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I found this on another profile, and it touched me, so I thought I'd share it with anyone passig through:
A confused submissive came before a wise Master who adored her. She felt that to submit to Him would mean she would open her heart to unbearable pain should He ever leave her. She hungered for Him and needed Him, but was ready to walk away in panic.
The gentle Master knelt her before Him and started a tale of love and devotion. As she looked up at Him His arms began to widen and open like a large tree, which stretches its branches to the sky.
At that moment the Master appeared rooted to the floor and His impressive size towered above her like a giant tree. Then He began to speak... "I'm here for you"... now and always no matter how far time and space takes U/us. Whether you walk away from Me today or you stay and serve Me I will not turn from you. I am as patient as time itself; I will take not from you unless you give freely and completely of yourself, but I give unto you regardless-- for My love is unconditional... Like the olive tree that can both feed you and shade you, I am there seemingly eternal to your short life on this earth. If you need My fruit to feed your hunger I will give you all the fruit you need. If your skin grows dry and loses its luster, the oil from My fruit will restore it and make it glisten. When you need comfort My leaves will gently caress your face with the slightest breeze.
When you need discipline My branches will correct you when the wind blows strong. If you just need My shade to protect you from the sun, My branches will shade and protect you. If you need warmth at night My fallen branches will fuel the fire to keep you warm and safe. If you need a refreshing breeze My leaves will fan you and cool you.
You are My gardener. When you submit to Me, you tend that which keeps Me vibrant and full of life. When you kneel under Me and till the soil, you give breath to My roots. When you water Me, My sap flows strong through Me raising My limping branches. When you soil yourself collecting fertilizer with your bare hands, you strengthen and humble Me with your devotion.
Although My life will go on, Life would not be the same without you. Your dedication and unconditional care for Me keeps Me vibrant and nurtures My very core. The sustenance and protection I give you seems little reward for your servitude. Still the gardener serves the tree from her heart and the tree in return gives to her heart all that He can!
I am planted firmly on the ground and cannot follow you if you walk away from Me.... But be assured I will survive. One hundred years later and two of your lifetimes; I will still be there, waiting for "you" in the same spot to offer you all that I do now. Stay with Me and be My gardener. You cannot get lost in Me for W/we are complementary to each other. I am your devotion, and you give meaning to My existence. Apart W/we live life and survive; T/together W/we bloom eternally!
As the Master finished His last words the sub cried herself to sleep at His feet. That night, He stood planted there like the Olive tree offering her His unconditional love and protection as she slept. As she would tend to Him with her devotion the next day... and everyday thereafter!
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It is said there is an an anchient Chinese curese 'May you live in interesting times". These are interesting times for me. I am looking to buy my first home and I'm blessed to be in a good financial situation to do so. The interesting part is what to do and how. There are areas of Southern California that have historically been out of reach, including a 2000 square foot home less than a half mile from the ocean in Rancho Palos Verdes. This economy has also left the remnants of other speculators and investors littering the market. In particular is one home that's 70% complete that could be would $850k when finished, but may go for as little at 400K in in its currently unlivable condition. To make matters more confusing, I am also presented with another option. That is that I have also managed to live responsibly and I could also purchase a rental property in Anaheim that would generate enough positive cashflow to cover 100% of my total living expenses. A common definition of wealth is that your passive income (that which is NOT tied to the number of hours you work) should EXCEED your living expenses (food, housing, medical, loans, and amusement). When your passive income will meet all your living expenses, working for a paycheck becomes an option and not a necessity. That's when you are able to get out of the ratrace.
The conservative choice would be to take care of my base needs first and separate my income from my paycheck. The hedonistic choice would be to choose the luxury house near the ocean knowing that when the housing market eventually turns around this will once again become a million dollar estate. The practical choice is to start with a fixer in a good location and make it into the home I want it to be. ..I will let you know what I decide to do. ...Does anyone else see a parallel in what type of relationship partner you choose? One that's all about looks and enjoyment, another that wants to finished and made beautiful, yet another that can take care of you.
