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Pan Female Submissive, 29,  Kent, United Kingdom
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Hello all
Firstly, please read the full profile before replying, I will be able to tell if you don't and if you don't you won't get a reply. This isn't me being difficult it is to try to cut out time wasters or those who aren't suitable from the outset.

So, what am I looking for?

The name is a huge hint, I am looking for a Daddy Dom. To me this is someone who identifies with the role, who is caring, but firm. I suppose the best way to see if you fit with what I am looking for is to read the following which I found written by someone else on another site:

"Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. It refers to the environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides. So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who, in his mind, can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. How does he achieve his goals? Through love, respect, and discipline. His love for his little girl goes without saying. He accepts every part of her and works to emphasize the good while improving the bad. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. It is this love that allows him to train her. He could not invest so much of himself in someone he did not love completely. This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel great pride in his possession. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it's value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him. He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust she must know he means what he says. He must constantly deepen her respect for him. If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He needs to empower her as much as he wants to possess her and it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect. The discipline is also important when it comes to her protection, both from those outside the relationship and those within. He is the one who makes the decisions about how she will relate to the world in general and his discipline ensures that she follows these rules. I think most Doms have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in their submissive's life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it's participants crave."

I think that is a very good description, and is a good basis for me for what I am looking for.

A bit about me...

I am 29, work shifts and because of the job that I do I can't put pictures on here but once I know someone and feel I can trust them I am happy to swap them.

I have a wide range of interests outside of bdsm including sports, science, the countryside and animals. I have a couple of tattoos but no piercings.

I am currently overweight but I am trying to work on this by improving my fitness and working on my bad eating habits. I also have a couple of medical conditions which don't affect my day to day life but which might come up in a relationship or during sessions.

I don't casually play with people, I am not looking for just a bit of fun, I am looking for someone who I can build a lasting and deep trust and relationship with, which takes time.

BDSM tastes

Outside of the Daddy Dom aspect I have a lot of curiousities and have tried a number of things some of which I enjoyed and some I didn't. I am willing to try most things either for the first time or again as I know that even if something didn't work with one person doesn't mean it won't with another.

I have particularly enjoyed in the past

  • Hypnosis
  • Restraint
  • Blindfolds
Now a little task

To prove that you have taken the time to read my profile and to get a reply from me please tell me one different fact about yourself which isn't in your profile and which most people wouldn't be able to tell about you, or just include the code word - Axel, it is up to you.

Hope to hear from you soon, take care x











Last Online:


 Submissive Female


 United Kingdom

 5' 3"

 260 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

 Lives For:



 Fine Dining


 Horseback Riding











 Intellectual Discourse

 Auto Racing


 Canes and Crops



 Horse Racing

 Curious About:




 Corner Time

 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Hair Pulling

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Plastic Wrap

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation


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Journal Entries:
8/6/2012 2:27:21 PM

Ill health has very bad timing, and therefore I am not sure how much I will be around in the near future due to medication.  I am not ignoring anyone or being rude I promise, just please bear with me.

7/12/2012 1:29:06 PM

Apologies to those I was chatting to and those that messaged me and never got a reply but I became completely snowed under and was unable to make it online to chat.  Anyway I am back now so feel free to send me another message.

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