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Gay Male Dominant, 51,  Huntsville, Alabama
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Daddycrash - photo 1

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I'm an avid reader, gamer, and all around nerd. I love music and usually look for answers to day-to-day issues in the random song lyrics that play while I am thinking about things. I value my friends and relationships over just about anything else, and I will go to the wall for my loved ones and will support them in damn near any area, even when I disagree with their actions and philosophies (though I do usually make my opinions known). I expect them to give me the same support (and criticism, as the case may be). Loyalty means a great deal to me.
I'm looking for one sub/slave to own and train, to grow in trust with him and make a life together. I'm not looking for a fantasy, and not looking for someone who believes in a fantasy. Its just not feasible to lock someone down 24/7, or to fuck them 24/7. Life requires more than that. Sub/slave will be dominated in all areas, don't think he won't, but sub/slave will have a voice that I expect him to use .. respectfully, of course. If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, shoot me a tell. I don't bite .. well, sometimes :-) To find out more about me, read my journal. It isn't long.
NOTE: Maybe I'm committing some sort of Dom faux pas here, but I like to fucked sometimes too, so any sub/slave interested should be able to penetrate on command.











Last Online:


 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Role Playing Games (Expert)


 Amusement Parks

 Movies (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)



 Domestic Service

 Massage (Getting)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial

 Spanking (Expert)


 Online RPGs (Expert)

 Rock Music



 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Gambling (Beginner)

 Garage Sales

 Bondage (Beginner)


 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Genital Punishment


 Hair Pulling




 Speech Restrictions


 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Eighties Music



 Bar Hopping



 Role Playing

 Theatrical Scenes





 Plastic Wrap

 Hip Hop Music


 Hard Limits:


 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Knife Play

 Medical Play

 Public Play


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Journal Entries:
1/12/2016 8:11:19 AM
Damn, have met another sub on here who was abandoned by his "Master" (I use the term loosely) because of "family issues".  I don't know the details and I don't want to know.  Suffice to say I've met a plethora of subs on here who have experienced that very thing, or have been kicked out because the "master" had to move and refused to take the sub along.  That is akin to adopting a kitten then dropping it off on the other side of town when it becomes inconvenient.  D/s relationships are just as important as any other kind, and when I finally find my boy its gonna take a lot more than "family issues" or disapproval to make me break a contract.

8/27/2014 7:38:00 PM
The second pic on my profile is a switch friend of mine.  I think he looks kinda hot with that dildo in his mouth.

3/25/2014 10:33:15 AM

Let me be clear about something. I was questioned (and rightly so) on my policy of "my sub/slave should trust me to set the limits". The key word in that phrase is "trust". I'm not looking for play scenes, but for a real D/s long-term (hopefully life long) relationship, and it not something that could be established in a couple of emails or phone calls. Our interests would have to be compatible, and any limits on both our parts would be discussed and decided BEFORE any contract is presented, and again at various points as the relationship progresses. Ideally, my sub should not HAVE to tell me "I don't like to be flogged and that is a hard limit" because by this time I should KNOW that, and because I KNOW that you don't like to be flogged its a pretty safe bet you won't like a bullwhip any better. So don't think I expect you to be okay with just anything. I will set the limits within the context of our understanding.

3/17/2014 6:22:17 PM

What I am NOT looking for:  sissies/crossdressers (there is a Master for you, I'm just not the one) ... pain pigs who fuck up just to get punished ... sluts who want to be loaned/rented out ... slaves who are running AWAY from something bad instead of running TOWARD something good ... pushy bottoms who want to control my control of them ... slaves who just want to be a houseboi (wish I could afford to support my boy, but I can't; he'll have to work outside the home) ... anyone who wants to die.

I want to be with someone who wants to be with me and me only. Someone who will give me their submission as a GIFT to be treasured and nurtured.  Someone who will trust me to set the limits for them, and will know that I will be responsible for their well being even and especially when their limits are being pushed.  Someone who understands and welcomes that slavery/submission is NOT all about the sex.

Someone who is SERIOUS about wanting this.  If you plan on jerking off to me for a few days or a week and then bailing out when you figure out I am serious, then go find another jerk off.

10/15/2013 9:57:25 PM

Single again, so instead of 2 doms looking for a sub its back down to just me looking. Thank God.

4/21/2013 8:27:26 PM

"I want to be forced to (insert kink here)."


If you WANT to be forced to do something, then you are trying to Dom from the bottom.


MASTERS decide what you do, NOT you.

1/1/2013 1:09:55 PM

Just an observation. Slaves have no limits. All limits should be set by the Dom/me.

5/31/2012 9:13:29 AM

I wish people would use contrasting background and text colors and larger text in their profiles. blue text this size on black background  is annoying to these old eyes :-)

5/3/2012 6:18:49 PM

Its funny ... most of the no pic profiles i've clicked on say that they will only respond to those whose profiles have a picture ...

4/24/2012 6:48:48 PM
Lot of pushy bottoms on this site. Reminds me of an old joke. The masochist cries, "Beat me! Beat me!," The sadist replies, "No."

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