Building a home certainly has many parallels to a relationship: You must have a strong foundation. In D/s, that's foundation is TUST. With trust you can build anything, without it, ...nothing. Having a foundation of trust is therefore vital and must be built of the strongest of "stuff". With that solid foundation, you can make something beautiful that will provide comfort, safety and enjoyment for a lifetime. The next step is to add the framework which is the structure the home that makes up the walls and roof. Daddy Doms love to provide structure by the way. A well planned rigid structure doesn't waver in even the most uncertain winds and has the power to weather the strongest of storms. The structure must also be designed to be appropriate and tailored to the needs of it's users. While remaining unyielding, it must also be comfortable to live in, usable, enjoyable and suitable to the tastes of its users. The structure must also contain all the hidden esential internal things that make it work that are usually hidden from the everyday world. For a home those its all the hidden, wires, ducts and plumbing behind the walls that make everything work. In a loving D/s relationship its the respect, communication, love, power and passion that the everyday world doesn't see, and probably wouldn't even understand), but are certainly essential. The next step is the adding the coverings, and the trim. While this what the everyday world sees, it's only the outer layer. and what's visible on the surface. What every good little girl knows is that its what's inside that makes a home a home.
I suppose I just needed to get this down in writing to make sense of it, thank you all for reading and feel free to share your comments.
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Text below is something I admired and wanted to share, because I think it may shed some light and give some insight.
Daddy Doms by Kendra
Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. In my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. We do not engage in age play specifically ( beyond the occasional school girl fantasy *s*) and our relationship is not based on any need to have sex with children. I am always all woman, and always a very independent woman.
He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a very cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. Daddy Dom is a feeling, an environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides.
So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom?
A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline.
His love for his little girl goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him. This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his little girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it’s value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him.
He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust, she must know he means what he says. If his little girl is going to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.
If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.
This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined. A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To him she is beautiful.
I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants crave.
There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom, baby girl relationship.
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Why are DaddyDom relationships taboo? It is because they are the most secret of relationships, simply because no one wants to admit to it or discuss them openly. These relationships are mentioned in quiet whispers because they have hints of incest, but in reality, nothing could be further from the truth. Though often shrouded in secrecy, they are in reality the MOST trusting and caring of the various types of D/s relationships, not just because of the level of trust that is built, but because it's based on: Nurturing, Teaching, Healing and Love as opposed to stopping at a superficial fetish or sexual need. Daddy's girl relationships also offer an opportunity to learn, grow and get in touch with the simplicity of childhood and your innermost joy. It's a chance to build self-esteem and know that you have someone who genuinely cares for you, (without getting their dick sucked). For those women, who did not have wonderful lives as girls, this is also the opportunity to do it right the second time (...now that you are in a position to know that the first time may not have been 'exactly' perfect).
