I seek. I have recently completed a 3 year long self-imposed period of time alone (in romantic terms). This was to take a good look at myself, and my life. It was not what I wanted it to be. Success is really much more of a direction than a goal and I found my direction wanting. I remained single the entire time and virtually celibate to avoid using romantic attachment, new relationship energy, and sex as band-aids for quite real pains and injuries of my life.
That time is done. And I have reemerged. Reborn.
I have a vision for my life. Traveling toward it I see others with me. I would find you now, it is time to begin.
I am not the most experienced Daddy in terms of having a live-in little. I have had several girlfriends with this desire and I have fulfilled those desires well. I do know that this is a perfect relationship for me. I am dominant, firm and fair, and extremely caring, supportive, and affectionate. If anything, I must usually stop myself from being overly generous and caring with others, lest I give too much. And I do not allow an inch beyond a moderately flexible boundary to be breached with me. You know where you stand, always.
Anger? You won't get that from me. Being angry impacts my happiness and being happy is of paramount importance to me. Silence and removal form my presence are far more effective.
I am patient. to obtain money I care for men with autism in a very close and personal setting and this requires utmost patience. I am a father, and a very good one from all accounts. I have spent upwards of 50 hours a week with my children, teaching, playing, creating. I am a Father. A lucky coincidence that I eschewed relationships for the last 3 years in that I did not waste time pursuing the unimportant. No instead a Friday or Saturday night in my home is super duper sleepover with my children, we play, we wrestle, watch a special movie with treats and popcorn and many other things. Knowing what matters, such a key to happiness.
That intimacy, that kind of return to your real nature, is possible for you, in me. Not theoretically by some guy promising the world. I already know the way, I live it every day. Tomorrow, you can be enfolded in love if you bring all you have and lay it before me.
I seek a genuine little, a woman that desires to be loved and cared for consistently and with passion. Mental and physical love (with all of its meanings) to be given and received in abundance.
I also seek a helpmate, a fellow visionary to help me attain lofty dreams.
I will help you have structure and meaning not only in our relationship but in your assisting Daddy to change the world. And won't you be well-praised and rewarded when you do a good job.
I know it is hard to hold the fantasy and imagine a reality as well, being a little, being a woman, being a lady, being a hungry vixen. Having all of those parts and each part getting what it needs - Daddy can do that. It is a process, a direction we follow, hand in hand.
We will be a perfect fit if you:
-Listen to your dreams
-Cultivate yourself, or at least want to move in that direction
-Laugh at the absurd nature of life
-Are not afraid to try new things
-Are willing to give all of yourself to the right man
You do not need a ton of experience in this lifestyle to gain my interest as long as you know it is really what you want.
I will never speak what is not true no matter where that leads. When I read this from most people I usually assume they are tactless, uncouth. Let me clarify that honesty requires being honest with yourself first. And when you come up against something that requires you to say a truth you should first examine yourself, for that is where the problem lies - always. Before a selfish need comes honor, duty, and dignity.
Have I always been able to follow this? No, of course not. But it is my system. Even if I deviate from it I will return to it. And I will never deviate from telling the truth. I abhor lying.
I do not smoke. No drugs, never have even tried one. I drink wine occasionally. I will not tolerate drugs in my/our life.