To begin, let's start with you as a little girl. It's will be all about YOU, learning to be "Daddy's girl", finding out what makes you a "good girl", what you need to be happiest, and who you should be... You are already curious about this type of relationship and feel a certain overwhelming draw to it, so I want to feed that thirst for knowledge and give you the guidance, structure and strength you needed back when you grew up the first time. It's also possible you've been in this type of relationship before, (even if it was a short one), and already know this is for you. You realize it could have a depth and warmth of a real relationship that wasn't based on having to "put out" and you are indeed much more than your vagina, and you have a lot more to offer and share. You may or may not quite understand why you need a Daddy, but you desire and need it like you need food or air. Whether you are comfortable with your own submissive self, or you are just discovering your inner child, you are ready to take this step to develop and just explore your desires in a warm and accepting environment where you will not be judged. You like the idea of being told what to do, how to act and getting spanked (...the secretary turns you on so much). You want to be tied and bound, but you also want to be set free like you were before you were part of the everyday world. Damn it, you want your dreams back! You want opportunity to learn the way you did as a child, to come to Daddy when you are hurting, to get all your questions answered, to have your curiousity nurtured, to be loved and cared for unconditionally, to know that even if you messed up, Daddy could make everything all better, and make you feel good again. Yes, you may still want to dress in lace and leather and be a big girl sometimes, but you also want to wear and cuddle up on the couch with your Daddy while he feeds you popcorn and you share a movie at home. You are in need of guidance, training and firm hand, you want to submit totally and completely. You want to become collared and have the total safety and security of your OWN Daddy, and know that you never have to share or be shared. You want to give yourself over to the RIGHT daddy who will care for you, but you have doubts and fears that hold you back from what you want most. You wish to serve, to be obedient to have someone else tell you that you have value and to teach you about your body and to train you to be the best you can be. You want to be a little slut for your daddy and him alone. You want to give your heart to the RIGHT man, and know you will be cherished for it.
...Now go, Daddy is waiting for his little girl
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I've been asked a few questions about who I am and what I do, so I thought I might answer them here: I am a successful Project Manager/Engineer currently in charge of multi-million dollar projects for a major world known company. Though I am single and have no children, I am a dedicated to my family and friends and I am looking forward to expanding this care to a special woman. Although I have chose not to have children of my own at this time of my life, I would welcome them into my everday life. I do not just say but I do what I say especially when it comes to morals and integrity. I a man of his word and trust is at utmost important to me and that goes both ways. I am creative and love to explore new ventures. At this time in my life I would love to share the new adventures that life have to offer with “the” special someone in my life and cherish them together for the rest of our lives. |
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A young Dom and an Old Master were walking near a rushing river one day when the young Dom says, “I have had my little one (youngest sub) for almost 3 years and I still I can’t control her.” “Can you tell me what am I doing wrong Sir?” The old Master paused for a second and said, “A sub is a lot like a rushing river; if you want the river to bend to your will you don’t stand in the middle of it trying to confront it head on… even the strongest of beings haven fallen to its influence. But, if you give the river a different path to follow and guidance along that path it will surely follow your direction.” “But” the young Dom said bewildered “its the high walls that keep the river under control… how do I create the walls that will control my sub Sir?” The Old Master shook his head solemnly and sighed, “ Is it the walls that got higher or did the river carve its way deeper into the path?” The young Dom’s eyes opened wide as the old Master continued… “Let the river run along the path that you have laid and it will carve out its own prison…. the key is to control the path not the river.” |
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I found this message in response to the question of the difference between submissive woman verses slave.
This one has been kicked about on kink boards and by many for as long as I can remember -- and of course, just about everyone has their own definition. Now, many feel the difference between "sub" and "slave" is the slave consents to give up all control of her life to her "Master", where the sub (submissive) consents to give up only certain portions of her life to serve her Dom (Dominant). Thus, you have the two dynamics: the Master/slave (or M/s) dynamic and the Dom/sub (or D/s) dynamic. (But note: "D/s" is also short for Domination and submission, just depends on the context in which it's being used.)
As such, many view the slave as consenting to give up more control of her life than the sub, with some arguing that the slave then trusts her Master more than the sub trusts her Dom because the sub is giving up less control than the slave. This of course causes all kinds of disagreements between those who refer to themselves as subs or slaves because the subs maintain they trust their Doms just as much as the slaves trust their Masters -- the sub simply elects not to give up control over ALL aspects of her life, where the slave does. Thus, perceiving the difference between sub and slave in this way implies the slave has given up her goals, career, interests, etc. in favor of serving her Master's wants and needs -- leaving many to classify themselves as "sub" instead of "slave" because they desire a career, a life, and so forth.
Essentially, the vast majority view a slave as living a life of service to her Master, and not her own -- of course, this is based on the dictionary definition of "slavery" at its most basic level. However, given we ALL know that BDSM is CONSENSUAL, in reality there are no REAL slaves or Masters under the dictionary definitions of Master and slave. As such, it's often her physical actions (i.e., following orders, sexual and non-sexual service, limitations upon her freedom, and so forth) that many view as slave-like behavior. In my opinion, this is where many get it wrong -- as it's not the PHYSICAL, but the MENTAL/EMOTIONAL that separates the two.
Personally, here's how I view the sub/slave thing... To be a slave does NOT mean that one is tied up in a cellar somewhere, kneeling 24/7 in cuffs, or giving up her dreams, career, educational and/or vocational pursuits, aspirations, etc. While many kinksters think that's what it means to be a "slave", I disagree. For me, being a "slave" or being "slave-wired" is simply a MINDSET... it goes to where her PRIMARY motivations, happiness, and so forth begin and end -- where her PRIMARY fulfillment is derived from.
A sub, though submissive, tends to primarily focus on (or give equal weight to) HER fulfillment from submitting to another, where a slave tends receive her PRIMARY fulfillment from HER MASTER's pleasure from her submission -- it's where the focus is, and has ZERO to do with any particular activity(ies). It's all MENTAL/EMOTIONAL... where does her PRIMARY fulfillment come from? From HER submission, or HIS pleasure in her submission. If it's the latter, then that's slave-wired. Note: I'm not stating a "sub" does not seek to please her Dom, nor am I stating a "slave" does not receive pleasure from her service, it's simply where the PRIMARY focus is.
Okay, another example... picture two girls kneeling. Just looking at the two, the action itself (i.e., the physical act of kneeling) is the SAME. So which is the sub and which is the slave? You can't tell, can you? Again, that's because it has ZERO to do with the physical -- it's all mental/emotional. If she's kneeling because her submission gives HER pleasure to do so, she's likely a "sub". However, if she's kneeling because her fulfillment is derived from pleasing her Master -- again, she's focused on the pleasure HE receives from her submission and from her service -- then she's likely a "slave". Make sense?!!
Unfortunately, many girls will shy away from the term "slave" because of the silly connotations and nonsense the fantasy folks associate with it about losing all of her freedoms, goals, aspirations, and so forth. But again, the physical does not a slave make -- it's the mental/emotional. Thus, a "slave" absolutely CAN have a life of her own, a career, outside interests, and so on, as these things and being a slave are NOT in any way mutually exclusive. We're all people first and anything else second.
And please note, neither sub or slave is better or worse than the other, just different.
Limits
All (both subs and slaves alike) have "limits" (i.e., those activities they do NOT consent to participate in, or are not ready to push), and like anything else, where one's limits are and what they are comfortable pushing comes with both time and TRUST -- as well as communication and commitment. For me, those are the BIG THREE... Communication, Commitment and Trust -- all of which leading to love.
Communication = If you can't freely talk about everything, you have nothing. There's no such thing as toughing it out. That's the WORST thing many bottoms do. We're not mind-readers, so if something's going on in your head or heart, you must share it -- and without fear of reprisal or loss.
Commitment = If there's no commitment to the relationship, it's doomed. Training another, for example, is a TON of work. If she's of the "I don't feel like submitting today" sort, then she's broken her promise and commitment. Same holds true for him. If he's to be her Top/Dom/Master/Owner or whatever, then he now has a RESPONSIBILITY to her, and can't be too busy to hear her.
Trust = Comfort in knowing (on both sides) the other would never intentionally hurt you (mentally, emotionally, or physically), or violate the aforementioned "commitment" that's been established to lead or follow.
Many don't get (or may even disagree with) the above... but in my opinion, the vast majority of those that call themselves "Doms" or "Masters" on kink sites are fakes or wannabes anyway, and who can't cut-it with a strong, independent "vanilla" woman, so they go online, learn a few buzz-words, pick up a pair of dark sunglasses, leather pants, check the "Toppy" button in their profile, and POOF... instant Master of the Universe. In short, they turn to the sub/slave girls thinking they won't challenge their already fragile egos, thinking they'll roll-over at the drop of a hat and commence humping their leg. Idiots. They see the Power Exchange Dynamic as only flowing in one direction. It doesn't... both are cut from the same cloth, just from different ends -- and with HER commitment, follows HIS responsibility to (and for) her.
But note, there are just as many fake and wannabe femsubs/femslaves as well, as there are those that seek to PLAY THE ROLE of sub/slave and those that ACCEPT (and ARE) a sub/slave. For those that are the "real deal", they know what they need to be happy, have made a choice of service to (and use by) another, and understand that with her choice follow responsibilities of her own -- to both herself and to him. There's no taking the day off from being his -- she either is, or she isn't -- and she TRUSTS that he would never intentionally abuse or betray that trust, or her heart. But she also understands and accepts that he will likely know what's best for her, even when she can't see it. That's trust. Any girl can submit when she WANTS to... it's the one that submits when she DOESN'T want to that separates the players from those that are truly prepared to belong to another.
Use vs Abuse
With reference to the aforementioned "abuse" above, I've never quite understood why some (not all) tend to abuse their sub/slave girl -- mentally, emotionally, or physically? I mean, from a Top's perspective... he's spent time training her to be PERFECT for him, he values her use, service, and self-sacrifice (because submission/slavery is a CHOICE, and he'd have booted her out the door if she didn't please him), and likely finds her beautiful. So, why abuse one that has WILLINGLY given you so much?!!
Yeah, yeah, yeah... I know about the whole she's his "property" thing and all. But c'mon... if he "owned" a Ferrari (just as he "owns" her), is that not too his "property" -- and one that also provides use, service and holds great value? I'll bet he wouldn't intentionally damage his Ferrari, so why intentionally damage her -- again, either mentally, emotionally, or physically? Now add to this that she likely LOVES her Dom/Master. So, he's going to abuse that which he's invested so much time and energy in, the one that's surrendered her use and service to him, and more often than not also loves him?!! Just doesn't make sense to me. Instead, I say feed her mind, fill her heart, show her she's the most important thing in the world to you, and she'll give you TEN-FOLD what her fearful, insecure, abused counterpart will ever be capable of offering.
Monogamy vs Polygamy vs Fidelity
In its simplest terms, "monogamy" is a relationship/dynamic involving two people (the couple), where "polygamy" (or "poly") is a relationship/dynamic involving more than the two primary people. But note, if the primary/core couple occasionally adds a third person (male or female), and all parties involved are completely aware of the third person, then that too is often termed a "monogamous" relationship/dynamic -- sometimes even termed, "Monogamous, but with room for play", so there has been no breach in fidelity. For me personally, once she has consented to become mine, then no man will ever put his hands on her again, nor have I ever betrayed a girl's trust in my life.
However, for those that seek more than one partner (even on an occasional basis), the Power Exchange Dynamic can leave room for this. Thus, in my humble opinion, there is simply NO REASON TO EVER CHEAT!!! That's why it's important to make clear what you're seeking (or comfortable with) from the very beginning. If you want monogamy, then say so... if you want poly, then say so... if you're comfortable with something somewhere in between, then say so as well. But to attempt to change the rules on your partner at some point down the road is not only dishonorable, but hurtful in the extreme. And as to the alleged Doms/Masters out there who do this and/or who cheat on their sub/slave, they are anything but a "Dom" or "Master". Cheating is a lack of self-control, and a poor quality in ANY person -- let alone in one who calls themselves a "Dom" or "Master".
Whether you are a sub or slave, the relationship/dynamic is about TRUST and CONSENT. As such, if you have NOT consented to share (or be shared), then consent has not been given, and your trust has been violated. Consensual non-consent is one thing, where respect is another... and violating trust (via cheating, or being cheated on) is no different than violating a "hard limit" -- and anyone doing so has not only disrespected their partner, but violated their trust.
The Gift
Finally, there is much disagreement with those in Kinkville USA about whether or not her submission is a "gift" or not. On one side of the fence are those that feel her submission is no more a gift than his Dominance is a gift to her -- thinking, if she's submissive (be it sub, slave, or whatever), then she's simply being herself (just as he's being himself), which does not qualify as a "gift". Also, many view the whole "submission as a gift" thing as giving her too much power/control in the relationship/dynamic, as it's giving her submission "value", so to speak, where none is often deserved/desired by either person.
Now, on the other side of the fence, you have those that feel her submission is, in fact, a gift because if it wasn't, then she'd freely give it to the world, as opposed to the one she's consented to give that control over her heart, mind, body, service and use to. It's NOT seen as "giving her too much power/control", but that SHE HERSELF -- not her specific/physical acts of submission -- is both important to him and that he is proud to call her his. Personally, I fall into this group and feel the mistake the other group fails to recognize is that SHE TOO views him as a gift in her life. For me, she is not just my sub/slave, but my friend, lover, joy, passion, and in time.... possibly even my wife.
In short, she is both everything and nothing at the same time, gives me as much purpose as I give her, and together we build a HEALTHY relationship -- with the Power Exchange dynamic acting as a backdrop and means to simply define our roles to each other in all aspects of our relationship and life together.
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"He who wants a rose must respect the thorn." |
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A young couple were making passionate love in the guy's
van -- you know, shag carpets, big double bed in the back, all of that
-- and suddenly the girl, being a bit on the kinky side, yells out, "Oh Master, whip me! Please whip me!" Well, the Dom, not wanting to pass up
an opportunity like that, but unsure what to do as he has no whips
around, gets an inspired flash, opens one window, snaps the antenna off
his van, and proceeds to whip the girl until they both collapse in
sado-masochistic ecstasy.
Almost a week later the girl notices that the welts she sustained
are beginning to fester a bit and goes to her doctor. The doctor takes
one look at the wounds and exclaims, "Wow! Looks like you've got a bad
case of Vanaerial disease!"
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"Loving someone is giving them the ability to destroy you.. But trusting them not to" I read this in someone else's profile and it touched me so I thought I would share it with anyone passing by... |
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From Kahlil Gibran 1883-1931
For you can only be free when even the desire of seeking freedom becomes a harness to you, and when you cease to speak of freedom as a goal and a fulfillment.
You shall be free indeed when your days are not without a care nor your nights without a want and a grief,
But rather when these things girdle your life and yet you rise above them naked and unbound.
And how shall you rise beyond your days and nights unless you break the chains which you at the dawn of your understanding have fastened around your noon hour?
In truth that which you call freedom is the strongest of these chains, though its links glitter in the sun and dazzle the eyes.
And what is it but fragments of your own self you would discard that you may become free?
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And if it is a care you would cast off, that care has been chosen by you rather than imposed upon you.
And if it is a fear you would dispel, the seat of that fear is in your heart and not in the hand of the feared.
Verily all things move within your being in constant half embrace, the desired and the dreaded, the repugnant and the cherished, the pursued and that which you would escape.
These things move within you as lights and shadows in pairs that cling.
And when the shadow fades and is no more, the light that lingers becomes a shadow to another light.
And thus your freedom when it loses its fetters becomes itself the fetter of a greater freedom. |
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You are curled at my feet, eyes sweetly lowered, your knees softly bent, sighing contentedly with the heat of my breath on your neck as you draw in my scent.
Cocooning you in your own safe velvet darkness as I cover your eyes, immersing you in my power as the tips of fingernails trace ever ever softening circles into your thighs.
In offering all that you are, you become part of greater, something much more, and suddenly all at once you are my revered princess, my sweet little girl, and my beautiful whore.
My power combined with yours brings so much more meaning to life, the purity of love, power and intensity cuts the stress of the mundane just like a knife.
My pride pulsing as you grant me the honor of giving you that release found in your pain, knowing unless you can offer all that you are, then there's no point in doing and nothing to gain.
My promise to keep you safe is even stronger than the silken ropes in which you are bound, lovingly tied and cradled in my embrace where both our happiness is found.
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Why do I do to you the things I must, fusing pain, power and trust to satiate this most intimate lust. Many a night this question my mind ponders, and so too finding the source of my torment where it most often wanders, ...and oh hours this query squanders. To have you trust me with your very life, brings such power, joy and also too this paradoxical strife. As a man of honor, how can I cause pain for the one who gives me so much, teasing and tormenting with my whip's delicate touch. Striking down your walls the to release the meaning found in pain, in awe of your surrender and the serenity you gain. Granting you freedom from choice as you are bound, this too is where Master's joy is found. It is a Master's joy to share your journey into light, seeing you struggle with what matters as you struggle against your bonds with all of your might. Service brings greater meaning, its so much more than play and much more than pointless scening. It's Master's joy is being in awe of the power I create, and to have in my life this special joy, is my most desired fate. Helping you rise like a rose from the thorns I give total release, and here too I do find my peace. Truly in awe of the strength to surrender such power, its a Master's joy to be the frame that supports such your growth and brings bush to flower Admiring the rose petals in misty air, its beauty released in countless hours of nurturing equisite care. It is a Masters pride simply to have shared in such a wondrous joy
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I've spoken with a number of submissives about whether its really possible to meet someone on CollarMe. What I tell them is that its really all about letting me know who they are and vice versa. Do we have common values? Do you see being a slave and someone WORTHY of total care and affection as an HONOR? Are you intelligent in the same way that I am? Do we have things in common, both in terms of D/s and outside of it? Are you honest, polite, sincere, sweet?
I have given this many years of thought and developed carefully what I demand. My perfect ROSE is Respect, Obedience, Service, and Empowerment to make your life (and consequently mine) much better. If you want to know my acronym for what I offer in return, just ask...
I am looking for someone who will be open to me and who embraces my need to nurture, love, and lavish with affection. Sometimes you will be my servant, sometimes you will lay your head on my lap watching movies, or I may take you shopping so I can play dress up with you too. I seek someone who will take the time to learn me, and learn me again, and with joy learn me yet again.
If you are what I'm looking for, you are fulfilled offering service, happily knowing that you have made my day happier or more pleasant.
Know that I find it incredibly erotic when you offer yourself to me and willingly reveal to me your vulnerabilities. I'm looking for a girl who gets soft inside when thinking of kneeling before a Master, who finds fulfillment in serving and creating joy.
I also take pleasure in sensual domination and lots of kissing. I love to kiss, hug and to hold. I believe in sexual domination as part of a package, but certainly not the most important part.
I am a caring person, and this shows in my domination. I rarely raise my voice, and never show anger, but I do get my way. I look for a submissive who wants to make me proud. I INSIST that you feel good about giving yourself to me. I am a safe person to be with, and I've even earned some very respectful references. If you want real abuse, I'm the wrong person for you. A good submissive isn't worthless -- she's priceless!
Nothing defines a submissive more than your desire to please someone other than yourself. Period. If this notion makes you smile shyly with pleasure, feel tingly, breathless or get aroused, then PLEASE!!!! do get in touch.
Do you want to obey? To be a sweet possession? To unabashedly devote yourself to someone else's desires?
Please be abundantly intelligent, sweet, and loving. I like creativity, playfulness, and a sincerity regarding submission that ripens into devotion. Old-fashioned politeness is a joy to behold. I will mold your manners to what I want them to be, but I also observe you to see how you behave in your approach. Honesty is crucial, for so many reasons. |
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Age: 22 |
Chicago,
Illinois |
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